Good morning everyone, I seriously need your advice on the decision am about to make.
Firstly I and my baby mama were in love for years right from when we were teenagers, it's over 9(nine) years now that I and my baby have been together and we were planning to marry ourselves but there is this red flag I used to see in her. In 2012 I went to Lagos for 3 months jamb tutorial before I came back my baby mama have been following another guy, when I came back I confronted her and she told me that she thought I was going to leave her that's why she followed another guy but I decided to forgive her and she promise me she won't go to that guy again but to my greatest surprised she kept on going back to that guy and anytime I confronted her she will deny it and also apart from that guy she also has another guys she fell in love with when they were still in secondary School, my fellow nairalander did you know that up till now my baby mama is still dating this particular guy after almost 10 years she has been with me and I always do everything she needs for her, I always stood by her whenever my family wants to attack her because my family were aware that she is dating another guy because we are from the same village and also my friends were aware of the situation, in short nearly everyone in my village know that she was dating this guy, I login her face book account on my phone because I knew her password and ever since then I use to see her chat with everyone on messenger, the one that broke my heart is when I saw her chat with one of her ex, the guy is begging her to come to Benin so they can have nice time but she told told the guy to come to our state because she can't leave our little baby behind, I confronted and I told her that am going to inform her family but she begged and I forget everything but I told her that am not going to marry her again because she is a disgrace to her family, because of her I can't go to our village again because it's a shame to me that my wife to be is following another man and nearly everyone in the village is aware of it.
The main issue now is that her younger sister is everything a man need in a woman, she has good behavior, she doesn't follow guys around infact they told me she does not have boyfriend in our home town because she is a good Christian and the one that impress me the most is that she is academically sound she does not joke with her studies at all. Everyone in our village always talk good about her. The problem now is that I love the younger sister but I don't know how to go about it, should I go and meet their family and tell them that I love the girl or I should move on and if I go ahead and meet their family will they accept me and does it even make sense If I marry her, what did you think people would be saying and will it affect affect my little baby from her elder sister.
Please elders in the house help me out.
Mod please help me move it to front page


Base on the reply am seeing here I want to clarify you guys that am not in secondary School am a graduate now and am working it's just that I have been dating my baby mama right from her secondary School days and we have our child 3 years ago early 2019

Mehn this life no balance at all, may God help all men that are struggling with relationship out there

Op you just make a very big mistake by bringing this topic to nairaland because you are going to receive the bashing of your life. My prayer and thought are with you throughout the bashing. I pray you survive the bashing, I wish you a happy bashing day OP

AOB1:
A

is for Apple

You are as confused as your baby mama

mitchelle16:
You are as confused as your baby mama

Am not confused the girl am talking about is a wife material

Win111:
Good morning everyone, I seriously need your advice on the decision am about to make.
Firstly I and my baby mama were in love for years right from when we were teenagers, it's over 9(nine) years now that I and my baby have been together and we were planning to marry ourselves but there is this red flag I used to see in her. In 2012 I went to Lagos for 3 months jamb tutorial before I came back my baby mama have been following another guy, when I came back I confronted her and she told me that she thought I was going to leave her that's why she followed another guy but I decided to forgive her and she promise me she won't go to that guy again but to my greatest surprised she kept on going back to that guy and anytime I confronted her she will deny it and also apart from that guy she also has another guys she fell in love with when they were still in secondary School, my fellow nairalander did you know that up till now my baby mama is still dating this particular guy after almost 10 years she has been with me and I always do everything she needs for her, I always stood by her whenever my family wants to attack her because my family were aware that she is dating another guy because we are from the same village and also my friends were aware of the situation, in short nearly everyone in my village know that she was dating this guy, I login her face book account on my phone because I knew her password and ever since then I use to see her chat with everyone on messenger, the one that broke my heart is when I saw her chat with one of her ex, the guy is begging her to come to Benin so they can have nice time but she told told the guy to come to our state because she can't leave our little baby behind, I confronted and I told her that am going to inform her family but she begged and I forget everything but I told her that am not going to marry her again because she is a disgrace to her family, because of her I can't go to our village again because it's a shame to me that my wife to be is following another man and nearly everyone in the village is aware of it.
The main issue now is that her younger sister is everything a man need in a woman, she has good behavior, she doesn't follow guys around infact they told me she does not have boyfriend in our home town because she is a good Christian and the one that impress me the most is that she is academically sound she does not joke with her studies at all. Everyone in our village always talk good about her. The problem now is that I love the younger sister but I don't know how to go about it, should I go and meet their family and tell them that I love the girl or I should move on and if I go ahead and meet their family will they accept me and does it even make sense If I marry her, what did you think people would be saying and will it affect affect my little baby from her elder sister.
Please elders in the house help me out.

