mardis:
E be like say woman do Op strong thing

FernandezPablo:
I think men should also stop sexualizing and expecting things from women when they do them a favour..it's really simple tho..
Today I am gonna be very considerate and speak to you all as a parent is gonna speak to their kids..

mardis:
E be like say woman do Op strong thing

LiberatedGirl:


So that's the reason Women are doing Gbe Raga to complete strangers ? The real reason is today's Nigerian girl is materialistic and proud over absolutely nothing. I've seen men praise women out of support and even pity and the babe starts to think she is hot. Today I witnessed just how women are, I came out of my gate because i opened the gate, a woman in her early thirties was jogging by she had passed my gate when I opened it all of a sudden she started looking back with the sides of her eye to see if I was a man checking her body. I am a woman but babe believed it was a man who opened the gate. I watched her as she kept moving forward and looking at the gate from the side of her head. It just dawned on me that Women are obsessed with the thought men are always checking them out. it's vanity to think men think of you all the time. It's the same self importance women now have. I see women treat men they have Never met with contempt when those men have done absolutely nothing to deserve it. Women are becoming hostile and paranoid. You don't go around treating people who have not hurt you badly. Only a person with mental issues behaves like that

LiberatedGirl:
Alot of Naija Girls are full of Gbe Raga, Lifting Shoulder, Forming and Fronting. Why would any one love a person who lifts herself up and throws people down in their faces ? Women are simply creating drama over nothing. You are fine and are wearing the latest dress. And so what ? You are fine and men are toasting you. My take is Women should be grateful whenever anyone goes out of their way to show kindness to them. If a bus conductor is giving you the eye you should be thankful someone is interested in you at that point in time. Women need to stop living in the Woman's day dream of waiting for Prince charming. There are Prince Charming everywhere. The Vulcanizer is charming, the man who pushes water is Charming. If you see any man behaving in an excited way because of your presence as long as he is not insulting you or touching you you should be happy you made an impact in someone's life or brought happiness to someone. Women need to reduce the monitization of Friendship with men. If a man compliments you with kind words, he has done a very good thing. Stop day dreaming that a man in a Lexus Jeep will sweep you off your feet with compliments that will boost your mood. Be friendly and open to men who are friendly and open to you. I'm not saying you should start greeting people right left and center I'm saying change your focus. Accept kindness from people who are kind. stop wanting only rich men to be kind to you. As long as Women focus on Their looks alone they will live very shallow lives. There is no gain in lifting up yourself and then doing Gbe Raga and casting people down. What goes around comes around, if you look down on people they will retaliate and look down on you. What have you gained then ? It is wise to spread Love than Animosity. Always remember there is always a payback.

FernandezPablo:

Men are really becoming very hostile and paranoid daily..

LiberatedGirl:
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But do men approach women with Hostility ? Men may approach women wrongly yes that is very common. Let's be truthful Today's Nigerian woman lacks manners is very proud is very materialistic. This post was Created at Women it's not a post to start talking about what men do. It's like me Criticising Christians and someone starts to talk of Islam when I was creating a comment targeting Christians. I think it's good if people can take Criticism without always trying to ask for everyone to be Criticised also. Or maybe I should start including Children and aliens in my posts to make them more Universal. It's like talking of Nigerias problems and someone is trying to add Americas problems also. Focus is very important and skirting issues never leads to progress

Truvelisback:
U on point, abt the Gbe Raga. It's just too much. Most times, they it get into their head which made them always feel, Beside me, there is no other lady.

FernandezPablo:

You do have a great point.. thanks for proving me wrong in a sensible manner..

LiberatedGirl:


It has got to the point of disgusting. I have seen Women hiss when men approach them, is that necessary ? I have bricklayers come a toast me and I just chat back, the guy is just showing he likes my swag. Bus conductors have told me they want to take me home or I should sit in the bus till they finish work, I just laugh because I know they are joking. People are people and it's not a good thing to go around being hostile. As I have said Materialism is Killing women, women are classifing men based on how much money they have. So if you are poor Women will be hostile to you. If you have money and approach wrongly they will correct your wrongness for you. Alot of Women will be angry with my Criticism but I'm on women's side. A woman's manners make her more beautiful, a friendly woman is almost 3 times more beautiful. Beauty is kindness and humility not just about big breasts and big ass. I'm not saying women should stop because a man is calling her I'm just saying all the pride and Gbe Raga is very unnecessary. You can be firm and polite

Truvelisback:
U have said it all. I may tolerate other behaviours from any lady but Pride and arrogancy is what i can never tolerate. If u are a lady with pride and arrogancy, i will deliberately hurt ur feelings and make u feel worthless.

Truvelisback:
These are things i may tolerate from any lady: If u can't cook, i may tolerate u, if u don't know how to dress, i may tolerate u, if u aren't educated or can't communicate well in Eng, i may tolerate u, etc. But what i can never tolerate is Pride and arrogancy. That's why i rarely have female contacts on my phone. I'm the type that i easily bone ladies who acts that way.

LiberatedGirl:


I will like to apologise if I said anything anywhere to upset you. I want my babes to be more beautiful through control of Emotions and through kindness. If I Criticise women it's because I know if Women are more considerate they are more in charge of situations.

LiberatedGirl:


You are doing the right thing by boneing them. Anyone who tries to make people feel inferior has to be avoided or ignored

Datboredberry:
You're a fraud! I know you offline... Be warned...

I'll post my findings!

FernandezPablo:

Men are really becoming very hostile and paranoid daily..

Truvelisback:
Stop being an Ass hole. It seems u are still new to women.

FernandezPablo:

You have a problem with that?

Truvelisback:
U are just one sided in ur judgement. U don't judge base on Reality rather u judge base on or out of Pity for the female gender. If u have been a victim of the female gender b4, u won't thinking this way.

FernandezPablo:

Why should I?so cos a woman hurt you I should come online to bash them..
Do you know how many women your gender rape on a daily basis..I stand for justice not some nonsense movement and generalisation..
Do you know how many years I've been observing this women bashing on here..you boys have been mocking and ridiculing women all these while comfortably cos all the women were mature enough to ignore your brainlessness..
Guess what I am giving you a spoon of the insults you guys gave women and y'all crying on my mention daily..tell those weaklings wannabe redpillers to stop bashing women then you gonna sense some difference..

LiberatedGirl:


I will like to apologise if I said anything anywhere to upset you. I want my babes to be more beautiful through control of Emotions and through kindness. If I Criticise women it's because I know if Women are more considerate they are more in charge of situations.

Truvelisback:

FernandezPablo:

Good for you ... you should have done the same without quoting me ...

Truvelisback:
I quoted u because ur reasoning is one sided and childish. U think, being an ass hole by impressing ladies with flavourable speech even when they are doing the wrong things will make them love u? No, bro. Do u know why ladies love and respect me, despite the fact that i am not that financial bouyant? Even though i am that loving type but i don't take Shit from any lady, no matter how beautiful u are. Infact ur beauty is like a shit to me except u prove to me that u are more than just a pretty face.