I would love the house to advice me on this one because my heart is bleeding �, this is my first time experiencing hrt break it's so painful.
We were so inlove at first and it was the happiest moments of my life because i finally got the woman of my dreams after 2years of chasing her, we dated for just 7 months and she just left without giving me reasons�, i noticed something fishy when she started giving me attitudes and ignoring my calls so when i finally got her on phone she boldly told me she's dating someone else, how do you just start dating someone else whilst still in a relationship with me that's what i asked her and she said i shouldn't ask her stupid questions that i can leave if i want to. I cried repeatedly, i begged her not to do this to me i couldn't take it she just told me she's dating the guy because she's benefiting more financially from her but to be sincere with you guys i had been doing my best to support her financially, i always attend to her financial needs except the ones bigger than my capability. few weeks ago she had an accident not so severe though so i seized that as an opportunity for us to make amends i told her i want to be a better person, i want us back together again and she accepted but before you ask about the other guy, she told me she's no longer dating the guy which i believed her because she showed me evidence.
I thought we were cool together and i was making sure she's getting all the care she needs whilst she on her sick bed i spent a lot of money i attended to all her financial demands but i noticed she was still giving me cold attitudes and i confronted her then she broke it to me that she was just trying to force herself to love me again but it's not working that it's best we move on, i cried uncontrollably i have been trying to move on but it's not working, I'm going crazy, i feel so depressed. Please for those that has experienced this before i would love you to advise me on how to handle this ��.
Before you think if I'm still a kid, i am 28 yrs old and she's 23.

Thank you ��

When Igbolabi tell una say... She's not your girl friend it's just your turn, una dey form deaf...

See my guy your tenure has ended, it's the tenure of the next guy,

E pain me say during your turn... You spent like a mugu...

Na Nigeria girls u wan take play!!!

Stop crying like a baby, pick up your self and move on, next time be wise...

How do you expect to satisfy present day girls financial demands, when u are not a yahoo boy
crypto boy...

Everything for the country don go up, including maintenance of girl friends...

We dey pray make the air we breathe in, no go up too

What kinda advice do you need again?
You are the one who is not smart here..she outsmarted you.. congrats..
Do away with her now that yve seen her true attitude..and why are you crying over a heartbreak..?

Don't think it and never made a mistake of marrying wrong girl ... fact my own girlfriend just left me alone and i dont care ...this evening try catfish pepper soup and red lebel ...no think am guy �� ladies everywhere oo

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What kinda advice do you need again?
You are the one who is not smart here..she outsmarted you.. congrats..
Do away with her now that yve seen her true attitude..and why are you crying over a heartbreak..?

You are back from your ban? My eyes hurt whenever i see your posts

odinson1:


You are back from your ban? My eyes hurt whenever i see your posts

Have you ever heard of lagoon?
Rock?
You can do it...


Or do something about it and stop crying on my mention..

One thing i will always advice a guy, always date more than one girl... You only av the right to one wife.. But for girlfriends, av them in bulk cos girls of nowadays aint playing anymore... And lest i forget, never ever beg a girl to stay with u.. If she wants to leave, let her leave...

My advice to guys is never follow the advice of the person that commented before me.

The problem we have now is that men are too emotional, imagine OP crying because of a vagiina person?

And this type of men would not help their fellow men in need but will spend like a mugu when they come across anything in skirt.

Bobrisky knew this and he is cashing out daily

If you follow the advice of the guy who commented before the guy above me ... You will die on time...

You think dating a Nigerian girl is beans and dodo... Talk more of 2,3 and above...

You will just kill yourself for yourself and by yourself...

Did you say you spent 2years chasing vagina?

Holly Gram


U CHYKE BANI for 2yrs!



If No be say u be New comer or New comers for LOVE matterz!


i for use my old KALA take BLAST BLAST ur left leg DROP 4 GROUND b4 people go begin ask waiting happen!



So make I just pass.. I no one add to ur WORRIES...


LITE UP my WEED in peace!


WTF MAN!

My guy go and read ubunja articles here on nairaland and ur eyes will start seeing things in a new dimension. Sorry for the heartbreak. Hopefully this should be ur last experience or ur heart turns to stone!!

You decorated and celebrated kpekus that is not a virgin, you are doing everything to impress kpekus that will always cheat on you. You are 28 and kpekus of 23 made mess of you.

I have always make it a priority not to go out of my way to impress a woman who is not family. Relationship is overrated, it doesn't worth the stress.

You are crying over kpekus that every small boy in her street have penised, but when you lose a family you will be forming man and will never cry. Maybe her kpekus doesn't smell or is special.

She is a democracy, kpekus for the boys, by the boys and of the boys. As cheap as kpekus is, some people are still waiting time.

