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Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Perfecttouch(m): 12:34am On Dec 05, 2021 |
EstatePropertyP:what if same scenario plays out when you change their school? |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 4ckyou: 12:46am On Dec 05, 2021 |
EstatePropertyP: there's bully everywhere, no place is better, since the child already stopped bullying your kids, i will advice you allow them continue. in some schools the bully will be too much to the point that they can't tell their parents because of threat. |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by okpmoses: 12:48am On Dec 05, 2021 |
This happened to me in my sec school js 2 first term involving my teacher. Back then my maths teacher uses a small plank as substitute for cain.One day i arrived school late including other student as our vice Principal was about leaving for his office he asked my maths teacher to flog us.As soon as our VP left,man brought out his usual and flogged us. In less than 10 mins my dad arrived my school to give me money for lunch,he saw me crying and asked what was wrong.I explained everything to him he went straight to teacher and jokingly asked him,with the plank in his hands he confirmed it,my dad took the plank from him and started hitting my teacher with it.omo school scatter!!!!! Throughout jss 2 no flogging oo 7 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 12:55am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Thinktwicemybro: I agree with you. This is the best thing to do. Let your kids know that they need to find their battles. Parents won't be there to bail them out forever. 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by SeriouslySense(m): 12:58am On Dec 05, 2021 |
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Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Eventxpo(m): 1:01am On Dec 05, 2021 |
I have an experience. I was in SS1 then, SS3 student beats me with an iron hanger. I had a deep cut on my lap. I was frustrated and helpless. The following weekend, my foster parent came visiting. I acted not excited to see them. After so much persuasion. I expressed my pains and what i have been going through. He was mad when he heard my a seniors has been terrorizing me, He requested the see the Hostel master and the owner of the hostel, with so much rage and displeasure. He vowed to do everything in his capacity to shut down the hostel. He called the senior to requested his side of the story. i was humiliated for a silly reason. He bounced on the senior, beat him to stupor, I could remmebr after so much whipping, my terrorist senior hid under the hostel master bed walling like a baby. Its a beautiful thing to see your enemy terrorized. Since that day, I became untouchable. They called me omo baba eleshe. (The son of a boxer parent) 10 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Learner247: 1:05am On Dec 05, 2021 |
KillIgbohoN0W: Naa, he could still have dealt with them. Weed and those nonsense are a front! He should have let them know he was coming from where they were going. 5 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by od501: 1:09am On Dec 05, 2021 |
NobleRace: "Killing a child's self esteem..?" By just calling him a big head? Omoh...I wonder the kind of generation we will be building in the next 15-20 years from now. So...teasing a child with big head is now a way of killing the self esteem to the extent it will make them a failure in life. Menh... So those of us that our parents even bribed the teacher to flog us extra cain if we misbehave, we are all dead abi? Or we are all now psychopaths with delusional mind set? Na over sabi go kee us for this country. This is how we breed weak men without even knowing it. 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Nobody: 1:11am On Dec 05, 2021 |
enonche85:You would just end up facing criminal charges if you or your child does, which you wouldn't want. There are now anti-bullying laws everywhere and some forms of cyberbullying and in-class bullying are considered criminal acts, so the best thing to do is to report the perpetrators, as they could be prosecuted. Bullying is now being taken seriously by schools and police departments in the country. I'm not talking about Nigeria, though, but I hope Nigeria gets to that stage. |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 1:12am On Dec 05, 2021 |
observanc1: His son got 0/10 in a test, what the hell was the mum expecting, praise? Spolit kids and parents everywhere Maybe if she cared about her son's academics, he won't be getting zero in a test! Nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by maintainG: 1:19am On Dec 05, 2021 |
