emorse:

You just killed the argument bro. Pavlov rang a bell before feeding his dog. Both stimuli were made to accompany each other hence, the dog over time tied them together subconciosly. Note, BOTH STIMULI WERE PRESENT.

Now, you don't do anything even remotely sexual after being spanked on the bottom in school so where does the sexual stimulus come from?

emorse:

Hahahaha! If you've ever taught in a school, you'll know better. And I'm not talking about brutal beating like animals o. Sometimes, just the sight of the cane is enough.

thebosstrevor1:

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beauty7:


Sir, please don't even argue with them.

I can testify that some people here in Nairaland only come here to argue, not that they believe what they are saying.

It is kind of energizing to them.

Some of them would wake up weak and depressed.

In order to curtail some of the depression and weakness, they would log into Nairaland and the first topic that caught their attention, they would start arguing, pouring out so much bile,curses and bitterness,


all in a bid to stir up adrenaline.


I have read about something like that before.

So someone should not follow them to argue because it is not about trying to convince them.


They don't come to be convinced, but to argue.


It is not important to them whether what you are saying is true or not.


What is important to them is that there is someone who is willing to argue with them.


This argument helps to stir them up, and reduce some of their depression.


The happiness of this topic is that I have given people the opportunity to stir up adrenaline and reduce depression.


I have also given people the opportunity to be their real selves.


Here in Nairaland, toxic and negative people are given the opportunity to belch out curses, hatred and negativity.


In real life, most people are full of hate and toxicity which they hide under religious pretence.


But I have succeeded in giving them the opportunity to vomit some of the toxicity and hatred which will reduce the depression which those who hate have.


Everyone who hate has depression, according to some research.


Maybe, pouring out their hatred in Nairaland may reduce some of their depression.

thebosstrevor1:


Don't be bothered by them, just have a thick skin.

If you really believe in something, just share your point with everyone, engage those that are curious and ignore those that just want to abuse and channel their frustrations towards you, those are the ones even in real life, you should avoid with all your might and power. They can infect you with their frustration.

thebosstrevor1:


Do you know about pavlov classic conditioning.

Let me explain it a little,

Pavlov concluded that if a particular stimulus in the dog's surroundings was present when the dog was given food then that stimulus could become associated with food and cause salivation on its own.

The result is that Pavlov's dog learned to salivate whenever it hears the sound of a bell.

Use this idea ( pavlov classical conditioning) to understand the link between spanking and sexuality

Because of conditioning, some people will associate the spanking with pleasure while some will associate it with pain.

beauty7:


Sir, please don't even argue with them.

I can testify that some people here in Nairaland only come here to argue, not that they believe what they are saying.

It is kind of energizing to them.

Some of them would wake up weak and depressed.

Or some of them would be feeling totally depressed at any time of the day.

In order to curtail some of the depression and weakness, they would log into Nairaland and the first topic that caught their attention, they would start arguing, pouring out so much bile,curses and bitterness,


all in a bid to stir up adrenaline.


I have read about something like this before.

So someone should not follow them to argue because it is not about trying to convince them.


They don't come to be convinced, but to argue.


It is not important to them whether what you are saying is true or not.


What is important to them is that there is someone who is willing to argue with them.


This argument helps to stir them up, and reduce some of their depression.


The happiness of this topic is that I have given people the opportunity to stir up adrenaline and reduce depression.


I have also given people the opportunity to be their real selves.


Here in Nairaland, toxic and negative people are given the opportunity to belch out curses, hatred and negativity.


In real life, most people are full of hate and toxicity which they hide under religious pretence.


But I have succeeded in giving them the opportunity to vomit some of the toxicity and hatred which will reduce the depression which those who hate have.


Everyone who hate has depression, according to some research.


Maybe, pouring out their hatred in Nairaland may reduce some of their depression.

Domistar5:


There is nothing like sexualize. This is science and the truth.

Juliusmalema2:
I doubt that of beating on the buttocks for guys. I have never had erection while been flogged on my buttocks, the pain alone no be here.

emorse:

I have absolutely no idea how the bolded came to be. But your question below suggests to me that neither do you.

