i told my friend about this site and she asked me to lay down her problem to you guys.

Sometime last year she was like dating this guy but it wasn't working out between them. In her mind it was over between them but she didnt want to break up with him over the phone because it would be unfair and he wasnt based in nigeria. But she had made up her mind for like 8 months that it was over and when she told me I actually saw reasons with her.

She met this new guy and dey seem to click and all.three months later he asked her out,she was like let them just chill and see what happens, but the guy on his own part took that for a yes, sha. She told her ex finally he said ok and all. Then everything was settled.

But sometime ago her ex came to say helo then they kissed only. She felt bad and all then told the other guy she met. He was mad and all, and raked and raked. They later talked about it, and afterwards this girl went round getting people to like beg him he cooled. But the thing is that it's so long ago that happened but now he has started acting funny. He hardly calls no more he his just acting all funny. Do you guys think it as something to do with that incident?

Please hola ok, she is in need of your responces.

Personally, I think the new boyfriend has found a new woman. That's all that comes to my mind.

And frankly, I don't see why he has to express rage because his girlfriend told him that she kissed another man. It only encourages her not to tell him next time, and nothing more. "Love" makes us all stupid. Gah.

lol

I personally think your friend still likes(maybe loves) her Ex.
As for the new boy, I am not sure he is really interested in this relationship.Mature guys genuinely interested in a relationship do not go raving and raking just because their girl friend kissed a guy and told him about it.Is he extremely possessive ?
My advice:let your friend give this new boy friend sometime and space and see how things work out.I am almost sure the relationship might not stand the test of time.If it has already started like this.
If she is still interested in the Ex and is the Ex boy friend  still interested in her,then I would rather suggest they get back together.
Anyway my attitude to relationship is,if you are not interested in marrying a person don't bother dating them,full stop !!

i think he has somebody else because he should have forgotten that incident longtime ago

He acting funny? How about her, she's the bitch not him. He deserves better.

Her new boyfriend is a fxcking sicko and he also has gone to kiss another girl *put finger on tongue, raises same finger up*. Gbabe! That dude has gone to kiss another girl, but he can't tell his girlfriend (your friend).

He's feeling guilty that your friend was able to tell him what she did and accepted that it was wrong, but he can't do the same because he's a coward. I personaly think your friend is a good girlfriend for telling her boyfriend what happened. Almost every guy would be happy that their girl did something bad and told them and accepted it was wrong.
When i say HAppy, i don't mean RIGHT AWAY happiness. I mean, the guy would trust the girl in a way that "OMG, she loves me so much to tell me that". But your friends boyfriend has kissed another girl, and he can't tell her. Nigga is a big coward.

My question/advice to your friend is: Does she still like her ex?? Cos this one that she's making herself think it's over because of something something, and the boy came over and she kissed him, and she's moochy moochy. I don't understand oo. Does she like her ex, or her present boyfriend? Is her present boyfriend the boyfriend she didn't want to have?

is it because her boyfriend took her "im coming" answer to be YES? She shouldn't be a relationship because she don't want her boyfriend to feel bad. U clearly said, she told him she wasnt ready, but the guy took it for yes.

So your friend has a big part to play in this, She needs to search her heart and choose who to go with. if she happens to decide that she wants to remain with her present boyfriend, then she can sit him down to talk to him, asking about why he's acting funny. He's her boyfriend, he wont bite her if she asks questions.

But if she doesn't like her boyfriend anymore, she can just use the "funny act" as a reason for her to break up with him.

His probably thinking how much of a bad kisser you are or his thinking how easy you were to get."i go smash this one". because your first kiss sometimes determine how long is going to take before he get you into bed.

Seun:

Personally, I think the new boyfriend has found a new woman. That's all that comes to my mind.

And frankly, I don't see why he has to express rage because his girlfriend told him that she kissed another man. It only encourages her not to tell him next time, and nothing more. "Love" makes us all stupid. Gah.

where do u get your brains from Seun? i tot the same tin 2

This lovingities don tire mi sef!