You need a psychiatrist asap

Give this script to Zeb Ejiri or Teco Bensons


The film go sell well well

You said Baby mama...
You left for JAMB tutorial...your Baby mama follow another guy
So before you leave secondary school, you don already drop one.
Even her younger sister, you never approach her weather she go agree or not, you are thinking of meeting her family.
You are as confuse as the word confusion.
So, no other family for you to marry from abi ?

Win111:
Good morning everyone, I seriously need your advice on the decision am about to make.
Firstly I and my baby mama were in love for years right from when we were teenagers, it's over 9(nine) years now that I and my baby have been together and we were planning to marry ourselves but there is this red flag I used to see in her. In 2012 I went to Lagos for 3 months jamb tutorial before I came back my baby mama have been following another guy, when I came back I confronted her and she told me that she thought I was going to leave her that's why she followed another guy but I decided to forgive her and she promise me she won't go to that guy again but to my greatest surprised she kept on going back to that guy and anytime I confronted her she will deny it and also apart from that guy she also has another guys she fell in love with when they were still in secondary School, my fellow nairalander did you know that up till now my baby mama is still dating this particular guy after almost 10 years she has been with me and I always do everything she needs for her, I always stood by her whenever my family wants to attack her because my family were aware that she is dating another guy because we are from the same village and also my friends were aware of the situation, in short nearly everyone in my village know that she was dating this guy, I login her face book account on my phone because I knew her password and ever since then I use to see her chat with everyone on messenger, the one that broke my heart is when I saw her chat with one of her ex, the guy is begging her to come to Benin so they can have nice time but she told told the guy to come to our state because she can't leave our little baby behind, I confronted and I told her that am going to inform her family but she begged and I forget everything but I told her that am not going to marry her again because she is a disgrace to her family, because of her I can't go to our village again because it's a shame to me that my wife to be is following another man and nearly everyone in the village is aware of it.
The main issue now is that her younger sister is everything a man need in a woman, she has good behavior, she doesn't follow guys around infact they told me she does not have boyfriend in our home town because she is a good Christian and the one that impress me the most is that she is academically sound she does not joke with her studies at all. Everyone in our village always talk good about her. The problem now is that I love the younger sister but I don't know how to go about it, should I go and meet their family and tell them that I love the girl or I should move on and if I go ahead and meet their family will they accept me and does it even make sense If I marry her, what did you think people would be saying and will it affect affect my little baby from her elder sister.
Please elders in the house help me out.
Mod please help me move it to front page

Let her remain the woman in your dreams ehn! You still dey write jamb you don already get baby mama. You nor get bearing. So you want to sleep with two sisters, abi? Small time their mama go get good character for ya eyes and you go come back nairaland to ask about how you can go about it. Oga leave that family, face your journey to financial and spiritual independence, court your fiance well and know her well before plunging into her hole.

I got nothing to write.

What are you saying?you want to date ur baby mama sister?....are you normal?oga u ar talking nonsense

samwash:
You said Baby mama...
You left for JAMB tutorial...your Baby mama follow another guy
So before you leave secondary school, you don already drop one.
Even her younger sister, you never approach her weather she go agree or not, you are thinking of meeting her family.
You are as confuse as the word confusion.
So, no other family for you to marry from abi ?

no you are getting it wrong we just have our child 3 years ago

efficiencie:


Let her remain the woman in your dreams ehn! You still dey write jamb you don already get baby mama. You nor get bearing. So you want to sleep with two sisters, abi? Small time their mama go get good character for ya eyes and you go come back nairaland to ask about how you can go about it. Oga leave that family, face your journey to financial and spiritual independence, court your fiance well and know her well before plunging into her hole.

we have the child 3 years ago not when am writing jamb

You need psychiatric attention. You don’t live the sister, you just want to get back at the one that cheated on you. Get mental care and move on with your life dear.

