This is a very tricky one and I had to think for a while.

Solving this issue without creating enmity with your brother lies in putting your energy into making your father recover on time.

Besides you never told us what ailment your father suffers from, for how long, also you and your brother's age will go along way towards giving accurate solution.

The truth is that if your bro keeps spending these money unchecked, it will get to a point that he will start doing things to make your father not recover so that he won't have to give account.

So try call meeting with rest of family members to know how best to treat your father so he can recover quickly. Then you ALL can call your bro to give account of what he is doing to aid your father's recovery.

Warning: never confront your elder bro on this matter alone because not only will you not win but he can also target you. It's better if you push buttons without him even suspecting it's you. The trick is to get all the family members put him on hot seat.

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