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I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 7:28pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
I earn 180k presently at my present place of work, and I also have a business center I also run too which compliment my job. But I just got a job offer from my Uncle the pay is 350k plus other benefits. The issue here is my wife is not in support of the offer, she said with my job and my business we are doing ok for now plus her business too. The issue has brought some disagreements between us the past few days. Please family should I stick to my wife's advice or still try and convince her let's relocate? Please advice a brother. Thanks. Modify: Thank u so much Nairalanders/Family my Wife has finally agreed for us to relocate to Jos, after much heart to heart conversation, understanding and calculation we arrived at an indisputable agreement. I actually took some hints/advice I got here and add to my own evaluations and everything works out WELL. Thank u all for all ur contributions. I base in Warri presently will be relocating to Jos by the end of the Month. God Bless u all and Meet u at the point of ur need. 1 Like |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Bankowner: 7:39pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
A man needs three things to make it in life. 1. Self determination 2. Unflinching support 3. The grace of God. You may not be earning much from your hustle right now but with self determination and dedication you can improve on your business. The good thing is you have the support of your wife to grow your own business and manage the much you’re making alongside her income. And I like your wife, she doesn’t want a split family. Above all, pray ceaselessly for the grace of the Almighty on the work of your hands. God is the only one that blesses. May God be with your family. 3 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
With the security situation in the Jos municipal, i urge you to listen to your wife. 2 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 8:32pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Bankowner: Thank u very much, I appreciate ur advise. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by MARKone(m): 8:39pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
destiny4luv: Let her stay in your present location, since she has a business doing, and let her manage your business center too, while you go to Jos, be sending her money and endeavour to visit once or twice in a month. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 8:49pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
[quote author=MARKone post=106854457] Let her stay in your present location, since she has a business doing, and let her manage your business center too, while you go to Jos, be sending her money and endeavour to visit once or twice in a month. I suggested same idea, but she refused. She said it's a matter of time B4 I get another wife over there since I will be spending most of my time there. Though she knows am not the cheating type, but she just won't agree with that idea. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Sonnobax15(m): 8:57pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Just like someone has already advised you, about the insecurities in jos...Op,I think listening and seeing reasons with your wife won't be a bad idea......If na me self,pay me #1m to go work for Jos,I no go take am |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
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Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Dailyparrot: 9:04pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
The moderator that banned me, all I can say is "YOUR FATHER" 2 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by yunqdady: 9:05pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Jo's is safer than your present location. Don't let all these people scare you away |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by mariahAngel(f): 9:06pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Op, do you have a child (children)? You should reason with your wife because the issue here is not just about the money, your stability as a family is involved too and you wouldn't want that disrupted (there are so many uncertainties). Unless you plan on taking your family along to start life over there. Also, I believe you're doing well as it is sha. 1 Like |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Whyzaid(f): 9:12pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Everything is not money my brother 4 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Yeah, I have three lovely kids 2boys and a girl. She said she is not going to Jos because of the insecurity over there and the stress of starting over again. But according to my Uncle he said the place is safe and secured, he has been there for over 20years now, all these my wife is aware of but she still stand her ground. She said she is very ok here and she is not complaining and I should feel same too. With the benefits added to the job I will be taking home 450k to 500k home monthly plus I still have time for myself compare to my present job which barely gives me spare time. But Madam nor still agree. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by mariahAngel(f): 9:46pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
destiny4luv: I see that the offer is too good to pass up. OK. If you're very sure that the offer is a done deal, try to convince your wife to stay back with the children and manage the business, while you go test the waters to see if the environment is safe enough to bring your family over. I hear the cost of living there is very cheap compared to most places, plus it's a beautiful natural environment. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by yunqdady: 6:28am On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv:Go to Jos. Leave that woman. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by dacblogger: 8:22am On Oct 19, 2021 |