You need brain evaluation

You are a weakling.

A relationship u couldn't end when she cheated is what u are now planning to end after you both have a child together.

ori e gbale....

My head,my shoulders,my knees,my toes.







Nonsense post

Stupid boy

Funny shiit

Nigga you're confuse. Face your life, be a better person and leave women alone

You're just a confused weakling

Lol

You are not dreaming but hallucinating.

You need to leave that location. Go far, go and hustle and make money only then will your redemption begin....

It's obvious your locality is affecting your reasoning, and being around these same people everyday has hindered your growth
Just relocate mahn,....may God give you the strength and Grace

Win111:
Good morning everyone, I seriously need your advice on the decision am about to make.
Firstly I and my baby mama were in love for years right from when we were teenagers, it's over 9(nine) years now that I and my baby have been together and we were planning to marry ourselves but there is this red flag I used to see in her. In 2012 I went to Lagos for 3 months jamb tutorial before I came back my baby mama have been following another guy, when I came back I confronted her and she told me that she thought I was going to leave her that's why she followed another guy but I decided to forgive her and she promise me she won't go to that guy again but to my greatest surprised she kept on going back to that guy and anytime I confronted her she will deny it and also apart from that guy she also has another guys she fell in love with when they were still in secondary School, my fellow nairalander did you know that up till now my baby mama is still dating this particular guy after almost 10 years she has been with me and I always do everything she needs for her, I always stood by her whenever my family wants to attack her because my family were aware that she is dating another guy because we are from the same village and also my friends were aware of the situation, in short nearly everyone in my village know that she was dating this guy, I login her face book account on my phone because I knew her password and ever since then I use to see her chat with everyone on messenger, the one that broke my heart is when I saw her chat with one of her ex, the guy is begging her to come to Benin so they can have nice time but she told told the guy to come to our state because she can't leave our little baby behind, I confronted and I told her that am going to inform her family but she begged and I forget everything but I told her that am not going to marry her again because she is a disgrace to her family, because of her I can't go to our village again because it's a shame to me that my wife to be is following another man and nearly everyone in the village is aware of it.
The main issue now is that her younger sister is everything a man need in a woman, she has good behavior, she doesn't follow guys around infact they told me she does not have boyfriend in our home town because she is a good Christian and the one that impress me the most is that she is academically sound she does not joke with her studies at all. Everyone in our village always talk good about her. The problem now is that I love the younger sister but I don't know how to go about it, should I go and meet their family and tell them that I love the girl or I should move on and if I go ahead and meet their family will they accept me and does it even make sense If I marry her, what did you think people would be saying and will it affect affect my little baby from her elder sister.
Please elders in the house help me out.
Mod please help me move it to front page


Base on the reply am seeing here I want to clarify you guys that am not in secondary School am a graduate now and am working it's just that I have been dating my baby mama right from her secondary School days and we have our child 3 years ago early 2019

Kukuma marry their two like the way Jacob marry Rachael and Leah. U can't marry her sister and dump her.

samwash:
You said Baby mama...
You left for JAMB tutorial...your Baby mama follow another guy
So before you leave secondary school, you don already drop one.
Even her younger sister, you never approach her weather she go agree or not, you are thinking of meeting her family.
You are as confuse as the word confusion.
So, no other family for you to marry from abi ?

you know weda Dem tie him destiny put for that family.... Oni jekuje... You wan chop two sisters

In summary, avoid wahala.
Stay away from both of them.
There are plenty of fish on the planet

Win111:
Am not confused the girl am talking about is a wife material

Then go for her if you think she meets the requirements and ticks the box

Don't let your emotions override your sense of reasoning.

What are you taking? Stop taking it so you can reason well.

How can you impregnante one person and go for another in the same family when the former is still alive? Hian!

Just MOVE ON!

The younger sister will turn out to be exactly like her sister...

Please, enjoy the problem u created for yourself and leave the younger sister alone.