Some times when a partner or both partners claim to be wiser than the other leads to collapse of that relationship.This issue of "na me get sense pass syndrome" is a killer of unions.

The best love to have is the love between two "mumu"..what do I mean? it's a love where no one is smarter or wiser both parties are foolish to each other..they share everything,when I mean everything I mean everything,no secrets,wealth sharing, honesty,you always hear them say "we have this,we can afford that etc"..a man returns early and makes dinner,the wife appreciates him for that and the they both build their finances,it's all team work and never a competition.. remember no one cares how you build your home except you start taking your issues to them,what I call "community project marriage"...some times we focus too much on what made people's marriages fail and never pay attention to what made other people's marriage succeed.

Remember you and your partner are solely responsible for the joy,peace and happiness you have in your home...no one would do that for you..for the Christians,the Bible says a wise woman build her home.....trust me I'm not disputing the Bible but two good and honest heads will make it better...MAKE YOUR MAN A BETTER MAN AND MAKE YOUR WOMAN A BETTER WOMAN AND YOUR HOME AND KIDS WILL BE A BETTER PLACE..

Hmm, nice one

When people are genuinely in love, they don't think logically. Instead, emotions drive their reasoning.

This means that people who claim to love each other but still display some superiority over another don't genuinely love themselves.

Redpillers:

SmartPolician:
When people are genuinely in love, they don't think logically. Instead, emotions drive their reasoning.

This means that people who claim to love each other but still display some superiority over another don't genuinely love themselves.

Your last paragraph... No lies!!!!

But iwould rather go out with an individual who can outsmart me!!


If ican see through your lies like an xray then you are no match for me...


But what does this innocent Hausa girl know

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Whoever brags about being wise is really not.
All wise people exhibit their wisdom quietly and are never noisy or offensive about it.
Only fools try to prove a point about being wise.

minks:
Whoever brags about being wise is really not.
All wise people exhibit their wisdom quietly and are never noisy or offensive about it.
Only fools try to prove a point about being wise.

Ah, may God bless you.

minks:
Whoever brags about being wise is really not.
All wise people exhibit their wisdom quietly and are never noisy or offensive about it.
Only fools try to prove a point about being wise.

Nope most Narcissists are wise and that’s a narcissistic behavior

InTheCloudySky:
I think you mean two people who can love purely, in every sense of the word.


It takes two very pure-hearted, pure-spirited, and unassuming people to love like this. People who love purely [and unconditionally ― because there's an element of unconditional love in there] like this are rare to find.

..very true...two people who can honestly and unconditionally love themselves

candidladyTemp:



Your last paragraph... No lies!!!!

But iwould rather go out with an individual who can outsmart me!!


If ican see through your lies like an xray then you are no match for me...


But what does this innocent Hausa girl know

..I just think it all depends on the way we define smartness... someone can be honestly and genuinely smart

SmartPolician:
When people are genuinely in love, they don't think logically. Instead, emotions drive their reasoning.

This means that people who claim to love each other but still display some superiority over another don't genuinely love themselves.

... exactly bro

minks:
Whoever brags about being wise is really not.
All wise people exhibit their wisdom quietly and are never noisy or offensive about it.
Only fools try to prove a point about being wise.

..yeah

DarkCaesar:
Nope most Narcissists are wise and that’s a narcissistic behavior

.. narcissist is on "another level"... control freaks those ones really need serious help

rickpat:
..I just think it all depends on the way we define smartness... someone can be honestly and genuinely smart

Your last bars!! So true...

Love is crazy no supremacy... Just tolerance and understanding...

And understanding is something we humans don't have...

candidladyTemp:



Your last paragraph... No lies!!!!

But iwould rather go out with an individual who can outsmart me!!


If ican see through your lies like an xray then you are no match for me...


But what does this innocent Hausa girl know

Idan na kara jin "innocent"!

candidladyTemp:


Your last bars!! So true...

Love is crazy no supremacy... Just tolerance and understanding...

And understanding is something we humans don't have...

.. understanding is so so key....glad you pointed that out...thumbs up

OP. This is why i heard most American billionaires are divorced or not married. But If u carry dis ur weak mentality enter marriage and unluckily have a scheming devil as wife, when she finish u, u go get sense!

BabbanBura:


Idan na kara jin "innocent"!

Gaskiya badukaya

rickpat:
.. understanding is so so key....glad you pointed that out...thumbs up

Iam all bout the truth ... The only ilie is when iwanna sleep

@OP Not entirely true.. when two smart people fall in love and they really care about one another, the issues like telling lies, insecurities etc. will automatically vanish.

You know it's stupid people that tell lies right? the fact that there are more stupid people in relationships doesn't mean they have the best dating lifestyle. Don't fall for the gram or PDA.
The best relationships are not on social media.

candidladyTemp:





Iam all bout the truth ... The only ilie is when iwanna sleep

... Lol...that's nice

flokii:
@OP Not entirely true.. when two smart people fall in love and they really care about one another, the issues like telling lies, insecurities etc. will automatically vanish.

You know it's stupid people that tell lies right? the fact that there are more stupid people in relationships doesn't mean they have the best dating lifestyle. Don't fall for the gram or PDA.
The best relationships are not on social media.

..though I don't totally understand your point...but when I meant "foolish" or "Mumu"...it's just a figurative expression to describe plain honesty,no lies and secrets not necessarily meaning the people are foolish or not smart or unwise

rickpat:
..though I don't totally understand your point...but when I meant "foolish" or "Mumu"...it's just a figurative expression to describe plain honesty,no lies and secrets not necessarily meaning the people are foolish or not smart or unwise

You meant that one party or even both parties have to play stupid most times to keep the relationship.. yay or nay?

Well, I'm telling you that when love is genuine, none of the parties need to lower their bar to keep the other. They just keep it real, quarrel when they have misunderstandings and iron issues out. That way, they keep their dignities and keep the love flame alive.

flokii:


You meant that one party or even both parties have to play stupid most times to keep the relationship.. yay or nay?

Well, I'm telling you that when love is genuine, none of the parties need to lower their bar to keep the other. They just keep it real, quarrel when they have misunderstandings and iron issues out. That way, they keep their dignities and keep the love flame alive.

if the love is genuine,I think there will be no lowering of standards..the mutual feeling flows naturally..your points are great too,thanks a bunch

rickpat:
if the love is genuine,I think there will be no lowering of standards..the mutual feeling flows naturally..your points are great too,thanks a bunch

I'm glad you saw my angle.. you're much welcome.

flokii:


I'm glad you saw my angle.. you're much welcome.

... anytime bro...be good