My dad will always be my Hero! During Madam koi koi era , I was in primary 2 then , one morning my teacher went out and ask me to look after her bag, it happens that madam koi koi struck again and everyone was running home, commotion everywhere, I manage and cover my teachers bag with her table, rush to my younger sisters class and ran home with her. The next morning, the woman accused me of stealing her money and gave me the beating of my life, she scatter my body with Cain as I fair reach the mark was so obvious and I cry my eyes out that day, my dad couldn’t sleep that night as the man was busy waiting for dawn. Next morning he bought six Cain, took me along with him to the school and finish the my teacher that day. My dad is tall and huge, he gave it to the woman that day, school scatter, student were running up and down screaming and laughing at the woman. Omo me and my sister no near that school again o. Another one was my block rosary brother as we use to call them, the guy finish my elder sister with Cain because she came late the day she was suppose to lead prayer. My dad as usual bought his Cain for him, waited for them to pass as he usually accompany children to morning mass, as they are passing, he jumped out from where he hide behind our compound gate and ask my sister which one of them, the guy wan run my dad pursued him and caught his shirt, gave my sister Cain and with his own, they finish the brother with Cain that early morning. The news broke out like wild fire, we stopped attending block rosary because of that and later change to another one near our street. Dem no dey use strength punish kids again as anyone you wan touch will boldly tell you his or her father will visit you with Cain. Omo dem no born monkey well to bully my child, I will initiate my dads way and give it to anyone that tries that rubbish on my kids. 7 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by tollyboy5(m): 1:19am On Dec 05, 2021 |
starbuck:God bless you ma 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by tollyboy5(m): 1:24am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Playthepianos:I will break your teeth strust me. Tallness has nothing to do with black belt |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 1:30am On Dec 05, 2021 |
tuzle: Why should a teacher call students names? How unprofessional ! Funny enough if they caught students doing that to each other, they say something. So why should a teacher do that to a student ? 6 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by NobleRace: 1:49am On Dec 05, 2021 |
od501: I think it depends on how you were brought up. Yes, the child was hurt, that's why he reported to her father. The teacher knew what she was doing, that's why she denied; telling the father she says so to all her students. There are parents who reprimand their kids with words such as "are you crazy?", "You're mad", "Why are you so dumb?", etc. To such kids, a word such as big head wouldn't matter. You can't say that to my children, they'll take offence immediately because we never use vulgar languages in reprimanding them. The best way to reprimand a child is to spank him when he needs to be spanked. Advice him when he needs to be advised. Threaten him when he needs to be threatened. And raise a Stern voice against him when his offences call for it. Calling a child names is a very unhealthy practice for bringing up wholesome kids. And if you would tease a child, do so in a friendly atmosphere with generally acceptable words. 8 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by icu4: 1:53am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Thinktwicemybro: Facts.The best solution is to teach your children to fight back. I tell my son if anyone bullies you, punch him in the face. 3 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 1:54am On Dec 05, 2021 |
od501: Why is a teacher calling a student big head? Is that professional? If a teacher caught a student calling each other names will they tolerate it ?! 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 2:03am On Dec 05, 2021 |
okpmoses: You came late and were disciplined and you expected to be given a pat on the back? Who do you think you are? 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Thoughty2(m): 2:04am On Dec 05, 2021 |
starbuck: You for call your army friend and terrorise the living day lights out of the stupid boy 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Akanbee(m): 2:24am On Dec 05, 2021 |
lalasticlala:Mr Kolapo comes to mind , his punishment for primary 3 pupils was to arrange 'us' (pupils) in a straight file , we queue to be 'head butted' by this 'mad cow ' for 'making noise' in the class . This went on for many weeks before I summoned courage to report him to my mum. My mum went crazy & was the 1st get to the school premise the following day with the intention of ... but unfortunately , she knew him & his(Kolapo's) parents. She gave him a Stern warning & it (head butting) never repeat itself, that was how I saved my class mates & myself from this frustrated human being. I still see him till date ... 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by WoundedLamb: 2:31am On Dec 05, 2021 |
tuzle: I really can't believe you're actually comparing yourself and your friends with a kid with a budding sense of self. Constantly calling the kid "big head" before other kids could destroy his self esteem for life especially if that boy actually has a big head. Trust other kids to gladly adopt the appellation too. You shouldn't lay emphasis on the words "big head", you should rather pay attention to the impact on the recipient, the context/surrounding circumstances, etc. You can't tell me there's nothing wrong with calling someone "olodo" simply because we sometimes call our friends "olodo"; that would be illogical. Kids like and need to be loved by their teachers, if that name isn't making him feel loved, just stop it. If he's not looking forward to being in school cause his teacher makes him feel like a misfit, address it. Don't joke with kids' self esteem. Even as adults, it's extremely important to consider how our "jokes" are received before deciding whether to continue with them or not. It's not about what is bullying to you; it's definitely not about you. It's primarily about the recipients and thier vulnerabilities. Calling someone big head, skinny leg, etc. could be bullying cause most times, the only difference between jokes and insults is how they're received. That said, I believe the guy could have just called the teacher aside to tell him or her how the child felt about it. The teacher would have probably understood and stopped calling him that without being humiliated. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by 1Sharon(f): 2:40am On Dec 05, 2021 |
