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Men Are So Lucky by samiabigail: 7:17pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
This isn't a "who has it worse?" discussion, it's about all
men, whichever neurology, when it comes to babies.
Men don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and
uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. They can
just enjoy their baby when it arrives.
If I was a guy and I was in a stable relationship, I would be
a dad by now. But because I'm a woman, my fears and
anxieties are too overwhelming and hold me back from
having children. I can't even have a PAP test without crying
out in sheer agony, so god only knows how painful it will be
to get a baby's head out of there. I'd probably die from
shock of the pain.
I once saw a meme that I really related to. It said
something like
"I want a baby but I don't want to go through all the
pregnancy and birth, but I don't want to adopt either, can you
see my predicament?"
"Basically you want to be a father."
And that meme is 100% relatable for me.
Why can't humans lay eggs that come out when in a size
that's small enough to pass without much pain, and then
they hatch when ready? So many things can go wrong
during a human pregnancy, and some complications can be
life-threatening. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Kriss216: 7:32pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Women always complain about pregnancy and giving birth like asif they know the pains men go through during Sperm production. The excruciating pains, the wails, the sleepless nights, the discomfort... All these are what men go through during sperm production yet you don't see men grumble. 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by chinchonglee(m): 7:36pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
God gave us the most difficult task in the world which is MAKING MONEY. I know of women are trying really hard to make money as well but then... To be continued. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by ahmthankgod(m): 7:41pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kriss216:That's true 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by culf: 7:41pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
most ladies don't go through that very painful natural process again.... meanwhile, in as much as child bearing process is not easy, being a man is something else, just that most men don't talk much about what they go through. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Lol. You for like lay egg instead? Your post is synonymous to able bodied men that wails and cry instead of being out there to work and make a living, they’ll be shamed and called Lazy. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Truvelisback(m): 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
samiabigail:My dear, men too go tru pains, yes. Financial hardship or struggle. The major reason many men including i are yet to get married or are scared of marriage is the financial responsibilities. Have u sat down and asked urself, how many men are earning well? How many men have good jobs or have well paying jobs? This is one of the reasons i said long distance relationship isn't that favourable to me because either the lady or the guy would just have to pay the price just to make the relationship work which is not really easy. So, not only women, men have their own pains too. If being a man was easy Bobrisky wouldn't have turn into a woman overnight. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Nobody: 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kriss216: You no well. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by jericco1(m): 8:14pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Your opinions are lopsided |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Kobojunkie: 8:18pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
samiabigail:Women also don't have to go through all the pain, discomfort and uncertainty of carrying the baby or giving birth. Child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women, so, only those who make the choice need worry about it. You should probably see your doctor about that pain you feel during your pap tests. Pain during intercourse isn't normal either. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by headbasher96(m): 8:21pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Una for no chop apple na dont blame us afterall it was a woman that put us in the mess or so they say 1 Like |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Truvelisback(m): 8:27pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:U said child bearing is a selfish choice made even by women. So ur mum made a selfish giving birth to u. Is that what u mean? |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Kobojunkie: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Truvelisback:The decision to have a child is selfish one, yes. Even your own parents made that selfish decision when they conceived you too. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Truvelisback(m): 8:31pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Na too much C.R.K nai wan kill u so. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Kobojunkie: 8:31pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Truvelisback:You are not making any sense here. What has CRK to do with this here topic? 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
chinchonglee: Oga God did not give man any task of making money and money making isn't gender specific. Both men and women have the capacity to make money, just that lots of women just want to laze around... And OP... You can have a baby without having to go through the "pains and discomfort" of child bearing, do some research and see for yourself... So stop all this pity child bearing pain trash you're spewing... Both men and women have their own challenges, no one gender has it easier than the other... Be mature for a moment and face your challenges like a responsible adult and stop all this wailing ... And about being a "dad" by now if you were a male, well, that's unlikely... Look around you... The men that are your age or older and yet don't have kids, you think it's because they're all sterile?? Or because they're all gay?? Or because they've all choosen to not have kids?? Kikikikikiki... OP... Sincerely, you have a bit of growing up to do ((no offense)).... 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by SKhanmi: 9:49pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
I'm no religionist but it seems we're really living in the end times, men complaining about being men & women complaining about being women. Imagine a bird complaining about having to fly? Think it's high time this planet got wiped again for a fresh start. The level of fvckery this days is reaching unimaginable levels. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Chiver(m): 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
All these is because of EVE so blame Eve |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by TheWolfen(m): 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
If there is reincarnation Ask God that u come back as a man and go through what real men go through. . . Infact if im God i will turn u to a man right away lol Men go through multiple pain but it is not in a men nature to talk besides the society doest even give men a chance or ready to listen to his pathetic stories. But society expect everything from a man. Everyone wants to take from a man and no one wants to give . family, friends, neighbors, community and even strangers. I will leave other facts unmentioned for now You don't know anything. Dem no dey tell person samiabigail: 1 Like |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Nobody: 12:39am On Dec 18, 2021 |
samiabigail:Was it not a man that committed suicide just last week leaving his family behind. He probably couldn't bear the shame of watching them suffer in penury. |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Kobojunkie: 4:15am On Dec 18, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:Now that he has killed himself, are you suggesting they are better off? He killed himself for selfish reasons... and nothing else. Stop trying to make it seem it was because he cared for his family. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Mathiasa(m): 5:18am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Everytime na pregnancy women de talk about. 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Men Are So Lucky by chinchonglee(m): 7:12am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Favfables1:I feel you find it difficult to understand as you are a dunce. Who gets broke shamed in a family where there is no money? Am nt in the mood to start explaining things right now. |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Karleb(m): 7:33am On Dec 18, 2021 |
We all thought like this until we became men. If given the opportunity, a lot of men will secretly become women. If you doubt me, why don't you travel out. |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by wiseone28: 9:05am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Woman way easy 1 Like
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Re: Men Are So Lucky by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 18, 2021 |
chinchonglee: 1. Kikikikikiki As usual, when they get called out over a superstitious & senseless point they made, rather than clarify, they get all insecure and start throwing insults upandan... You know it's awk if you're ignorant about certain things ... As long as you humble yourself, you'll grow out of it ... 2. It depends ... 3. Mood keh... Kikikikikiki... Just say you don't know anything sensible to respond, which one is "you're not in the mood"... Mtttttcheeeeewww... |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by pansophist(m): 11:35am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Kriss216: Why you de lie like this na? 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are So Lucky by Gee64: 2:14pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Marry a man with big gbola. And knack often to slacker the interior. That way the baby can come out without much stress. |
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