Physical attraction is as important as character and trait when searching for a life partner. Do not let anyone deceive you on that.

Character might be the beauty of any man/ woman, but then, first impression matters. How do you intend to ascertain the character of a man/ woman whom ain't you impressed by her looks.

How would you get close to someone whom you ain't physically or sexually attracted to?
If marriage eventually happens, how do you intend to spend together with someone whom you never had feelings with?

This is one of the leading cause of infidelity in our society today. Most people are in a loveless marriage because they neglected physical attraction which ought to be a part of their spec or desired quality. Even though they ended up with that God fearing, responsible, talented, man, yet they are not fulfilled, because there was no attraction. Hence the infidelity. A case of keeping a good woman at home, but getting satisfaction outside.

Feeling don't grow like trees, it is important to have them present at the initial stage, while considering other attributes.

First impression is 50/50.

People tend to hide their bad characters on first date.

And lately, people are no longer practicing friendship before dating/relationship.. Why?

Beauty fades, character does not. choose wisely..

williams85:
Beauty fades, character does not. choose wisely..

Where did you get that from?

If character does not change, why are we reading daily marriage issues?

What do one go for if not for character?
This love matter sef don tire person.

The thing is that, anyone you have peace within you whenever you both are together or you think of that person, and there's a joy inside of you even when he or she is far away I feel that's the one for you.

The worst habit is 100times better than 1 bad character.

I'm attracted to kind-hearted women.

. Holly Gram real matters.... WTF MAN

Nor be lie.

The fact say I won marry woman with good character nor mean say she nor go fine outwardly to my taste.

@blessingchinny

You write up is good, but there's no prioritization to what you've written.

You're most likely putting the cart before the house, the foundation of any relationship is character, this is what makes or breaks people in relationships regards a Christian perspective. A guy should look for a lady that:

1. Fears God: this means she has absolute reference for Jesus, his lifestyle and what He preaches and submits to the bible as the final authority in all matters not her parents, culture or tradition.

2. Submissive: the ability to recognize the place of the man and respect him genuinely.

3. Hospitable and sacrificial: the ability to do away with temporary pleasure which can wait for a greater good, be homely and knows how to manage people.

4. Beauty: the ability to take care of herself, appear neat and dress well.


For a lady


1. Fears God: this means he has absolute reference for Jesus, his lifestyle and what he preaches and submits to the bible as the final authority in all matters not his parents, culture or tradition.

2. Has someone he submits to for mentorship or guidance: this person is not his parent, a person who can call him to order when he's at fault, else he could beat up the lady and no one to correct or guide him or misbehaves and one to correct as well.

3. He's responsible: he understand the cost dimension of life and understand that he's an absolute provider as a result of the value he has and the interaction he has with God based on how he should dispense that value and get rewards.

4. He takes care of his hygiene.


Fulfilment comes as a result of people living life's of meaning, there's no gain saying that physical attraction matters, but it's very secondary my dear

blessingchinny:
Physical attraction is as important as character and trait when searching for a life partner. Do not let anyone deceive you on that.

Character might be the beauty of any man/ woman, but then, first impression matters. How do you intend to ascertain the character of a man/ woman whom ain't you impressed by her looks.

How would you get close to someone whom you ain't physically or sexually attracted to?
If marriage eventually happens, how do you intend to spend together with someone whom you never had feelings with?

This is one of the leading cause of infidelity in our society today. Most people are in a loveless marriage because they neglected physical attraction which ought to be a part of their spec or desired quality. Even though they ended up with that God fearing, responsible, talented, man, yet they are not fulfilled, because there was no attraction. Hence the infidelity. A case of keeping a good woman at home, but getting satisfaction outside.

Feeling don't grow like trees, it is important to have them present at the initial stage, while considering other attributes.

How will you start ordinary relationship with a guy in which you don't have single attraction for? Absolutely not possible, nobody tells you not to go for attraction, but character wise he or she must also good.

Madam, with ur comment, I see a lady who is crazy for physical attributes, ....tall, handsome, ebony etc. All these would fade after 2/3 months continue sex, it's only character that would be piloting the vehicle of ur marriage for the rest of ur life.

Lest I forget, people mostly cheat not becaus they are not physically attracted to their spouses but bcoz they want to try new adventure

helinues:


Where did you get that from?

If character does not change, why are we reading daily marriage issues?

English is not for you my friend.
#muted

Beauty without brains, asset or value will tire a man.