house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

She already showed you her redlines, if you don't like her proposal........ RUN ........

She would expect you to shoulder 100%, of all financial responsibilities....... RUN .......

Many men may not agree with that statement but that is true.

As a man, you need wisdom to lead your home.

Women want to spend their money on what they like

And want men to spend their money on them.

Since I started making extra income online, I don't even bother to complain of how much i'm spending on my family. In fact, it is my wife by herself that will be trying to drop money so she does not look like not contributing anything.

Fact is, women love men who spend on them. But correct women like my wife will always find a way to give back to you from their own money.

So instead of complaining, start a side hustle that will increase your income so you can spend well. The Bible I believe says But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

When my wife saw that I am dropping money without asking her to contribute, she quickly went and start a side business to also make extra money so she can also contribute...


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RUN
If it's body language - RUN!
If she's cute - RUN!
But you can learn the hard way...

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

I don't know O.
This is what I saw about this man and woman money topic on Youtube yesterday

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BDfmJDBNHg

chatinent:
Response should be: ara gbwakwa gi.

What does this mean?

Conner44:
Tell her to use her money to first pay for her bride price and wedding expenses then you will agree with her opinion

Vexing mode activated�

You would have ask her if she still a virgin which am sure she not virginal people no dey shock me again with der way of life

Na mumu simps dey allow them

Even feminists say this nonsense

A good lady would not say that

Smart guy/men know to play the game
Currently, a woman is losing out fespoys Court wedding

czarr:
Tell her this " your vagina is our vagina, my dick is my dick" in other words you can use your dick on who ever you want to, just as she can use her money on whatever she wants.

This is a way of Encouraging Prostitution in Marriage.

Sex is for love not money making.

So using money for exchange of sex as a Man makes you less of a Man take it or leave it.

Ah ... Change of mindset

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

As per the teachings of my own religion, she is right.
However, my fair is that such woman or lady may not be a supportive wife. Hence, it is a red flag you have to investigate more about before you marry her.

luwiizy:


Ask her this simple question..

"How do you intend to support the family if things don't go well with me"

Sense and Maturity!!!

But....

You only throw a question like this a lady that have shown some level of financially commitment to you before shew spew the nonsense sentence otherwise It would be senseless and immature to pose as such a girl that Reasonable and Golden question.

Well traditionally it's true, but in this present economy it is not realistic especially if you live in Lagos, both parties support but with the man making the most contribution or equal ,

There is no way I am getting involved with a lady that has this mentality.

Naija women on the beat

House10s2 tell her your money is your money and my money is my money ....

Some people her saying my wife said this and you can see through her make u na go check you na wife dem fit don dey build duplex with you money u won't know. Its not just a saying .its a mentality and it difficult to change cos dey are conditioned to see it that way.

3verblazing:
My wife says that alot, even before marriage. She is the most supportive wife ever. I married her bc I could see through her, she didn't mean it. Can you see through her?

She still dey observe you from afar, by the time she starts dealing with you, na here you go still report her matter

luminouz:

You are a lost cause.

Abi!

All these under 25 babes are calamities if not well mentored. One told me to be happy she's demanding money from me

Majority of women would say this to you before marriage..

But in reality, e no dey stand..

Divoc19:
That's an indirect way of telling a man that he shouldy not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

Are you saying that women are weaker sex?

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

Yes o, your money is our money, and my money is my money.

Most women's mentality, of which I'm inclusive.

Don't let it affect you, cos eventually you will benefit from that her money without taking permission from her, as in 90% of that her money.

Just make joke out of it whenever she says it, don't argue.
Honestly that her money also belong to you indirectly.

GeneralPula:
Majority of women would say this to you before marriage..

But in reality, e no dey stand..

1 bottle of Hennessy for you man.

ecolime:
Most women say this before marriage but are very supportive after marriage.

1 bottle of champagne for ya.

Divoc19:
That's an indirect way of telling a man that he should not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

Are women artificial providers ?

Divoc19:
Unbroken seal indeed
Those women still exists, but men are encouraging unbroken women to slay...

Uhm, no. Your responsibility is to preserve the seal. Unless, it's by force/violence there's no excuse other than being a 304.

Very few men go for natural things nowadays. Una too like filters

For recreational use only. 99.9% of men will take unbroken women over used ones.

3verblazing:
My wife says that alot, even before marriage. She is the most supportive wife ever. I married her bc I could see through her, she didn't mean it. Can you see through her?

if your skin can resist bullets doesn't mean other skins can. It's deadly when a woman have such mentality

Na exactly the statement wey make me hate our Female gender over here be dat. A very wrong mentality.

Any girl that tell u this is very wicked, quit her, she get notin to offer

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

Bro stqay away from her if u intend to marry her, if you like her go ahead and be with her. Then hide your finance from her if you get 10naira tell her its 3naira. Open acct with a bank do not take atm or activate sms notification maybe email you can always logout the email whenever you sign in. If you have money crises fall back and tell her you guys should borrow, then you borrow from that account. Then every month you pay it back into that acct.Never agree to open joint acct with her, my friend took is wife to a another country she has this character and it was a problem

Most men I know don't mind when a good woman says this. They know that for sure, she doesn't mean it.
Some men won't even want their women to spend her money on them or even feel uncomfortable when women do so but would prefer themselves doing so as they see it as their primary responsibility.