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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by OdefaGirl(f): 12:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
You know you are s*x starved for real and this girl has come, not just to "help" you out but giving it to you in a way you have *never* had it.......Hmmmm, Bro, redemption is far because she has beclouded your senses.

I hope you can be able to look back, remember what you and your wife have been through to be at the stage you are.
And I hope you would be able to look into the future and know what you want it be like.
That's the only thing that can help you come out of this body pleasure you are currently in.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by jobinfomania(m): 12:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
Terminator �
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by IbileIfe: 12:38pm On Mar 02, 2022
Another Super Story. grin
Nairaland is full of Super Stories in Romance Section.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by xynerise: 12:38pm On Mar 02, 2022
Story sounds made up but it doesn't mean that it can't happen.

Sending your family abroad and you staying back is already an avenue to cheat. Come on! Let's stop tempting ourselves.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Purelypure(m): 12:38pm On Mar 02, 2022
Why do i feel one of your guys set you up with this lady? She is too good(undemanding) to be true.... Or she is waiting for the right time to start billing you.

It will be safer for you if she starts billing u and make this transactional affair. Let her not have other ideas.

Cutting her off? How often do you visit your family? Guy, you cant survive be alone for long without your wife. U can choose to join ur family or stay and have only no strings attached relationship.

Again, my gut feeling be say dis babe na set up, not necessarily for bad intentions tho

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Smoothcom: 12:38pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:


Do you know that insulting people unknown to you is one of the most obvious symptoms of LSE?

When you're okay in your skin, you have no reason to throw tantrums, aggrieved or not.

To your points;

1. I am not stupid. Me along with hundreds of Nigerians who are in LD marriages.

2. I may be lonely, but I'm definitely not miserable.

Lastly, I am not trying to 'fit' were I already belong. There's little to nothing you can do when your wife says she's had it with the country and wants out.

Hope you're appeased? cool
simple truth
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by frozen70(f): 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

This river that you are swimming will soon turn to ocean

You have to restrict yourself from frequent visits but you can keep on the chats without romantic words and by the time she can't come around you for 6 months she will understand that you are withdrawing

It's not easy but you have to try
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Truvelisback(m): 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
Wait, i am cumming....
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by bmdmix11: 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
sorry u still dey send money to UK from Nigeria wow.

lol Nigeria men don suffer
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by xareal(m): 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
But why husband go dey naija wife dey UK..nor be human being he be..I really don't blame u sha...cos me I'll do the same..na blood dey man body no be zobo
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by TruthSocial: 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
Your wife will have similar story too abroad oo, no dull yourself
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by deavicky(m): 12:39pm On Mar 02, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Typing....
Sugarpapi wow just wow..so you really had to sugar coat and paint the occurence like it's some movie..what's this all about?
Well your problem is easy..tell your wife about what y've been doing.. apologise to her..call the same gal and tell her you no longer have interest in her and wouldn't want to have anything doin with her cos you are married..
After that cut her off your life and move on.. simple and easy or you can keep deceiving yourself..
home breaker!!!! He should tell his wife that he cheated. Anyway I don't don't where ur are speaking from, but I have a feeling that it is out of ur ass.
Opps I hope won't you do what this person had said because if u try it, we will be glad to attend ur next wedding.
,
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by faithfull18(f): 12:40pm On Mar 02, 2022
Smh.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Emaprince: 12:40pm On Mar 02, 2022
Men who are in this situation should also know that their wives are probably getting pummelled by other dudes where ever she is. So no qualms here.

But this story I see is very fake. Nonsense
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by DonGenovese: 12:40pm On Mar 02, 2022
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe
Lmao....Werey
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Smoothcom: 12:40pm On Mar 02, 2022
HitSong:

It's your misery, frustration and cross to carry.
If you're not lonely and miserable, you won't fall easily in the hands of young whorès and slùts that has nothing to offer but the holes between their legs, while they collect your money and also give you all kinds of STDs...
You fell even as a married man and believe, no sane married man will allow his family live abroad while he stays somewhere else lonely and miserable all because his wife his frustrated with their home country... Are you a man at all?
Again, no sane woman will live her young husband here to live alone and fend for himself... expect if she has "OTHER" plans...
There's no other joy like family living and growing together.
You certainly still belong to the low class of the society and you also have poor mindset...
Why are your family members abroad? Better life abroad? Better schools?
The minister of Labour, Speaker of the house of rep and many other elites in Nigeria have their children in Unilag and other schools in Nigeria so what are you feeling like?

YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LOSER HERE.
your right dear
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 12:41pm On Mar 02, 2022
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Dukeolumidemans(m): 12:41pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse.

Help me!

Hommie I feel u bro. Let her go and just disappear from her otherwise u will keep fuuucckjng her till she comes home one day with Junior Baggio and that's gonna break ur marriage. Ur wife won't like it if she hears or knows about it because, ur character will definitely change.
Let her go bro. Ur life is good before now, don't ruine it.

I come in peace!!!

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by rolams(m): 12:41pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

Pls tell her you are married and take her as a second wife if can stay.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Halopy: 12:41pm On Mar 02, 2022
@hitsong, You are just one of those kids who gets completely offended over someone else's post here on Nairaland, you people just take things completely out of context, Excessively public scolding someone you don't know and shaming him over his decision to live separately from his family. Wetin concern you? Is it your money?

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by bjayx: 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2022
Mumu story... Ur wife probably has a similar one to tell Us from the queens country.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by TUTU147: 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2022
Bros just relocate to abroad to join your family, don't open door for the devil by staying away from your family mostly especially when you are rich and comfortable.If na like me when no get shishi she no go like me talk more of my picture.The girl done investigate you very well and she knows you are capable of taking care of her.Dont let her know your intentions of relocating else you are gone.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Pimine: 12:43pm On Mar 02, 2022
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe
Aswearugaaad

Nicca you off me grin. I come dey ask myself whether this bros really need help abi he dey totori us grin
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by AngelicBeing: 12:43pm On Mar 02, 2022
sad
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Onyiiobi7735(m): 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:


Bro, I know. I honestly want to let her go, but at this point, I know I've fallen for her. She ticks everything I want in a woman. It's serious self restraint and the thoughts of my family that have kept me from committing beyond what I've already done.
Bro,the damage is done,but you must let her go for your family's sake.I blame your wife who left you in Nigeria to travel overseas. What sensible married woman does that?
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Offpoint1: 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse.

Help me!
Don't worry bro... that was the same way Delilah Fxxked samson and you and me know how it ended.

I don't wanna advice you, I wanna see the end of this journey of yours.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Bizibi(m): 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
Na temptation like this I always dey avoid. I am good at avoiding situations like this.....
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by stevups(m): 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
HitSong:
Fiction... But let's assume this is true...

Some of you are just plainly stupid... It's like the more money you make, the more stupid and the more you make life difficult for yourself...

HOW CAN I HAVE MONEY AND FAMILY AND I'LL SEND MY FAMILY AWAY TO ABROAD WHILE I LIVE HERE LONELY AND MISERABLE?

WHAT'S THE JOY IN HAVING A FAMILY YOU CAN'T EVEN SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH?
All in the name of you want them to fit in high standard of the society and nonsense...
I'm 100% sure that your wife is also CHEATING on you.
I enjoy your point

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
Fake story...but you be mugu... pussy whipped grin
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:



She can't replace my wife. Also, I cant leave her.

I hope your wife also finds someone over there and falls in love with him too

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by franchasng: 12:45pm On Mar 02, 2022
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe
grin cheesy

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