Correction: nothing is going to stop you from having feeling for random people it's how we are designed, marriage doesn't and will neva change your(our) nature that's where your self control comes in that's why you av to be matured enough to recognise this and draw a line that's y we are humans - we control our hormones not the other way round. So there's nothing wrong with you or any married person having feeling for som random person.
Plus marriage doesn't change anyone people make that decision to b a better person marriage may force you but marriage doesn't magically change anyone mayb that's y most assume its a scam cos you(we) av bin made to see it that way.Open you mind

Broveens42:
I noticed something on this forum.
If a guy had made that comment, a good number of people would support the fact that marriage is a scam. But because it's coming from a lady...Lol

Marriage is really a scam regardless because if it wasn't, you won't have feelings or lust for random people at one point of your married life or the other.

It is high time metal health specialist take custody of this woman before she manifest into something else. Always sounding so incoherent, what does #ikoyiregistry invalidation has to do with her not being married or am I missing something?

Your utterances and behavior is out tune with reality and human existence

Bind man say eye dey smell hmmm

Impregnable101:
Madam, you nor see man put u for house because ur character dey smell

Ya said it!
LUN-atic o-LUN-loyo

Ashirioluwa:
Weather marriage is a scam or not………no man in his right mind will marry you

Fair enough

That true they tagged her been controversial journalist

Empress2014:
Marriage is a scam but you opened your vjay and got pregnant within a month just because your first baby father promised you marriage , The same with your second baby father, they keep promising you marriage because they saw how desperate you were to get married as if your existence depends on it. You failed at it all and instead of you to think deeply and analyze what the problem was, you rather conclude it is a scam....oh I forgot most mentally ill people don't have the mental capacity to think deeply.....Pele kemkem.

Men this is brutal , total knockout

When you get older you go know. When your children are all married... only you go dey alone for house

na she and my mama generation destroy the institution called marriage in the name of westernization

Are you sure?

sundaygray:
When you get older you go know. When your children are all married... only you go dey alone for house

most people saying marriage is useless ,I can beat my chest ,they have not stayed alone for 6 months ,some grew up in a wealth house ,or a busy surrounding with both parents been present ,na old age some will know the tru definition of Lonelyness ,I will tell you a true story ,my own mother conmot for hux ,few years back been a working class lady under govt payroll as a medical staff ,but retirement don day reach ,she day fine way come back �,,,area don mature , children don mature no body send again ,na force we day force ourselves to talk with her ,how will most old white ladies not fall victim of scammers when all they need is a company to occupy them ,keep them busy before you know ,they don send money give them , Loneness is really oo

Empress2014:
Marriage is a scam but you opened your vjay and got pregnant within a month just because your first baby father promised you marriage , The same with your second baby father, they keep promising you marriage because they saw how desperate you were to get married as if your existence depends on it. You failed at it all and instead of you to think deeply and analyze what the problem was, you rather conclude it is a scam....oh I forgot most mentally ill people don't have the mental capacity to think deeply.....Pele kemkem.

Blessed you Ma'am!
In Nigeria, people used anything to trend, especially things that has to do with Church:
- yesterday somebody with gullible audiences said ' God did not ordained Marriage' and today,Madam Kemi is already justifying such foolishness and before you know it,so many will be led asstray!
- according to Madam Kemi Olunloyo,who have a child or let us assumed that she is still single as the case may be, Marriage is now a Scam and hope many Youths recalled those ladies living under celebracy theory then but are now having kid(s)!
The more you look, the less you see.I pity the Youths of today as they are being bombarded with different opinions that lacks contents and solid foundation because of Social Media upbringing!
I pray for Deliverance in most homes today!

She is right...

I'm not a Kemi fan and you all can jump on the "beat kemi online" bandwagon but she is stating cold facts.

Look @ how marriages are crashing left and right within few years (months even). A lot of married people are merely cohabiting together for the sake of the kids involved (should anything happen to those kids, the married is buried). Some are married coz she got pregnant, some are married coz of pressure from family, some because every one else is doing it and they don't want to look like the black sheep..

How many get married because they really want to? Hmm? Men marry @ certain age/status to be considered a "responsible man" within society. Women marry to get the "Mrs" status,kids and of course living ATM.