My point is simple. I have experienced some serious ass spanking and it had absolutely no sexual effect on me. And from evidence on this thread, I'm not alone.

SUPERPACK:
Bro, I am yet to see a student getting pleasure from being flogged, lets stop watching too much porn and associating them with real life. [b]Have you ever seen a Nigerian paying to be flogged because of pleasure? [/b]Stop judging teens with whag you see on adult movies.

beauty7:
Some people are angry over what I have written.

But this is true.

I have an experience where a man used to come to me and asked me to lie him down and beat his buttocks.


I would remove all his clothes,lay him down and used a flat rubber to beat him.

I initially thought it would be painful to him, so I did it reluctantly.

But he encouraged me to beat him.

But when I beat him,his penis would get bigger,as he rubbed his bottom and shouted. Sometimes I masturbated him and he released while under great arousal arising from the beating.


He said as he is lying down,he imagines himself lying down with other boys whose buttocks are to be beaten.

We were very close in those days and he told me everything.


He told me he loved it so much because right from childhood,his parents and teachers


beat him on the buttocks until he becomes addicted to being beaten on the buttocks.


It was because of him I started doing research and found out what I wrote above.



If under anonymity, someone cannot still speak his or her mind,then the person is very miserable.


That's why I am not afraid to share what I learned, afterall no one knows me



Good night.

jumper524:
Arrant rubbish.
The researcher need 500strokes of koboko on his back.. Rubbish.

Akporo1234:
What I will encourage everyone above me doubting this post is to go make research before coming here to make noise.
Honestly, I have not heard bout this normally but I'm going to read more about this right now. That's how an educated person should behave; not coming here and making useless noise for your own ignorance.

beauty7:
Some people are angry over what I have written.

But this is true.

I have an experience where a man used to come to me and asked me to lie him down and beat his buttocks.


I would remove all his clothes,lay him down and used a flat rubber to beat him.

I initially thought it would be painful to him, so I did it reluctantly.

But he encouraged me to beat him.

But when I beat him,his penis would get bigger,as he rubbed his bottom and shouted. Sometimes I masturbated him and he released while under great arousal arising from the beating.


He said as he is lying down,he imagines himself lying down with other boys whose buttocks are to be beaten.

We were very close in those days and he told me everything.


He told me he loved it so much because right from childhood,his parents and teachers


beat him on the buttocks until he becomes addicted to being beaten on the buttocks.


It was because of him I started doing research and found out what I wrote above.



If under anonymity, someone cannot still speak his or her mind,then the person is very miserable.


That's why I am not afraid to share what I learned, afterall no one knows me



Good night.

Newton2024:
While the female part may be true, I can tell you that of male part is not true. When I a boy, I received countless strokes on my buttocks without experiencing what you wrote here. As a teacher, I don't like beating my students at all let alone on the buttocks.

HenryDion:


Forget cane... There are better ways to deal with kids... And have them do your bidding.

constance500:
This thing never cross my mind for once until now... Na una dey spoil person mind sef..

600 years for any mod that pushss this thread to fp

Akporo1234:
What I will encourage everyone above me doubting this post is to go make research before coming here to make noise.
Honestly, I have not heard bout this normally but I'm going to read more about this right now. That's how an educated person should behave; not coming here and making useless noise for your own ignorance.

thebosstrevor1:

No sir i didn't kill the argument. The point you are missing is that pavlov experiment on the dog took months for it to be successful. At the end,The dog associated the bell to mean food.

thebosstrevor1:
Another point you are missing is that the results did not happen in the present but in the future.
It is also similar with human, later in the future, the person might associate pain with sexual arousal or abuse..

thebosstrevor1:
Do you know that some men can't get an erection if they don't listen to romantic music during sex. That person has associated sexual pleasure with romantic music.

Do you also know that some men can't get an erection if they don't wear condom.

The mind works in mysterious ways, as i have written before, your environment influences your sex life. sex involves, smell, seeing, touches, hearing and listening, you will be suprised the type of things that make people get aroused because of their past experience

Kondomatic:
And how did you know that all the people in disagreement with the post have not made their own research?

