So, I'm kinda an old member but recently activated my account. I've been following topics here and I must confess nairaland is fun.

Now the issue here is this. I'm not an introvert neither a shy person but I always marvel at why people especially girls see me as calm, shy and a nice guy. I believe its my looks and the fact that I smile a lot.

Although their assumptions may be right but I laugh over it when they get to know me and are surprised at my personality.

Secondly, I easily catch feelings but these same feelings die along the line and I no longer feel attracted to a girl I once liked.

I'm not worried only that I believe its gonna affect me if I eventually decide to get married.

What do u think??
Any advice??

You are who you are,you don't need no advice whatsoever,you don't need to prove nothing to anyone.
Everyone and anyone is free to think about whatever they want, afterall everyone believe what he /she wants to.
So live your life the way you deem fit and enjoy.

Comradewhy:
You are who you are,you don't need no advice whatsoever,you don't need to prove nothing to anyone.
Everyone and anyone is free to think about whatever they want, afterall everyone believe what he /she wants to.
So live your life the way you deem fit and enjoy.

Thanks man