My sweetheart wake up last month to tell me that her parents said she should not mention my name in the family house,and that she should not dream of having me as husband to be,i asked my sweet weather she still love me she said "i dont want a situation where i wil profess love to you and in the end nothing wil come out"i kiss her goodbye,2week later my sweet came back to tell me that her mother agree to our relationship but the father said nothing but remain adamant that he dont want to see any other tribe except Yoruba,and dis girl is the love of my life.somebody shd please help!

If u really want to get geniune opinion u Wud need to add ur two ages, what do u do? Are u having ? or wud getting married to her better ur bank account and provide opportunities for u(tho u might b truely in luv, but it's good we know these thing b4 we open our mouth to say anything)?

I think it is a good idea.
I think Yoruba peeps should only marry themselves!
Pleeeeeeeeeaze, obey your father. . . he is a wise man.

Toktee:

My sweetheart wake up last month to tell me that her parents said she should not mention my name in the family house,and that she should not dream of having me as husband to be,i asked my sweet weather she still love me she said "i dont want a situation where i wil profess love to you and in the end nothing wil come out"i kiss her goodbye,2week later my sweet came back to tell me that her mother agree to our relationship but the father said nothing but remain adamant that he dont want to see any other tribe except Yoruba,and dis girl is the love of my life.somebody shd please help!

What is really defeating you is lack of knowledge of your true identity. Knowledge is power. If you have the knowledge of the origins of you and your sweetheart you can turn things in your favour.

I posted some information on this at https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-680899.0.html