I wonder why some girls can't see simple hand writing on the wall.
All women should know that the moment men smell(enter) that place like He-goat, they will target the next pot.It takes the Will of God to unite *both of them*

everyone act funny afetr that,

can ur girlfriend kiss her ex or your boyfriend kiss his ex

they are not together nothing ,that's sick

Why did she has to kiss someone she considered as your ex in the first place?
Here is whats going on:
The guy dont have a rest of mind on the girl, however, do not trust the girl as the girl might end up going back to her ex since she could kiss him even while they were no more dating.
The guy is thinking inside him that the lady is nowhere to be trusted on the relationship which might have made him going for another girl secretly.
For your friend to convince him, she has to really try becos she's used one little thing to bring confusion into the relationship.
The guy can only come back to his senses after a very long time of caring and loving by your friend, else, i'm afraid.
Believe me, thats what is going on.

Listen y'all, I thought someone like Seun who is a specialist in women affairs could think right to answer this question well. I'm disappointed at u guyz.

Com'on put urself in his shoes.

Now Listen to the story, she told her Ex, that she has someone else, for God sake why would she later kiss her EX and the jackass thats got no respect opened his filthy mouth to kiss someone else's girl. Well my dear, ur friend deserve what she's receiving and more.

Put urself in his shoes, If ur boyfriend comes back home and tell u that he kissed his Ex-girlfriend, wouldnt u be scared that u might loose him to her.

All i'll advice her is that, he's got no other girl but he's just scared not to loose her to him and just wish she could come and ask him watz the problem.

And lets dont make thing complicated here plz.

At certain stages of relationships, certain amounts of stress actually encourage its growth. But certain kinds of stress reek havoc at certain stages of relationships. For some cases, "forgive and forget" rule of thumb applies, to other cases it doesn't fit. Interest develops, or diminishes over time. Certain actions cause increase in interest, others cause interest levels in a relationship to plumett.

I'm sorry your friend had to go thru that; But she should try to work things out with her EX,-- get back with him, I mean. It seems what caused their break-up was flimsy, most likely a distance barrier. Her case might repeat itself even if she finds another guy.

my question is this: why bother to touch a sleeping lion by the tail? why should the girl kiss the guy in the first place? look, maybe i'm being old fashioned or something, but personally, anything that would place me under a suspicious light in a relationship, i try as much as possible to avoid it. see the stress she has put herself in. if only she had tucked her lips away, all these would not have happened.

I would say that the guy is immature and still a toddler for ranting and what will make him want 2 pull down the roof??

What if she had sex with him??

He probably would have bursted in2 tiny bubbles

I am not comfortable with the way we critise guyz here,if the lady had slept with her ex she would not tell anybody now.
So,if only we could speak to the guy in question about his own points,but I will advise you(poster) to be prepared becasue it seems d guy is gone.

Yea i dnt blame him, i'll also be pretty mad if i heard ma girl kissed sum oda guy, i mean dats f'd up, u dnt hav to b possessive to get really mad bout sumthing like dat, hes prolly lost interest in her cuz of dat, dats calld betrayin trust.

Wby did she kiss him? how would she feel if he did that? girls are so easy to deceive. shes not worth shit. take it from me

Kiss ko, peck ni. I'm so sure she sexed him too.
I wonder which punkasses here think the fella was wrong to have walked away.
If he's an X then Y kiss him?
4Q all who support dis bitch!

dappssee:

Kiss ko, peck ni. I'm so sure she sexed him too.
I wonder which punkasses here think the fella was wrong to have walked away.
If he's an X then Y kiss him?
4Q all who support dis bitch!

lol
well all you supporter of this lady should put your self in the guy's shoes how would you feel if your man came up to u and told you that he kissed his ex?

dappssee:

Kiss ko, peck ni. I'm so sure she sexed him too.
I wonder which punkasses here think the fella was wrong to have walked away.
If he's an X then Y kiss him?
4Q all who support dis bitch!

AHHHHH!!!

Na real wa oo!!!

dappssee:

Kiss ko, peck ni. I'm so sure she sexed him too.
I wonder which punkasses here think the fella was wrong to have walked away.
If he's an X [/b]then[b] Y kiss him?
4Q all who support dis bitch!

lmaoooooo. . . .na only X and Y? Z nko?