descarado:

Ouch

Kobojunkie:
When you get your doll, you will find that out for yourself

ImaIma1:


You want Kayperry to come for you and tell you that you wake up everyday and breathe for men's compliments . That's if you are a lady...lol

ImaIma1:


I disagree with the bolded. The reason is simply because men have perfected the art of complaining and whining that they don't even realize it.

...and for your first 2 sentences, say what you mean exactly and stop dancing around the point you want to make. It's ok to come out straight.

advanceDNA:


It’s not the same people that open threads to complain...it’s different men....so it comes down to numbers at the end of the day......don’t women complain too?? But I feel you don’t see women’s thread here that much becos there are only a few women here..this is simple statistics...

As for your last statement, I’m honestly lost here cos my statement is exactly what it is... u said men just open thread to bash and others join in.... that’s like saying their aim for opening the thread is just to bash and not to share their horrible dating experience...that’s why called it invalidating peoples’ motive for complaining....

ImaIma1:


If we have 10 men and 10 women, 8 men will still open women-bashing threads. May 1 woman will. Women don't occupy themselves with such things. How many women do you see like thegridredpiller and all the followers opening threads to bash women. There's so much more in life than all that.

ImaIma1:


If we have 10 men and 10 women, 8 men will still open women-bashing threads. May 1 woman will. Women don't occupy themselves with such things. How many women do you see like thegridredpiller and all the followers opening threads to bash women. There's so much more in life than all that.

advanceDNA:


Well we don’t have equal men and women..so your submission is technically a fallacy..still I’m not trying to say it can’t true..lots of men actually complain

What’s more, I agree thegridrepiller is a bit extreme, but how many of that extreme dude is actually on nairaland ?? Mention 30 out of 3million users on nairaland and I will start a campaign against bashing of women

.i mentioned earlier that i see topics everyday where men bash other men and support women, especially when men cheat or do wrong.....which is why I call these threads u call bashing men’s bad experience and not a target at you guys...it’s this same men u say hate women, that still support women against their fellow man’s wrong dating behavior..

You said there’s so much to life...of course...why are you trying to paint a picture that bashing women is all that goes on on nairaland ...there are tons of sections here, and men dominate them all discussion various issue that doesn’t even involve women..

ImaIma1:


So you are saying if we have 500 guys on Nairaland and 300 ladies. And 400 out of the 500 guys bash women, and only 50 women bash men, it is ok, since men are more than women on the forum. Is this what you are saying?

A bit extreme? Ok. It seems.you close your eyes to the things your guys do. Even guys like you have complained about the rate at which guys bash women here. But you don't see it.

But you disguise as someone that is unbias. But it's not hard to see that you are talking from both sides of your mouth. You want to support women but you don't your fellow goons to call you a simp or the other names they love to use.

Quit this disguise. I don't know where you stand and i don't want to get dizzy trying to figure that out.

advanceDNA:


U keep coming up with a lot of figures and creating scenarios asking me if that’s what I’m saying..
for the record I’m not insinuating anything more than what I’ve said as you are trying to assume...
we have some contrasting views on some of the things going on here ...why is that a problem....??

I don’t have to agree with all you say...since we have been conversing, I clearly told you what I agreed with, I also gave my view of what I don’t completely agree or disagree with....that’s not pretending or talking from both side of the mouth....it’s called having an opinion..u don’t have to like it..


it’s like you already starting to overread meanings to my statement: earlier you said I was hiding the true meaning of points,

now you are saying I’m talking from both sides of the mouth..u even accused me of being afraid of being called names..

the problem is, u are trying to put me in a box...I can have contrasting views on different topics or even slightly related topics...I can be gay and still not like transgenders... don’t put me in a box...

If you can’t handle a contrasting view of your opinion without being paranoid that I’m hiding something then let’s call it quit..

.it’s been fun..

Also, I apologize for any wrong statement..

ImaIma1:


There is no contrasting view. Women get bashed a lot on this forum much more than men. That is a fact. That is all I am saying. You don't have to agree.

Now I'm paranoid? Ok. Enjoy the rest of your day.

advanceDNA:


For the record, which is clearly on the thread...I never said women don’t get bashed...You can look at my comment if you like...

I only gave my opinion of why they get bashed a lot by men here and why it’s much on this forum,....you disagreed and the u started to accuse me repeatedly of hiding, pretending, and speaking from both sides of the mouth.

I just ddnt get your reasons..I further made my self clear...but u u kept sensing something else other than I said here...if that’s not paranoia then I don’t know what is..

Gosh!! U even said I’m afraid that people I don’t even know will call me names...it’s patronizing....

Shalommy:
Before nko? They wanna be human too. Who knows if they're living among us. Chaii..