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How Best Would You Handle It by toobusy: 11:36am On Jan 14
Hi fam....trust y'all are good
Please ignore any grammatical and typographical error
So am planning to return back to the country and get married,the first girl I was planning to settle down with(a medical student in her 500l in one of the renowned Medical institution in Nigeria) and also an ardent Christian,declined my proposal 3 times on the ground, that she didn't hear anything positive from God about us coupling together,after much emotional struggle,I came into my own and moved on, then decided to go for another lady (a midwife and currently working but not earning much) from the same state as me,this second lady has given me all the gree light that I need,but she has constantly insisted that she will never agree to any wedding that's not court wedding, which I detest...her insistence on court wedding has been of a very big source of concern to me....note::I really don't have much ladies in my life since I have never been into women as much almost all my life,it has always been hustling....this two ladies were the ones I met while I was teaching in a private secondary school after graduation,while I was still in Nigeria,they are the ones I could say that I know a little about them(they were my students back then).....what should I do in this case,I really don't fancy court marriage because of the excessive and unnecessary merits it affords women.

Mod if you can help a brother and push to front page for more audience please.
Thanks

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by helinues: 11:42am On Jan 14
Why not return back first and engage with those two.

Take your time to study both of them in real and see which one has more qualities of your bucket list.

Btw, in this 21st century, if you are financially stable, psychologically fit and matured enough, 6 months should be enough to get a good girl

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by GerraMeh74(m): 11:46am On Jan 14
Maybe the next guy will have something to say, lemmi book this space.

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Truvelisback(m): 11:50am On Jan 14
I fear court marriage ooo. I won't have any court marriage with any lady. It doesn't favours men, it favours women alone. Infact, it's even more dangerous doing court marriage if u are rich.

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Nobody: 11:57am On Jan 14
Just ditch the two girls, come back home and a get yourself someone new. Court marriage?never you go that route bruh!

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Godada(m): 11:58am On Jan 14


The guy above me just spoke my mind.

You have not confronted the elephant in the room.... You inability to have meaningful relationship with women.

That's what you need to tackle. True power means having options. If A, B, C, D or whatever don't work, you know you have options.

So the matter is simple.

Ditch the two ladies, you are obsessed about.

Come down and find other willing ladies.

A word of note, hide the fact you are not based in Nigeria.

Dull your colors and go for wife hunting.

And get a copy of the art of seduction by Robert Greene.

Brush yourself up with that.

Good luck.

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by toobusy: 12:00pm On Jan 14
helinues:
Why not return back first and engage with those two.

Take your time to study both of them in real and see which one has more qualities of your bucket list.

Btw, in this 21st century, if you are financially stable, psychologically fit and matured enough, 6 months should be enough to get a good girl
......the first lady already declined my proposal and no more in the picture anymore,my issue is with the second lady and her insistence on court wedding.
Re: How Best Would You Handle It by toobusy: 12:01pm On Jan 14
SmellySperm:
Just ditch the two girls, come back home and a get yourself someone new. Court marriage?never you go that route bruh!
..... don't have much time to stay when I return.
Re: How Best Would You Handle It by toobusy: 12:01pm On Jan 14
Truvelisback:
I fear court marriage ooo. I won't have any court marriage with any lady. It doesn't favours men, it favours women alone. Infact, it's even more dangerous doing court marriage if u are rich.
........ likewise me,I detest it much

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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jan 14
toobusy:
..... don't have much time to stay when I return.
Better you take your time than rush into a decision you might regret after. Marriage grammy award isn't waiting for you,take your time bruh
Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Yohans(m): 12:07pm On Jan 14
Why not look for a woman in the country you're residing and marry her.
Re: How Best Would You Handle It by Godada(m): 12:07pm On Jan 14
toobusy:
......the first lady already declined my proposal and no more in the picture anymore,my issue is with the second lady and her insistence on court wedding.


Let that lady go to hell.

Or if you want her that bad, she should sign a prenuptial agreement.

Get a competent lawyer to draft you one.

What's this with court marriage?

Seems she wants to cash out with you.

If she refuses the prenuptial agreement, then you are on your own if you don't walk away
Re: How Best Would You Handle It by baralatie(m): 12:10pm On Jan 14
All these you ludo games you are playing
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Re: How Best Would You Handle It by helinues: 12:23pm On Jan 14
toobusy:
......the first lady already declined my proposal and no more in the picture anymore,my issue is with the second lady and her insistence on court wedding.

You knew the person back then now not. Get to the country and re know her better.. People do change

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