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Girls don't respect guys who push for their commitment first, they see you as not having enough options, girls know guys who other girls find attractive are not eager to commit or make things exclusive, because they still want access to other women( women know this because they have tried to get commitment from men they were attracted to and didn't succeed).

Only you dey push for sex, only you still dey push for commitment, making her the prize, and giving you no power or leverage in the relationship.

Be patient if she truly likes you she would ask you the famous line "what are we?" "where is this going" "what do I tell my friends, they are asking who you are to me". If she doesn't push to be exclusive don't bring it up or you go suffer am, no say I no tell you.

I created this thread for that guy who said he has been asking girls out and they keep saying no. Women want men that other women want and they know from experience that only men who lack biitches push for exclusivity.

For this Naija as a man if you push for commitment hmmm you are on your own, the toasting is enough let her do the rest.