We live in a society that some people cannot hold themselves for a month without coitus, it's an aberration for some not to do it, some don't even care about safe sex or STD anymore.

The reason we have sex workers everywhere, both single and married men patronize them.

Why are we normalising certain things that are not okay?

Being a strumpet or Casanova isn't something to be proud of, asceticism and celibacy outside marriage is still the best.
But young people now live together for years as husband and wife having intimacy.
If heaven is real, so many people will not make it for disobeying God's commandments.

It depends on the individual