tuzle: False equivalence. Yout teacher is not your friend. So fraternising and calling your students names as if they are buddies is inappropriate. If the teacher saw other students calling each other names, will they tolerate it? Abeg! Highly inappropriate. 6 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by FengChui(m): 2:50am On Dec 05, 2021 |
The day my Popsy follow me go school go burst our school prefects.... I was in SS1. Chai I no go forget. Those guys literally turned me to a punching bag the day before, just because my class had a debate with them and we thrashed them (I was the representative for my class). When I got home, my parents asked what was wrong and I explained. Next day, my dad said "let's go to your school". He waited till around 9 when everyone will be in school... I know say e don set. On getting to the school premises, he just told me to show him any of the guys that beat me, I pointed the head boy and the labour prefect. Baba take on them.... 2 seconds, everywhere burst. I just dey there dey happy. It took the intervention of the principal and hefty teachers to stop him ... 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by ablejesus26(m): 3:06am On Dec 05, 2021 |
It's good to plan ahead of this things, because they are the ills that will always be in a social enclave. The moment my boy turned 6 I enrolled him for martial arts and boxing training. Plus I have already inputed the ideology that loosing the fight is not the big loss,but rather not fighting at all. This is what we find ourselves in as parents so let's make sure they are mentally and physically equipped to at least survive in the cruel world we brought them into. I would spank my son if he comes home to tell me someone is bullying him,with a 5years martial arts and boxing experience, I know how much I dey pay for him boxing classes alone,where I come from we don't waste money, so if He doesn't fights off his bully and send a good don't try this with me signal he has wasted my money ☹️ 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by ProfGday(m): 3:12am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Back in the days during primary and secondary days... I experienced been bullied by one alahji son,and that was my first day in that school. I reported him to my mum on getting back home,she gave me a deafening slap,immediately I knew what to do. On resuming school that morning,I return that slap on the face of that guy(seyi) he did not even provoke the fight,I beat him so they,he was beckoning to students and teachers to come and rescuing him from his assailant (me) with swelling face that I have panel beated with my fist. Since that day all of them gave me my respect,because the news spread throughout the nook and crany of the school.. Even seniors don't dare do nonsense with the new kid(me) anytime I step into their class corridors.. I was nicknamed (Jide warrior) back in the days.. I wrestled many unrepentant bullies to submission during my secondary days,I hate bullies,I just can't stand it. It made me sick. 3 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Jollos(m): 3:52am On Dec 05, 2021 |
there was this boy that used to beat me up when I was in primary school. I dare not pass the front of his house even after school. I have 3 sisters then. Every time I got home I reported the boy to my parent and my elder sisters. It got to a time i have to tell them am not going to school again. So one day all my sisters said the nonsense must stop. On one faithful evening, 2 of my sisters followed me to their house, he tot it was biz as usual not knowing my sisters are hiding somewhere around the corner. He followed me as usual and my sisters gave him the beating of his life. I was relieved and dat was the end of his bullied. Meanwhile, my own almost 5 year old son will come back from school to complain how one wisdom use to beat him in his class. I went to the school to make enquiry just to discover it is my son that used to beat the boy. I just have to warned him seriously not to do dat again 3 Likes |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Alchemist231(m): 4:11am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Kobicove: Very dumb post |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by joyandfaith: 4:32am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Kobicove:Yes. He would still be alive. |
Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Ligxy(f): 4:35am On Dec 05, 2021 |
When I was in primary 5 or so, a boy in my class told me that he's older than me and that I should call him Broda Akin, I refused and he threatened to beat me up anytime he sees me, I thought he wouldn't dare initially, until one day that my mommy sent me and he started following me, I was to pass through a lonely bush path so I stayed in one shop until I saw an elderly woman passing and I followed her, immediately I got home, I told my mom and she went to his house and warned his mother that if he ever laid hands on me, she will skin him alive. Dude is married and very calm now. |
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