This isn't a "who has it worse?" discussion, it's about all men, whichever neurology, when it comes to babies. Men don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. They can just enjoy their baby when it arrives. If I was a guy and I was in a stable relationship, I would be a dad by now. But because I'm a woman, my fears and anxieties are too overwhelming and hold me back from having children. I can't even have a PAP test without crying out in sheer agony, so god only knows how painful it will be to get a baby's head out of there. I'd probably die from shock of the pain. I once saw a meme that I really related to. It said something like "I want a baby but I don't want to go through all the pregnancy and birth, but I don't want to adopt either, can you see my predicament?" "Basically you want to be a father." And that meme is 100% relatable for me. Why can't humans lay eggs that come out when in a size that's small enough to pass without much pain, and then they hatch when ready? So many things can go wrong during a human pregnancy, and some complications can be life-threatening.

Women always complain about pregnancy and giving birth like asif they know the pains men go through during Sperm production.

The excruciating pains, the wails, the sleepless nights, the discomfort... All these are what men go through during sperm production yet you don't see men grumble.

God gave us the most difficult task in the world which is MAKING MONEY.

I know of women are trying really hard to make money as well but then...

To be continued.

Kriss216:
Women always complain about pregnancy and giving birth like asif they know the pains men go through during Sperm production.

The excruciating pains, the wails, the sleepless nights, the discomfort... All these are what men go through during sperm production yet you don't see men grumble.

That's true

most ladies don't go through that very painful natural process again....
meanwhile, in as much as child bearing process is not easy, being a man is something else, just that most men don't talk much about what they go through.

Lol. You for like lay egg instead?


Your post is synonymous to able bodied men that wails and cry instead of being out there to work and make a living, they’ll be shamed and called Lazy.

samiabigail:
This isn't a "who has it worse?" discussion, it's about all
men, whichever neurology, when it comes to babies.
Men don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and
uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. They can
just enjoy their baby when it arrives.
If I was a guy and I was in a stable relationship, I would be
a dad by now. But because I'm a woman, my fears and
anxieties are too overwhelming and hold me back from
having children. I can't even have a PAP test without crying
out in sheer agony, so god only knows how painful it will be
to get a baby's head out of there. I'd probably die from
shock of the pain.
I once saw a meme that I really related to. It said
something like
"I want a baby but I don't want to go through all the
pregnancy and birth, but I don't want to adopt either, can you
see my predicament?"
"Basically you want to be a father."
And that meme is 100% relatable for me.
Why can't humans lay eggs that come out when in a size
that's small enough to pass without much pain, and then
they hatch when ready? So many things can go wrong
during a human pregnancy, and some complications can be
life-threatening.

My dear, men too go tru pains, yes. Financial hardship or struggle. The major reason many men including i are yet to get married or are scared of marriage is the financial responsibilities. Have u sat down and asked urself, how many men are earning well? How many men have good jobs or have well paying jobs? This is one of the reasons i said long distance relationship isn't that favourable to me because either the lady or the guy would just have to pay the price just to make the relationship work which is not really easy. So, not only women, men have their own pains too. If being a man was easy Bobrisky wouldn't have turn into a woman overnight.

Kriss216:
Women always complain about pregnancy and giving birth like asif they know the pains men go through during Sperm production.

The excruciating pains, the wails, the sleepless nights, the discomfort... All these are what men go through during sperm production yet you don't see men grumble.

You no well.

Your opinions are lopsided

samiabigail:
This isn't a "who has it worse?" discussion, it's about all men, whichever neurology, when it comes to babies. Men don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. They can just enjoy their baby when it arrives. If I was a guy and I was in a stable relationship, I would be a dad by now. But because I'm a woman, my fears and anxieties are too overwhelming and hold me back from having children. I can't even have a PAP test without crying out in sheer agony, so god only knows how painful it will be to get a baby's head out of there. I'd probably die from shock of the pain.

Women also don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. Child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women, so, only those who make the choice need worry about it.

You should probably see your doctor about that pain you feel during your pap tests. Pain during intercourse isn't normal either.

Una for no chop apple na dont blame us afterall it was a woman that put us in the mess or so they say

Kobojunkie:
Women also don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. Child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women, so, only those who make the choice need worry about it.

You should probably see your doctor about that pain you feel during your pap tests. Pain during intercourse isn't normal either.

U said child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women. So ur mum made a selfish giving birth to u. Is that what u mean?

Truvelisback:
U said child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women. So ur mum made a selfish giving birth to u. Is that what u mean?

The decision to have a child is selfish one, yes. Even your own parents made that selfish decision when they conceived you too.

Kobojunkie:
The decision to have a child is selfish one, yes. Even your own parents made that selfish decision when they conceived you too.

Na too much C.R.K nai wan kill u so.

Truvelisback:
Na too much C.R.K nai wan kill u so.

You are not making any sense here. What has CRK to do with this here topic?

chinchonglee:
God gave us the most difficult task in the world which is MAKING MONEY.

