damosade:
Leave her alone,love dey do am gishi gishi., By the time reality of life sets in nobody will tell her.

Beblessedbaba:
Dearest Younger sister,

Out there is no piece of cake, use your head not your heart when you have the opportunity now.

I pity yo you for what you what to put yourself into at the moment. Even single mothers with skills and married couple are complaining in your own case you think it is just push and push then you are a mother. Use your head.

Your greatest support system are discussing with you now; it is best you engage them properly. I really wish there is crystal ball for you to know what you want to get into at 21 with no skill.

NB: Nigerian men don't have chill for women o especially single mothers. They will use you, use your spirit and soul join in the name of love.

ZALA64:
Good evening dear Nairalanders, I have a story to share with you and I will appreciate your candid advice

I have a junior sister of about 21 years of age, finished secondary school in 2019, tried gaining admission but didn't get eventually, also did A level but at the end, there was nothing to show for, this isn't cause she is a dullard but something Sha must end up something, she applied for another A level at Unilag, and was pushing through not until the news of her pregnancy came in, she was two months gone when I got to know, I really tried to persuade her to abort because I was concerned about her Education and our parent feeling but she insisted and I allowed her take her decision, we informed my dad and mum then the big issue starts, right now my dad does not want to have anything to do with her, she is currently living at my dad's junior brother house

The most annoying part to my dad was that she got pregnant to a Christian which my dad would not approve of, even when they tried to talk to him multiple, right now, he does not care if she exist or not, all he knows is she can't live under his roof anymore

I am the elder sister and my consign goes beyond the religion issue, the boys mother is some sort of hell, didn't like my sister and she looks really fetish, the whole family looked cursed to me, the guy is the only one that managed to finish ND and he is currently learning Mechanic after his ND Program, I have tried to persuade my sister to not have the intention of getting married to the guy now, because first she's young, second how would she feed and third that family is a no no, the red flags are just too glaring, Her strong head is just too much which is why I'm putting it out, if she's reading comments from another person maybe she'd pick something, I have invited her as a guest to Nairaland and she would be seeing all your advices. Kindly help us.

Thank you.

ZALA64:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

Thank you.

snoopz:
A child at 21 don dey collect dick under her parent house??
BTW what was her papa and mama doing that they can't properly guide a girl at that age to the extent of getting pregnant ( obviously not the first time she is having sex, just that the last knacking change am for them)...
If you people taught her well and she didn't listen, well she is on the part to destruction because a child at that age with little or no support at all can scatter both the child and the mother's future...

Try and let her see the reason a child now is not the way forward and see a certified doctor probably in a govt hospital to avoid stories if she understands she doesn't need a child distraction now, and if she wants to keep the child, you guys are in for a treat

NewSoul:
Who was giving her money to do A levels? Your dad? Put yourself for your daddy shoes. He was spending money so that his daughter will be something in life but she want to use her hand to strangulate her own destiny

She has been brainwashed by all this social media and artiste life that gamorizes "baby-mamaism" . No real thinking man will have anything serious to do with a single mother aside using her for sex. Leave am she is an adult, she know what she is getting herself into but na advice we go just advice. Body go later tell am

Gerrard59:
The way I was trained eh, if you take any action, you alone will bear the consequences. So, I don't have anything to advise you on.

She should bear the consequences, because last I checked, condom is minimum N150. If the irresponsible fvcktard of a boy couldn't buy a pack, he should have bought just a sachet! You see why I said they should both bear the consequences?!

The last thing I'll ever do is advise irresponsible people!

chii8:
Please, the guy is not a Christain.... Christains don't steal someone's child, impregnate them without paying bride price.