Reports reaching The Honcho Gist states a 63 year old pastor marries a 18 year old choir member as his second wife.

Tom Udofia, a 63 year old pastor who is the General overseer of “The Way Of Salvation Church Of Jesus Christ, in Calabar reportedly marries a 18 year old church choir member as a second wife.

Read;
https://thehonchogist.com.ng/2021/11/24/pastor-63-marries-18-years-old-choir-member-as-second-wife/

The age difference is not what worries me , it's the second wife nonsense he is doing

Ammishaddai:
The age difference is not what worries me , it's the second wife nonsense he is doing

None of this should worry us.

He is a man of God.

His actions cannot be questioned nor his motives doubted.

It is well.

Aaronsrod:


None of this should worry us.

He is a man of God.

His actions cannot be questioned nor his motives doubted.

It is well.

No where did Jesus Christ or His Apostles command for a man to marry more than one wife .

Aaronsrod:
None of this should worry us.He is a man of God.
His actions cannot be questioned nor his motives doubted. It is well.

Where did Jesus Christ tell you this?

Ammishaddai:
No where did Jesus Christ or His Apostles command for a man to marry more than one wife .

Actually, that is not true. God never said man or woman can only enter into one marriage union - Genesis 2 vs 24 & Matthew 19 vs 3 - 5 & Mark 10 vs 5 - 9.

Aaronsrod:

None of this should worry us.
He is a man of God.
His actions cannot be questioned nor his motives doubted.
It is well.

A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach: 1Timothy 3:2


Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. 1Timothy 3:12.

Kobojunkie:
Actually, that is not true. God never said man or woman can only enter into one marriage union - Genesis 2 vs 24 & Matthew 19 vs 3 - 5 & Mark 10 vs 5 - 9.

You like arguing blindly . Luke16:18: "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery."

This scripture leaves no room for a man who us married to marry another woman because that would automatically be adultery

When poverty is too much.... U see the amount of money pastors rake in as offering, you see queue lining up to pay tithes... And you think of how to partake from this.... A man that can hardly feeds his family and sees his family as burden, he will do everything to put his children to the choir where that pastors can notice her... He can even send the children to do house chores for the pastor family... The moment the pastor shows interest... The man See's it as prayer answered! Because, why will a responsible father allow his daughter of 18yrs to marry a man of 63yrs? It's too loud oo!

Ammishaddai:
You like arguing blindly . Luke16:18: "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery."

This scripture leaves no room for a man who us married to marry another woman because that would automatically be adultery

Please ask him and when the man has left father and mother the first time to marry, does he still have a father and mother to leave a second time?

Chai! How the Word of God is so Accurately True, The Anti-God and Anti Christ's are here.

Dtruthspeaker:


Please ask him and when the man has left father and mother the first time to marry, does he still have a father and mother to leave a second time?

You are right ,but I will not engage him in an argument because his level of reasoning is somewhat weak when it comes to such matters

Ammishaddai:
You like arguing blindly . Luke16:18: "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery."

This scripture leaves no room for a man who us married to marry another woman because that would automatically be adultery

Huh?

You didn't bother to read and properly process what that verse you quoted even says , did you?.

Let me see if I can help you here....

■If a man does not divorce his current wife but marries another non divorced womAn, is he convicted of adultery by the same law?

Ammishaddai:
You are right ,but I will not engage him in an argument because his level of reasoning is somewhat weak when it comes to such matters

He is an evil come to sell his desires and wishes as though they were True, that is all that matters.

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

You didn't bother to read and properly process what that verse you quoted even says , did you?.

A man who is married cannot marry another person . This is simple . Secondly, God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.’”

A second wife is no longer making them one flesh but three . And this goes contrary to the word one-flesh which God has instituted

Dtruthspeaker:


He is an evil come to sell his desires and wishes as though they were True, that is all that matters.

He talks like a JW ...

Ammishaddai:
1. A man who is married cannot marry another person . This is simple .

2. Secondly, God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.’”

3. A second wife is no longer making them one flesh but three . And this goes contrary to the word one-flesh which God has instituted

1. The Law you quoted does not say that. In fact, following that law you quoted there, an already married man is free to marry another woman so long as he does not divorce his current wife and and does not marry a divorced woman.

2. That is God's Law .. God defined marriage explicitly as a union between one woman and one man. God, however, never said that a man or woman can only have one marriage.

3. Wrong! The marriage contract between one man and his one wife if separate and different from the marriage contract between the same and his other wife. This is clearly revealed even in God's Old Covenant Law, and God never changed His mind regarding the definition of marriage from the beginning.

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The problem many of you have with understanding God is you subject Him to ideas you have yourself been fed by other men about Him rather than allowing Him to reveal Himself to you in Truth.
God sanctioned multiple marriages and even gave wives to His servants. But by your conclusions, you make God out as a confused deity instead of the Faithful - keeping to His agreement- God He has always told us that He is.

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Kobojunkie:
1. The Law you quoted does not say that. In fact, following that law you quoted there, an already married man is free to marry another woman so long as he does not divorce his current wife and and does not marry a divorced woman.

2. That is God's Law .. God defined marriage explicitly as a union between one woman and one man. God, however, never said that a man or woman can only have one marriage.

3. Wrong! The marriage contract between one man and his one wife if separate and different from the marriage contract between the same and his other wife. This is clearly revealed even in God's Old Covenant Law, and God never changed His mind regarding the definition of marriage from the beginning.

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1. Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife [/b]and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his [b]wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control

The bolded says wife not wives . So you are greatly mistaken.



2Matthew 19:4-5
Jesus answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a[b] man[/b]shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?


Again , note the the singular use of the word wife not wives .

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Ephesians 5:33
However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.


Note again , there is no mention of wives .


This is a covenant between a Male and Female . Not multiple partners

Ammishaddai:
He talks like a JW ...

Yes, but the mutant version.