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. by emblem2d(m): 10:06pm On Jan 25, 2022
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Re: . by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jan 25, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.


it almost do every men. . . . It hard to leave masturbation. . Jux try to be busy always. . Dnt be thinkin bad thing. And quit watchin porn. cry
Re: . by FERNANDEZISBACK: 10:12pm On Jan 25, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.
Why on Earth would you want to quit masturbation tho? undecided

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Re: . by Number1benue: 10:13pm On Jan 25, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Why on Earth would you want to quit masturbation tho? undecided



Abeg ask am again....
Re: . by TundeWX: 10:14pm On Jan 25, 2022
Bro...Best advice I'll give you is get a woman: be it a girlfriend or a fling.no amount of advice anyone can give you here will top the experience of your JT failing you at point of entry because you're used to self service and not normal intercourse. That enough will make you quit it for good.
Also get a job/gig that take all of ur time.

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Re: . by emblem2d(m): 10:16pm On Jan 25, 2022
cry
teddybarz:



it almost do every men. . . . It hard to leave masturbation. . Jux try to be busy always. . Dnt be thinkin bad thing. And quit watchin porn. cry
embarassed
teddybarz:


i want to quit totally, i dn't like my self like dis.

it almost do every men. . . . It hard to leave masturbation. . Jux try to be busy always. . Dnt be thinkin bad thing. And quit watchin porn. cry
Re: . by Badbunny: 10:19pm On Jan 25, 2022
Cut it off bro shocked

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Re: . by emblem2d(m): 10:20pm On Jan 25, 2022
it's a hell of an addiction, i'm so ashamed of my self, i've been trying to stop but i can't, it has taken a toll on me.

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Re: . by chatinent: 10:23pm On Jan 25, 2022
Stop porn.

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Re: . by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 25, 2022
emblem2d:
it's a hell of an addiction, i'm so ashamed of my self, i've been trying to stop but i can't, it has taken a toll on me.
it takes a habit to replace another one. Firstly, remove every physical material linked to sex... Porn on phone, magazine, memo card, e t.c, try to be with friends. When you are home, and circumstances demand you are alone, read books, magazine, or see movies. If no light, watch skits on phone. Better still,log on to this forum. Above all realise it's a bad habit yourself and pray to almighty God in Heaven, yes there's one great person up there who can count every strand of hair on heads if every human, dead or alive, not to talk if the one person on whose head the strands of hair grow on

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Re: . by DonBenny77(m): 10:45pm On Jan 25, 2022
Me too
Re: . by godofuck231: 10:48pm On Jan 25, 2022
Join the nugerian army and visit bornu, you go shoot continuously for 3 days ,masturbation go wipe from your brain , fingering an ak would be your new love

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Re: . by StarGra: 10:53pm On Jan 25, 2022
Anything you starve dies...Starve it...

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Re: . by IamPlato(m): 11:16pm On Jan 25, 2022
Next Time Use Coconut oil You Wont regret it. E Go Sweet You Die

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Re: . by arthurwillia(m): 11:17pm On Jan 25, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.

Joblessness causes it plus get a woman to lash
Re: . by Nobody: 12:29am On Jan 26, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.
First, know this: your lifestyle is not as a result of PMO (Porn, Masturbation & Orgasm). PMO is as a result of your lifestyle.
Tackling it the wrong way can only take you so far and in no time you'd be back to ground zero.

I don't dare give advice, but these are what I would do.

1. Read the bible daily. Even if you're not a Christian, read and study the bible as a book of wisdom.

2. Install a DNS family filter on your phone, it will automatically block 18+ websites. Look up Cleanbrowsing filter, although it has a very harsh firewall as it can disable access to certain forums such as nairaland and reddit. If you're interested DM or request on how to reduce the firewall strength so it blocks most 18+ websites without blacklisting nairaland. However, after activating the filter, you have to decide to not turn it off no matter what. Because it shall be your first line of defense.

3. Don't fight alone, join a community or get an accountability partner. Search for NoFap reddit.

4. Don't listen to anybody that tells you masturbation is good, they're not normal. Similarly, don't assume getting a girlfriend (Sex buddy) is a solution. A lesser demon is nonetheless a demon.

5. Daily Self-reflection and Meditation. Train your mind. Train your body while you're at it. Exercise more, join a gym.

6. Have a goal. It doesn't have to be as grand as saving the world, truly focus on something for the next few days, anything. Because, the false boredom is a key cause of PMO.

7. Same as 6, Live by a map, a compass and a clock.

8. Don't be insane. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, it's being 8 years, find out your patterns and break them.

9. Can't say this enough, Read the Bible, without it the efficiency of everything else I mentioned drops significantly.

10. Take action. And for more tips Visit NoFap Reddit.

Simply put, when you truly live, and have a better lifestyle, PMO will have no place.

Lastly, this might not be of much help, but word in the air is that there's a system being developed to help combat addictions such as PMO.
Re: . by BegAt40: 12:49am On Jan 26, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why on Earth would you want to quit masturbation tho? undecided
this ozuor don start with him irrelevancies again.

