Romanoff:


You could have said anything you wanted and still made sense without the first sentence you made.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I didn't mean it in a demeaning way..I mean thats why my mother is still with my dad(na that kind way I mean Old skool marriages in general)despite how my papa dey misbehave that time. If she had left, we wouldn't have had double parenting, it would have been woeful!.. they are a blessing,thank God for my mama patience. Now she's the boss,papa don old..E no fit do gra gra,mama dey call the shots..

Raph82:
How many men can take in their wife if she mistakingly intentionally gets pregnant for another man?

Romanoff:


I kind of feel it's best to leave a cheating partner, especially if they do it all of the time.

The kids are watching and they will think it's how men are spos to behave.

My neighbor is a serial cheat, he cheated on his wife when she was very Ill and was even bringing his lovers into their matrimonial home.

This woman died even after she had gotten well, e no go pass high BP wey kill her because of her husband's infidelity.

If she had left, she'd have still been alive to raise her kids.

Now the man has sent all the kids to boarding schools and has moved on, guess what?

He's still womanizing and it's not even been 6 months since his wife died.

vastolord4:
Ladies una see am.. he still came back.. dmx lyrics comes to mind "give a dog a bone, leave a dog alone, let the dog roam it will find his way home" rip dmx

derecho:
Though I don't support infidelity in marriage but have you asked yourself
1.How they met?
He might have met her as a philanderer.

2.Did she marry him only for the good times?


You may think our mothers were stupid and sheepish but I believe they are wiser than many girls of nowadays.
Mind you,Going away with the kids may not be as easy as you think.
It is better to look before you leap.Marriage no be play

Romanoff:


So bad times includes infidelity?

Bad times are things like sickness, brokeness, and down times, not infidelity please.

In short, infidelity is so bad that it's the only ground Jesus allows for divorce in a marriage.

wizonlyson:
he resemble person..wey dey act porn..his black head,his kissing skills..all this make it alot..

BRATISLAVA:


Just be happy with my comment and move on with your own life.

Protection of marriages seems to be the work of some women. Does that mean that all some Nigerian men do is destroy their marriages and wait for their wives to put them back together again?

Mark this space, and you will see how many women will not waste time protecting their cheating husbands. Adele is one...I could name several others.

derecho:
Go and study your Bible my sister.Jesus didn't permit divorce on any ground. Moses did because of the hardness of men's heart.
Bad times includes things that will test your love(as a man) and submission (as a lady) not only sickness or poverty.

wizonlyson:
he resemble person..wey dey act porn..his black head,his kissing skills..all this make it alot..

Romanoff:


Matthew 5:32.

That was Jesus speaking. Not Moses.

I refuse to believe infidelity is a hard time.

If it was the woman who committed the infidelity, will you be saying all of these?

derecho:


Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so" -Matthew 19: 8

If you understood my last reply, you won't say the italicized.

Romanoff:


Yes. But Jesus agreed to Moses' teaching on the subject in verse 32.

Romanoff:


I kind of feel it's best to leave a cheating partner, especially if they do it all of the time.

The kids are watching and they will think it's how men are spos to behave.

My neighbor is a serial cheat, he cheated on his wife when she was very Ill and was even bringing his lovers into their matrimonial home.

This woman died even after she had gotten well, e no go pass high BP wey kill her because of her husband's infidelity.

If she had left, she'd have still been alive to raise her kids.

Now the man has sent all the kids to boarding schools and has moved on, guess what?

He's still womanizing and it's not even been 6 months since his wife died.

OyeofIkoTuN:

I just feel that's one side of the story. What if the woman wasn't sick and did not die and still love the man,shebi you know you will be the aproko and it's you they will use and settle...

Just kidding! Yes it's all shades of wrong what the particular monster did and he should be thrown in the deepest part of hell but don't forget ladies marry kidnappers,thieves and still love them forever more.

I'm sure it has to do with individual differences and what the environment is ready to accept. If it was against the law for a families to scatter, nobody for think am.

Marriage is damn hard and if you aren't ready for it,don't jump in as it's not some sex fufilling fantasy reproduction scheme..I don't even know if I'm making sense

Romanoff:


I do. But then, people shouldn't marry if they are incapable of being faithful to one partner. In this case, I am speaking of serial cheats and people who already knew they can't be faithful to one person, yet they got married.

whytediamond:
As a man, work hard to get money.

E get why.

donbachi:
I just hope sey him done come clean..to chop clean mouth,no dey favour all men.

Strong woman.

Farfalla:


Many Africans and African Americans like the idea of struggle love. Love and relationships have to be a painful affair for them.

Nothing wrong with anyone wishing to work on their marriage. Me sef I encourage forgiveness. However, when some man decides that he'll deliberately create a toxic environment for his wife, it's illogical to advise this woman to "protect" her home. These men should brace themselves for what's coming.

A toxic, unrepentant spouse is never worth it.

Ayinke93:


See the mumu logic. Great you referred to him as a dog.

Godjone:
ponrnstar