If you discover after your research that the OP was wrong, would you come here to disagree/correct her (which is what these people are already doing) or will shut up and term it how educated person behaves?

We all received some hard intense beating on our buttons while in school no, what we experienced was pain not some sexual stimulation.

So some don't need any other research aside their own personal experience.

The poster herself carried her own research on one sick man.

The increasing level of sexual perversion these days will soon make calling people on phone by 7pm a sexual offense.

beauty7:


Sir, please don't even argue with them.

I can testify that some people here in Nairaland only come here to argue, not that they believe what they are saying.

It is kind of energizing to them.

Some of them would wake up weak and depressed.

Or some of them would be feeling totally depressed at any time of the day.

In order to curtail some of the depression and weakness, they would log into Nairaland and the first topic that caught their attention, they would start arguing, pouring out so much bile,curses and bitterness,


all in a bid to stir up adrenaline.


I have read about something like this before.

So someone should not follow them to argue because it is not about trying to convince them.


They don't come to be convinced, but to argue.


It is not important to them whether what you are saying is true or not.


What is important to them is that there is someone who is willing to argue with them.


This argument helps to stir them up, and reduce some of their depression.


The happiness of this topic is that I have given people the opportunity to stir up adrenaline and reduce depression.


I have also given people the opportunity to be their real selves.


Here in Nairaland, toxic and negative people are given the opportunity to belch out curses, hatred and negativity.


In real life, most people are full of hate and toxicity which they hide under religious pretence.


But I have succeeded in giving them the opportunity to vomit some of the toxicity and hatred which will reduce the depression which those who hate have.


Everyone who hate has depression, according to some research.


Maybe, pouring out their hatred in Nairaland may reduce some of their depression.

emorse:

I'll be glad if you can share some bro. Maybe there's something I haven't tried before.

HenryDion:


It's simple. When they do something wrong, ignore them. When they do right, reward them.

Reward can come in form of a praise, or a treat...

When you reward them for being good, they will do more of it to get a reward.

It comes to a point where doing good becomes a habit, where you don't have to constantly reward them to maintain that good behaviour.

Training a dog taught me that...

Cane or flogging only makes them fear you .. and that's not a good.

They shouldn't fear you...

emorse:

I think you're ruling out external influences like peer pressure, social media, etc. It's not that simple bro. Because as much as rewarding them for doing right works, it's incomplete without punishing them for doing wrong. They should have a blend of respect, love and of course, fear in them.

Get a job as a part time teacher in a secondary school for one month and I'm sure you'll see things as I see them.

HenryDion:


Flogging them does nothing other than make them fear you.

If you want to make them your friend, and influence them more than their peers, that's the strategy to use.

When they don't fear you, that's when they are able to open up to you about anything... I mean, ANYTHING.

I have had kids under my care, and I've never had issues with my strategy.

It's all psychology bro. Flogging does nothing other than make them FEAR you.

emorse:

Well, it's good to know that it works for you. My reward and consequence system also works for me. I make them my friends but also make them understand that I won't condone their excesses and they love me like that.

HenryDion:


What they will be doing is pretend when around you, to avoid your anger or being flogged.

This will make them hold back things they probably should have shared with you, for fear they might anger you, which could inevitably lead to another flogging.

The only scenario where flogging works is when working with a horse. Anyway, to each his own.

emorse:

I stated in the post you quoted that "over time, the dog tied both stimuli(the sound of the bell and food) together". It takes approximately 6 weeks to form a new habit.
Same point as above. It takes time.

The results of tying TWO DIFFERENT STIMULI together over TIME.

You should see now that I understand you perfectly.

Now try to get my point. When a child is caned, the only stimulus present at the time is pain so he/she cannot tie it to a non-existent sexual stimulus. Hence, anyone who has a sexual problem should trace it's roots to a different point because the only way a person can tie pain to sexual pleasure is from previous experiences(engaging in BDSM) OVER A PERIOD OF TIME.