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Re: . by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:49am On Jan 26, 2022
BegAt40:


this ozuor don start with him irrelevancies again.
After embarrassing yourself on that thread you come here again..you can't do nothing else than shout..

Grow up and stop disturbing cos ain't responsible for your misfortune in any way..where were you when I quoted you on that thread?
Do yourself a favor by staying very far from my comments so as to avoid embarrassment aiit..
Pick your life up and stop being brainless online..is this what you want for yourself?no
Y've done more than enough to keep cloning my account now you are here stalking and looking for my comments everywhere..
After cloning their account you come here to start talking nonsense laying false accusations...you saw what happened on that thread huh?
Everyone knows you as a liar and terrible person..
You are a weakling aiit..stay far away and never you quote me except you love embarrassment..
Re: . by Justus36: 6:56am On Jan 26, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.
It starts from the mind. Work on your mind, never to accept or yield to it when ever it comes to your mind, because if you allow it in your mind you will do it but if you don't give in in your mind it won't happen. Guide your mind
Re: . by DanielAlhassan(m): 7:14am On Jan 26, 2022
arthurwillia:


Joblessness causes it plus get a woman to lash
I agreed with joblessness as the cause but will lashing a girl stop someone from murstibating
Re: . by Nobody: 7:20am On Jan 26, 2022
Nothing wrong with masturbation boy. Do it, drink some yogurt and sleep. Whether you do it voluntarily or not, the sperm will still find its way out. I believe the guilt you feel is religion related. Deal with that first!!!

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Re: . by emblem2d(m): 7:47am On Jan 26, 2022
PMO is as a result of your lifestyle.
Tackling it the wrong way can only take you so far and in no time you'd be back to ground zero.

I don't dare give advice, but these are what I would do.

1. Read the bible daily. Even if you're not a Christian, read and study the bible as a book of wisdom.

2. Install a DNS family filter on your phone, it will automatically block 18+ websites. Look up Cleanbrowsing filter, although it has a very harsh firewall as it can disable access to certain forums such as nairaland and reddit. If you're interested DM or request on how to reduce the firewall strength so it blocks most 18+ websites without blacklisting nairaland. However, after activating the filter, you have to decide to not turn it off no matter what. Because it shall be your first line of defense.

3. Don't fight alone, join a community or get an accountability partner. Searchthanks for the instructions i pray for God's grace for me to adhere.
Re: . by arthurwillia(m): 2:47pm On Jan 26, 2022
DanielAlhassan:
I agreed with joblessness as the cause but will lashing a girl stop someone from murstibating

It will bro.
You masturbate because you feel urge to release
If you have sex at least once a week
I will see where you will see soerm I release when you masturbate
Re: . by DanielAlhassan(m): 7:23am On Jan 27, 2022
arthurwillia:


It will bro.
You masturbate because you feel urge to release
If you have sex at least once a week
I will see where you will see soerm I release when you masturbate
are you kidding me
Re: . by arthurwillia(m): 7:33am On Jan 27, 2022
DanielAlhassan:
are you kidding me


I no know
But masturbating is to cum na and be satisfied
Then regular sex will take the place of that
Re: . by DanielAlhassan(m): 2:24pm On Jan 27, 2022
arthurwillia:


I no know
But masturbating is to cum na and be satisfied
Then regular sex will take the place of that
you are not serious

From fry pan to fire

Only God can deliver someone from murstibating
Re: . by arthurwillia(m): 5:02pm On Jan 27, 2022
DanielAlhassan:
you are not serious

From fry pan to fire

Only God can deliver someone from murstibating
Mtchew


I even think say na sensible person I Dey reply since
Re: . by DanielAlhassan(m): 1:24am On Jan 28, 2022
arthurwillia:

Mtchew


I even think say na sensible person I Dey reply since
you get sense before for your mind now u dey advice person

U need slap
Re: . by spuknik: 3:30am On Jan 28, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.
Get a true man of God to and deliver you from this addiction.
Re: . by arthurwillia(m): 6:59pm On Jan 28, 2022
DanielAlhassan:
you get sense before for your mind now u dey advice person

U need slap

Baba mi you no get one sense like this
Re: . by LikeAking: 7:32pm On Jan 28, 2022
emblem2d:
I can't evn type right now, i just did it after watching porn. Pls help it's been 8yrs of addiction, i'm tired.

Get a babe.

The only solution
Re: . by MikeofKd(m): 8:04pm On Jan 28, 2022
Guy it's really simple gets rid of porn and anytin that turns u on basically, track your progress as well , count the weeks you stay celibate, like week one , week two etc continue the progress .

And whenever you wanna relapse ,Remember that the benefits of celibacy is one in a lifetime energy. Your skin glows differently ,you start attracting girls ,your confidence and self awareness increases and plenty more , think of all these benefits. Plus u don't feel the guilt of masturbation at all.

An 8 years old child ain't even a kid no more and that how long you've been doing it ,time to stop and reflect.
Think about your life very well . Stay out your comfort zone. It's really you against you.
It's nobodies business whether you continue or not ,but your gonna keep hating yourself more and more.

Turn to Christ, ask for help, only Jesus can help a man truly. Pray with all your heart. Good luck bro.

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