Recently going through most guys comment about a fiancée lying about herself before marriage. I found this rather disturbing... Really? According to him;
Don't ever marry a lair.....I don talk my own oo......I can never trust that kinda woman. Although, I am married with kids. When we were courting I asked her about her past . And told me. And I told her mine too.
Someone just countered and asked him; did she tell you her bodycount?
My assertion is this...
As long as you ain't married to a virgin, she has a secret! And no virgin is 100% truthful with her past. Especially on body count. Some past are better left in the past, trying to find out from your significant other is like digging out a buried carcass.
Marriage na like dog play, you fall for me, I fall for you. we sometimes we detect lies, but we choose to ignore and move on. If a palm wine tapper begin talk wetin em dey see from top, he might fall.
There's no perfect marriage out there. How long would you keep forming hard man to the woman of your youth who births your kids all because of some mistakes or lies. For how long? Let love lead, your wife can't be your enemy.
Love covers all! When you're pained, call her to order in love and do remember what made you proposed to her or how you started. Give room to open communication, don't make her look scared whenever you're around and happy when you're not at home. For how long would this continue? Marriage is a lifetime process. The earlier you repair your boat would determine how far you'll stay afloat.
Peace

Making sense shaa

If you follow this advise walai you'll die early, na wetin one of my uncle de suffer now, didn't care too much about the wife's past not knowing she has been in 3 marriages also rendering the men useless, and rippi g them of their wealth, now doing the same to my uncle.

Omo de try know person past oh, decisions made in the past has an effect on the quality of your future.

Crazy op, wahala for person wey follow this advice

OP...
Never marry a liar is one advice everyone needs to follow... If I can't trust what you say or if your words don't match your actions, then you have no value in my eyes...

However...
Refusing to know about your wife's past for whatever reason is foolish (in my opinion)...

I hope you know that they're some things we've done in the past that still affects us even till the future?

Imagine a man gets married to a woman for years and they can't have children, and when they start going from one hospital to the other spending money here and there, he now discovers that his wife doesn't have a womb because of an abortion gone wrong, what then happens?? You think he would not regret it if he followed this your advice??

See eh, marriage is not something you enter just like that, you need to be aware of exactly what you're getting into, cause that's the person who will have access to your food, your drinking water, your body, practically EVERYTHING!! So it'll be foolishness to leave anything to chance...

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OP...
Never marry a liar is one advice everyone needs to follow... If I can't trust what you say or if your words don't match your actions, then you have no value in my eyes...

However...
Refusing to know about your wife's past for whatever reason is foolish (in my opinion)...

I hope you know that they're some things we've done in the past that still affects us even till the future?

Imagine a man gets married to a woman for years and they can't have children, and when they start going from one hospital to the other spending money here and there, he now discovers that his wife doesn't have a womb because of an abortion gone wrong, what then happens?? You think he would not regret it if he followed this your advice??

See eh, marriage is not something you enter just like that, you need to be aware of exactly what you're getting into, cause that's the person who will have access to your food, your drinking water, your body, practically EVERYTHING!! So it'll be foolishness to leave anything to chance...

Good bless you