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Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by enonche85(m): 6:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Una don mend her?. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by tonididdy(m): 7:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat: Pls follow your Initial planned path, returning her to her parents or getting her arrested is further damaging. If this is a first, am certain she will change. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by oilmane(m): 8:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
[quote author=iamwhat post=108515161]I am seriously confused and scared at the same time. My cousin sister has been staying with us since age 5 and nobody knows she's not our sibling because we took her as one of us, she finished from the most expensive secondary school in our town and we gave her everything she needs. She told my younger sister that her friends boyfriend is a yahoo guy and I noticed she has been misbehaving lately. I received the shock of my life when my younger sister discovered her POS business money was not complete and she told me she suspected Toyin because of the clothes, Shoes and bags she buys nowadays. Lo and behold, she conducted search in her bag and she found 200k in her bag. She told the Money from there and after some days, My cousin started looking for the money but she didn't tell anyone but asked our maid if she found the money. We confronted her yesterday and she confessed she took the money. My brother is suggesting we take her to guard room but I think that's inhumane but I'm so confused at what to do right now... I don't want us to maltreat her, I'm looking for the best way to treat this issue without causing any physical harm to her. Since she has been with us since age 5, I feel sending her to her family won't make sense because she didn't grow up with them, I am suggesting a professional counsellor/therapist but my siblings are saying I'm behaving like Oyibo, they aren't buying the idea at all. Please I need your advise on how best to handle this issue: [You said no one knows she's not your sibling as she's been living with you guys since she's five so where do you want to send her to? Were you calling her cousin sister before she stole from you or you changed what you were calling her because she stole from you? Where will you send her to if she's your sibling? I'll suggest you get a military guy to come to your house to give her a stern warning instead of sending her away or taking her to a guard room as it will be to extreme. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Exceed15: 9:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Stop romancing this matter and send her back to her people before she land you in a bigger mess that will cost you a lot |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Exceed15: 9:18pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Stop romancing this matter and send her back to her people before she land you in a bigger mess that will cost you a lot. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Popesuccess(m): 9:26pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You are doing the right thing. She is your cousin, that means she is blood. She has lived with you since she is five, which means she is now your sister. So if it is your own sister that did that will you throw her away? No. You guys should treat her the way you will treat your own sister |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by ibinaboonline: 9:30pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Will the guardroom cure or just punish? I second therapy. Romanoff: |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by ibinaboonline: 9:33pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
This is not the time to throw her out. Love is being tested here. Will throwing her out make her better? Not likely. Counseling and therapy mixed with punishment is what I propose. Blame Richy4: |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by DataWiz: 8:54am On Dec 17, 2021 |
Simran94: Never treat another man's child the way you would treat your sister. Never!!!! You self read your comment now. It lacks clarity. But Good thing is that you have clarified things |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Nobody: 8:55am On Dec 17, 2021 |
DataWiz:Comprehension is not really difficult you know. Now read that my post again in relation to the treatment they want to melt on another man's child |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Originalsly: 9:50am On Dec 17, 2021 |
Whatever you sit her down and explain will enter one ear and exit the other. Her mind is set to live life in the fast lane. Teenagers believe they have everything figured out.... the solution is to have her change her own mind. Beating wouldn't do that ... neither would returning her to her parents.... in her mind it may be a good reason for her to run to any Yahoo guy for shelter. Seeing that your family has some status .... connections.... I suggest you make arrangements for her to visit a Prison ... female section ... a notorious one let her know you are considering sending her there for theft ... but just wanted to to see the conditions. Hopefully... she will be scared enough to realize that should she steal again.... be hanging out with Yahoo boys... or caught doing anything illegal.... there will be her new home. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Anndrew(m): 10:33am On Dec 17, 2021 |
SniperSmurf:lolz..I was also confused,cousin brother/sister....all the same is still a cousin...op dey use gender dey separate cousin.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Lordedifice1: 4:10pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
There's no such thing like cousin sister Is either she is your cousin or your sister Punish her but don't over do |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Sorrento: 10:03pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Op if you don't send the bastard girl to her parents, she will steal more.Send her to her parents please. |
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