We've taken some time to privately enjoy this moment and bask in the celebration of it all. However, we're beginning to understand it might be next to impossible keeping a lid on this for much longer.
After thinking long and hard, we ultimately would love for this announcement to be on our own terms and molded in our own true narrative. Plus, you all here have followed my journey from the start and lovingly root for me - Now if that isn't FAMILY, I don't know what is

So dear FAMILY, on the 28th of January in Ghana, delivered as a beautiful suprise and expression of love, and in the presence of some close friends and family, @oscarhemanackah asked that we spend the rest of our lives together, and I wholeheartedly said YES... without a single reservation.
I would like to add here, that every single friend or member of my family that conspired in this suprise proposal, should just be on the look out for my retaliation... Cos it'll be merciless!!

Oscar and I shall share only as much of us as we're comfortable with. No more.. No less. We hope you will respect this, and bear with us in this regard.
Thank you for the overwhelming love and kindness you will undoubtedly show us as we count down to more festivities and the rest of our lives together. There's not an ounce of anxiety in this place.

Oh... And before you say it... Yeeeeeesss, he knows he's a very VERY lucky man � but the beautiful thing about our connection and journey so far... Is that I know I'm a supremely lucky woman too.
Please wish us well and keep us in your prayers ��
Here's to New Beginnings!! ❤️

(*ps* We planning a REAL "Wedding Party" y'all �) ✌�️

Kriss216:
Who's she

nenyewrites:


The director of wedding party.

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

DontBullshitMe:
Some men are just something else. No taste at all.

Proposing to a midnight newspaper. I will disown you as a friend or relative if you are any of those to me.

pocohantas:

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

We4all:


How old are you again? You obviously don’t know the meaning of ‘taste’ or you won’t be spewing trash. That woman is one of the most sophisticated, elegant, intelligent, smart, independent and cosmopolitan women in Nigeria.

If you choose a twenty year old dumb ‘slay queen’ over a woman like that just because she is younger, then you’re the one with a wack taste.

Fortunately, a woman like Kemi knows what she wants and wouldn’t even stoop so low to date boys with your kind of deranged mentality.

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

kayperry:




Emphasis on "Good" ... its not a question of finding men, it about what kind of men would settle for a evening newspaper or a grandma ..
a woman in ARE 40's upward is most definitely going to attract older men/widower/divorcee and alhaji ... so aunty calm down and stop bragging about someone being a 2nd choice, however you chose to justify ur life make hayes while the sunshines stands



With the current fuel sacarcity, even men dey off gen b4 10pm, how will you know when its somebody son footing the bills

DontBullshitMe:

Did my comment hit a nerve? Take it easy gee.

When does sophistication, elegance, smartness become exclusively reserved for overaged midnight newspaper? Stop kidding yourself. Those qualities you have listed are better enjoyed when possessed by a straight out of college young lady not some old woman whose beauty and attractiveness are long gone.

BTW, why will I want anything to do with her? Sincerely, I doubt she can still get wet naturally so I don't get your angle of trying to make it seem like she's doing me a huge disservice if she wants nothing to do with me. She's old, unattractive and sexually unappealing. It's a fact. Take it to the bank.

Anywhere in the world, a 19-25 year old lady will get picked over a 40+ aged woman. Make peace with it.

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

Kriss216:

We don't know her here in Olembe