yunqdady:Home breaker... Well done Sir O.p please find a way to convince your wife so that you will take that job... I would have done same to my hubby cos the offer is enticing. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 8:56am On Oct 19, 2021 |
dacblogger: Very enticing offer. Turning the offer down will be a very difficult decision for me to take. But am still convincing and negotiating with my wife in a very reasonable way. I still got from now till month end to give my Uncle my final decision. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by boldx(m): 8:56am On Oct 19, 2021 |
You CANNOT go against your wife's decision and consent. You may lose your marriage if you go on. Men always look at paycheck while ladies look at challenges with more intuition. Consider the level of insecurity up north. Don't relocate and come and fall in love with another woman over there. Men fall in love easily. Be guided! 3 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by boldx(m): 8:59am On Oct 19, 2021 |
MARKone: With the level of insecurity? |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by dacblogger: 9:24am On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv:I pray she sees reasons with you... But if she still no gree,please my hubby is available for the job and we DNT mind migrating to even Sambisa forest |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by Olumighty123(m): 9:34am On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv: If your monthly take home from your current job, business and your wife's business surpasses the 350k, then I see no reasons why you should relocate. 2 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by DaInferno(m): 9:47am On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv:happy wife,happy home...expenses never start the pile up na why here eye never open. BTW,what's this side hustle and the job. Me dey eager to know |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 11:04am On Oct 19, 2021 |
dacblogger: LOL..... |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 11:06am On Oct 19, 2021 |
DaInferno: I work and also run a business center as side hustle I have people running it for me with strict supervision. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by yunqdady: 12:02pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
dacblogger:Women are too emotional. It's left for d man to man up |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by cococandy(f): 12:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Considering it’s a family member’s job offer, I’d urge you to think twice. Business, family and pleasure don’t often mix well. 3 Likes |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by oazeez1991(m): 12:29pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Dear Op, 2 achieve greatness in life, one av 2 mk a choice. If u choose based on present situation, remember dat, situation will olwez change, but character remain. A wiseman once said, 'A bird at hand is better dan thousands in d bush'. Sm questions u need ask urself nd be sincere abt answerin dem r: WHY I'M I WORKING? IS MY CURRENT EARNINGS TAKING CARE OF MY BILLS WITH EASE? HOW MUCH DOES MY MARRIAGE MEAN TO ME i.e. DOES THE SACRIFICE I AM ABOUT MAKING WORTH PUTTING MY MARRIAGE IN THE LINE? Answer ol truthfully. U need not create a problem wia dia seems not 2 be one. Money is very important in one's life, especially 2 keep a marriage running, but yet, it's not ol dat mata. In mkin dis life changing decision, u need not be selfish abt it as ur wife opinion equally count, nd since she's not in support of it based on reason best known 2 her, why not look at it 4rm her point of view too. A dry mussel of food eaten wif peace is far beta dan a sumptuous one eaten wif no peace of mind. U got a work dat rake it thousands, even though appear fixed, but dia also is side hustle which income is neva fix nd cud be projected higher wif sm ideas. Shift ur focus away 4rm d propose job salary, nd look at tinz outside d money. Ol in ol, wateva decision u gonna mk, one tin is certain, which is, YOU WOULD REGRET, it's now left 4 u 2 choose ur REGRET wisely. On no account shud u mk a permanent decision on a temporary feelings. May God guide u right. 1 Like |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 1:07pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
oazeez1991: Chai, words of wisdom "choose ur regret wisely" because no matter what I must surely make a decision at the end of the day. Thanks a lot for ur words of wisdom. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by oazeez1991(m): 1:49pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv: Biko, wat measure did u put in place 2 ensure dis strict supervision despite ur busy schedule? Wud appreciate a headup sir. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by destiny4luv(m): 2:23pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
oazeez1991: Before I got a job, I run and manage the business by myself so I know everything about the business. The people running it now are boys I trained myself and after their training we worked together for some months before I got employed. So we all know the average daily/monthly income the business generate and they also send me daily report of work done/expenses made. And so far there are doing good for almost two years now. |
Re: I Earn 180k Plus Side Hussle, but got an Offer Of 350k In Jos by oazeez1991(m): 2:26pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
destiny4luv: Noted Sir. Thanks for the hint. Now, I grab. 1 Like |
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