I know of women are trying really hard to make money as well but then...

To be continued.

Oga God did not give man any task of making money and money making isn't gender specific. Both men and women have the capacity to make money, just that lots of women just want to laze around...

And OP...
You can have a baby without having to go through the "pains and discomfort" of child bearing, do some research and see for yourself...

So stop all this pity child bearing pain trash you're spewing...
Both men and women have their own challenges, no one gender has it easier than the other...

Be mature for a moment and face your challenges like a responsible adult and stop all this wailing ...

And about being a "dad" by now if you were a male, well, that's unlikely...
Look around you...
The men that are your age or older and yet don't have kids, you think it's because they're all sterile?? Or because they're all gay?? Or because they've all choosen to not have kids??

Kikikikikiki...
OP...
Sincerely, you have a bit of growing up to do ((no offense))....

I'm no religionist but it seems we're really living in the end times, men complaining about being men & women complaining about being women. Imagine a bird complaining about having to fly? Think it's high time this planet got wiped again for a fresh start. The level of fvckery this days is reaching unimaginable levels.

All these is because of EVE

so blame Eve

If there is reincarnation
Ask God that u come back as a man and go through what real men go through. . .
Infact if im God i will turn u to a man right away lol
Men go through multiple pain but it is not in a men nature to talk besides the society doest even give men a chance or ready to listen to his pathetic stories. But society expect everything from a man. Everyone wants to take from a man and no one wants to give . family, friends, neighbors, community and even strangers.
I will leave other facts unmentioned for now


You don't know anything.
Dem no dey tell person

samiabigail:

samiabigail:
This isn't a "who has it worse?" discussion, it's about all
men, whichever neurology, when it comes to babies.
Men don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and
uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. They can
just enjoy their baby when it arrives.
If I was a guy and I was in a stable relationship, I would be
a dad by now. But because I'm a woman, my fears and
anxieties are too overwhelming and hold me back from
having children. I can't even have a PAP test without crying
out in sheer agony, so god only knows how painful it will be
to get a baby's head out of there. I'd probably die from
shock of the pain.
I once saw a meme that I really related to. It said
something like
"I want a baby but I don't want to go through all the
pregnancy and birth, but I don't want to adopt either, can you
see my predicament?"
"Basically you want to be a father."
And that meme is 100% relatable for me.
Why can't humans lay eggs that come out when in a size
that's small enough to pass without much pain, and then
they hatch when ready? So many things can go wrong
during a human pregnancy, and some complications can be
life-threatening.

Was it not a man that committed suicide just last week leaving his family behind.
He probably couldn't bear the shame of watching them suffer in penury.

MALIGNANTGuest:

Was it not a man that committed suicide just last week leaving his family behind.
He probably couldn't bear the shame of watching them suffer in penury.

Now that he has killed himself, are you suggesting they are better off?

He killed himself for selfish reasons... and nothing else. Stop trying to make it seem it was because he cared for his family.

Everytime na pregnancy women de talk about.

Favfables1:


Oga God did not give man any task of making money and money making isn't gender specific. Both men and women have the capacity to make money, just that lots of women just want to laze around...

And OP...
You can have a baby without having to go through the "pains and discomfort" of child bearing, do some research and see for yourself...

So stop all this pity child bearing pain trash you're spewing...
Both men and women have their own challenges, no one gender has it easier than the other...

Be mature for a moment and face your challenges like a responsible adult and stop all this wailing ...

And about being a "dad" by now if you were a male, well, that's unlikely...
Look around you...
The men that are your age or older and yet don't have kids, you think it's because they're all sterile?? Or because they're all gay?? Or because they've all choosen to not have kids??

Kikikikikiki...
OP...
Sincerely, you have a bit of growing up to do ((no offense))....

I feel you find it difficult to understand as you are a dunce.

Who gets broke shamed in a family where there is no money?

Am nt in the mood to start explaining things right now.

We all thought like this until we became men.


If given the opportunity, a lot of men will secretly become women.

If you doubt me, why don't you travel out.

Woman way easy

chinchonglee:

1. I feel you find it difficult to understand as you are a dunce.

2. Who gets broke shamed in a family where there is no money?

3. Am nt in the mood to start explaining things right now.

1. Kikikikikiki

As usual, when they get called out over a superstitious & senseless point they made, rather than clarify, they get all insecure and start throwing insults upandan...

You know it's awk if you're ignorant about certain things ...
As long as you humble yourself, you'll grow out of it ...

2. It depends ...

3. Mood keh...
Kikikikikiki...

Just say you don't know anything sensible to respond, which one is "you're not in the mood"...
Mtttttcheeeeewww...

Kriss216:
Women always complain about pregnancy and giving birth like asif they know the pains men go through during Sperm production.

The excruciating pains, the wails, the sleepless nights, the discomfort... All these are what men go through during sperm production yet you don't see men grumble.

Why you de lie like this na?

Marry a man with big gbola. And knack often to slacker the interior.
That way the baby can come out without much stress.