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he was like a brother I can't marry someone I'm not intimate or friendly with, how would the marriage be? Like cat and rat ? Quit the relationship, both of you should stop deceiving yourselves

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Well try to visit him, you know changing the long distance relationship will a good ideal.

The conflict is already there and will never stop.

Do you miss him crazy when he’s not around??
Do you imagine his gbola when you are h0rnyy..
Will you be super jealous if you see him with another girl...


If your answer is no, Mayb u should find your love go front ..

Try and visit him. A good round of good sex with reshape your thinking and understanding.

Never underestimate the power of gbola.

ojobolinda:
Please I need advice from married people that has the experience...

Have you ever dated someone you don't love and end up getting married to them?.. Can such marriage survive the test of time?, will there be peace and happiness in the marriage?

He was my friend for 4yrs, I practically see him as a brother. I met him when i was in 100L. I friend-zone him the moment I knew him and throughout our years of friendship in school, I never had any intimate feelings for him... When he told me his intention as we were about graduating, it took me by surprise but I accepted because he is my friend and I feel I can't know anyone as much as I know him and he is a good guy. Beside who will you rather marry than your friend, right?

The issue at hand is that we have been having problems in the relationship (Long distance relationship). We quarrel on the phone most times, and little issue triggers unnecessary misunderstanding. I don't know if we are experiencing all these because the feeling is not mutual....


I want to know if I should end this relationship and we go our separate ways. And I also want to know if there will be peace in the marriage if we choose to go against all odds and tie the knot...

Quarrelling on the phone? Even from distance? What is the cause of the quarrel ?

"See finish". Love is not the issue here but lack of respect. "See finish" has eroded every form of respect and that's why you guys quarrel all the time.

Do not listen to the popular lies about "marrying your friend" or "equal partners". Respect is very critical. Moreover, you cannot love someone you do not respect.

What you need is a new relationship with someone you can literally call daddy without issues.

ojobolinda:
The issue at hand is that we have been having problems in the relationship (Long distance relationship). We quarrel on the phone most times, and little issue triggers unnecessary misunderstanding. I don't know if we are experiencing all these because the feeling is not mutual....
I want to know if I should end this relationship and we go our separate ways. And I also want to know if there will be peace in the marriage if we choose to go against all odds and tie the knot...

Every relationship is unique and so there is no way for anyone to tell you for a fact that your relationship will most definitely not work out or that you both can't end up happy in marriage. No one can tell you that but you.

You said you were friends before you became lovers, and that issues started when your relationship became a long distance one, so maybe you need to communicate your thoughts and feelings with each other better and more honestly at this point so you can both decide which way forward. If you have no feelings for him, he is the best person for you to tell that to so he can also open up to you and you go from there.

Kobojunkie:
Every relationship is unique and so there is no way for anyone to tell you for a fact that your relationship will most definitely not work out or that you both can't end up happy in marriage. No one can tell you that but you.

You said you were friends before you became lovers, and that issues started when your relationship became a long distance one, so maybe you need to communicate your thoughts and feelings with each other better and more honestly at this point so you can both decide which way forward. If you have no feelings for him, he is the best person for you to tell that to so he can also open up to you and you go from there.

Thank you for your advice, I appreciate

Richy4:

<<< You don't marry someone out of pity... He he shocked you by telling you his intentions, u should have shocked him back by telling him how u see him as a brother and not a husband...

<<< A lot of couple doesn't do well in long distance relationship... While making your decision, think that that... If that was a contributing factor.... maybe one of you can sacrifice and relocate, it might just help

Thank you for your input

Acidosis:
"See finish". Love is not the issue here but lack of respect. "See finish" has eroded every form of respect and that's why you guys quarrel all the time.

Do not listen to the popular lies about "marrying your friend" or "equal partners". Respect is very critical. Moreover, you cannot love someone you do not respect.

What you need is a new relationship with someone you can literally call daddy without issues.

Thank you dear for your input

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Klass99:




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Yeye dey worry two of you sha.