Realday:
Hey,give me bigi cola and gala

Nonexisting1:
If you are rich, your in laws should be the ones to be worried, not you. If they are rich too, the meeting will simply be another get together to drink wine and discuss Buhari's failure, nothing much.

ethicallyright:
I thought a pretty bi-racial girl was my future wife in secondary school.

She was the head girl and I visited her home during our penultimate long vacation.

I saw expensive cars parked in her father's mansion, their living room was State-of-the-arts standard and she had an exotic little pet dog.

She was the last child of her parents and only girl, her brothers were very friendly. They were undergraduates then.

We talked about how many kids we'd have when we get married in future during the visit

Life's realities don hit me O, since then I never revisit with my family

placeofallure:
My hubby and I are from the same place. There wasn't any formal first visit to the family. We were dating and we pay each other visits. It's been sooooo long ago that I can barely remember my first visit. But I think the following suggestions should suffice.

Nothing much to get anxious about if you have been an A1 personality before, just be yourself.
Wow, thanks for this wonderful teaching, God will uphold your home.
Don't do anything overly to impress anyone, you may not be able to sustain that impression later on cause that's not you. Dress well, simple and decent, be courteous, don't be a chatterbox at first visit, don't take anything, no matter how trivial it seems, for granted. Wait to be offered anything before you help yourself to it. Be a good listener, respond well to light conversations. If you can afford it, you may bring along a lil gift for the family. Treat everyone with respect, no one family member is more important than the other one. In subsequent visits, things will fall in place. Good luck to you.

placeofallure:
My hubby and I are from the same place. There wasn't any formal first visit to the family. We were dating and we pay each other visits. It's been sooooo long ago that I can barely remember my first visit. But I think the following suggestions should suffice.

Nothing much to get anxious about if you have been an A1 personality before, just be yourself.
Wow, thanks for this wonderful teaching, God will uphold your home.
Don't do anything overly to impress anyone, you may not be able to sustain that impression later on cause that's not you. Dress well, simple and decent, be courteous, don't be a chatterbox at first visit, don't take anything, no matter how trivial it seems, for granted. Wait to be offered anything before you help yourself to it. Be a good listener, respond well to light conversations. If you can afford it, you may bring along a lil gift for the family. Treat everyone with respect, no one family member is more important than the other one. In subsequent visits, things will fall in place. Good luck to you.

Ingredient88:
... wow thanks for this wonderful teaching, And God will continue to uphold your family.