The purpose of marriage died with the emancipation of women and feminism. Everything a man could do, a woman can do sort of (except pee through the window or into a coke bottle.,,

ComeToJesus:
Watch and see people who are equally disillusioned, tossed and diced by life agree with her jaundiced and self-justifying viewpoint.

There is actually nothing wrong with her viewpoint
There are more miserable married folks than the married folks that are not miserable
That's a FACT
Now does it mean that it condemns marriage to doom

No it doesn't
But I totally get it why some would rather not marry
And no
They can grow old be single and still happy

mccloud224:
She is right...

I'm not a Kemi fan and you all can jump on the "beat kemi online" bandwagon but she is stating cold facts.

Look @ how marriages are crashing left and right within few years (months even). A lot of married people are merely cohabiting together for the sake of the kids involved (should anything happen to those kids, the married is buried). Some are married coz she got pregnant, some are married coz of pressure from family, some because every one else is doing it and they don't want to look like the black sheep..

How many get married because they really want to? Hmm? Men marry @ certain age/status to be considered a "responsible man" within society. Women marry to get the "Mrs" status,kids and of course living ATM.

The purpose of marriage died with the emancipation of women and feminism. Everything a man could do, a woman can do sort of (except pee through the window or into a coke bottle.,,

I agree with you

Though concerning your last paragraph
Its not really a bad thing in itself

Broveens42:



Your logic failed you.
1. Man marries a lady .,
The child is a product of copulation
2. Man cohabits with a lady
The child is a product of copulation


.......................
1. Marriage is a scam since it doesn't stop infidelity.
2. Marriage is a scam since you can also reproduce through cohabitation.

If the only way a man could successfully impregnate a woman(or even stay happy in relationship) was just by marriage, then marriage wouldn't be a scam.

It's Just like posting something not real about me to make money from people; that's a scam.




Who coined the word "marriage"?

I like the way you think

RodgersAkpafu:

I agree with you

Though concerning your last paragraph
Its not really a bad thing in itself

E no bad...lol. No be lie.

DEmejioba1:
It's not through, Marriage is a choice. You can choose to marry or otherwise.

True, marriage is not do or die.

Marriage is one of the most important decisions one has to make... No one should force you.

Don't mind her at old age, she will regret.

larryking540:

most people saying marriage is useless ,I can beat my chest ,they have not stayed alone for 6 months ,some grew up in a wealth house ,or a busy surrounding with both parents been present ,na old age some will know the tru definition of Lonelyness ,I will tell you a true story ,my own mother conmot for hux ,few years back been a working class lady under govt payroll as a medical staff ,but retirement don day reach ,she day fine way come back �,,,area don mature , children don mature no body send again ,na force we day force ourselves to talk with her ,how will most old white ladies not fall victim of scammers when all they need is a company to occupy them ,keep them busy before you know ,they don send money give them , Loneness is really oo

Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Personally, I am much happier and comported when I am alone. Go to General Hospital on the Island (Lagos), head to the men's ward (the aged/dying ones), the check the aged women's section. The difference is so glaring that reality hits you like a ton of bricks. The women's section gets an endless barrage of visitors coming in with gifts to see "mommy" while there are elders in the men's ward who haven't seen a single visitor in weeks (their ppl are just waiting for that phone call informing them of his death..finito).

As a man live for yourself, plan for yourself and take solace in yourself. When you are old and dying, no one REALLY wants to be around you unless you as rich as Otedola or Hushpupi.

Nuff said!

Marriage is not for mentally insane people.

Marriage is not a scam, it is working for a lot of others

Stop calling this nut case an investigative Journalist. It is a fraudulent claim.

The fact that all those single girls are begging for husbands proves that marriage is not a scam.

ednut1:
No man would have married a lunatic like you. Stop this consolation

You say this if a guy made the same comment?

This woman is a failure!

Double0h7:


You say this if a guy made the same comment?

do i look like a woman

ednut1:
do i look like a woman

You know what I mean

If a man made the same comment this lady made, you'll all agree with him but because a woman made the comment then nobody wants to marry her and she's the problem. Nairalanders and double standards is 5&6.

But she is right though.

Soon, men will prefer baby mama to wife.

That's when the version of the bible that says 7 women will be pleading with one man to allow them bear his name as a wife will come to play.

Hmmmm !

e dey pain am.