If you really want to cry, just think about Russia and Ukraine.

Breakfast wey everybody the chop, e reach your own you come the seek for advice.

You have money and you're not even planning on marrying 2 or more ? You're wasting money on one ?

Well, she's your girlfriend not your wife. Mistake 1.
In girl/boy friend situation, commitment is neither guaranteed nor implied - mistake 2.

Your diseases:
- Scarcity mindset: when you have only one girl you're considering for relationship
- Oneities: Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. "Go meet ten other women" is what I will prescribe as treatment for this "disease", as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are.

Now, don't get angry, use the money u have to bu "The Rational Male" book 1 and 2. Perhaps you might have a future with females.

More here:

https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/
https://therationalmale.com/2020/10/15/shes-not-yours/
https://therationalmale.com/2018/08/01/blue-pill-trauma/

We got you fam!

Damnnn!!! Lmao....

You just started.

Kelvin2022:
I would love the house to advice me on this one because my heart is bleeding �, this is my first time experiencing hrt break it's so painful.
We were so inlove at first and it was the happiest moments of my life because i finally got the woman of my dreams after 2years of chasing her, we dated for just 7 months and she just left without giving me reasons�, i noticed something fishy when she started giving me attitudes and ignoring my calls so when i finally got her on phone she boldly told me she's dating someone else, how do you just start dating someone else whilst still in a relationship with me that's what i asked her and she said i shouldn't ask her stupid questions that i can leave if i want to. I cried repeatedly, i begged her not to do this to me i couldn't take it she just told me she's dating the guy because she's benefiting more financially from her but to be sincere with you guys i had been doing my best to support her financially, i always attend to her financial needs except the ones bigger than my capability. few weeks ago she had an accident not so severe though so i seized that as an opportunity for us to make amends i told her i want to be a better person, i want us back together again and she accepted but before you ask about the other guy, she told me she's no longer dating the guy which i believed her because she showed me evidence.
I thought we were cool together and i was making sure she's getting all the care she needs whilst she on her sick bed i spent a lot of money i attended to all her financial demands but i noticed she was still giving me cold attitudes and i confronted her then she broke it to me that she was just trying to force herself to love me again but it's not working that it's best we move on, i cried uncontrollably i have been trying to move on but it's not working, I'm going crazy, i feel so depressed. Please for those that has experienced this before i would love you to advise me on how to handle this ��.
Before you think if I'm still a kid, i am 28 yrs old and she's 23.

Thank you ��

as hard as it is, i would tell you to move on

Kelvin2022:
I would love the house to advice me on this one because my heart is bleeding �, this is my first time experiencing hrt break it's so painful.
We were so inlove at first and it was the happiest moments of my life because i finally got the woman of my dreams after 2years of chasing her, we dated for just 7 months and she just left without giving me reasons�, i noticed something fishy when she started giving me attitudes and ignoring my calls so when i finally got her on phone she boldly told me she's dating someone else, how do you just start dating someone else whilst still in a relationship with me that's what i asked her and she said i shouldn't ask her stupid questions that i can leave if i want to. I cried repeatedly, i begged her not to do this to me i couldn't take it she just told me she's dating the guy because she's benefiting more financially from her but to be sincere with you guys i had been doing my best to support her financially, i always attend to her financial needs except the ones bigger than my capability. few weeks ago she had an accident not so severe though so i seized that as an opportunity for us to make amends i told her i want to be a better person, i want us back together again and she accepted but before you ask about the other guy, she told me she's no longer dating the guy which i believed her because she showed me evidence.
I thought we were cool together and i was making sure she's getting all the care she needs whilst she on her sick bed i spent a lot of money i attended to all her financial demands but i noticed she was still giving me cold attitudes and i confronted her then she broke it to me that she was just trying to force herself to love me again but it's not working that it's best we move on, i cried uncontrollably i have been trying to move on but it's not working, I'm going crazy, i feel so depressed. Please for those that has experienced this before i would love you to advise me on how to handle this ��.
Before you think if I'm still a kid, i am 28 yrs old and she's 23.

Thank you ��

Oga 28yrs wey don turn 70yrs old man(u think say you wise)....Buy China rope from Ali Express Because e cheap,as soon as the package land,use am hang yourself,because dem no need people like una for naija.

You're a true lover. It's sad that the love u have for her isn't reciprocated. Do not beg for love. Leave with dignity and ur true love whom u truly deserve will find u soon.

Such is life. Some women are like that. They can be totally selfish to the extent of not loving a man but still have the guts and mind to exploit him. I mean... Someone can still choose to help u without being deceitful. That's a thing I'm always fearful of. Hurting my fellow being intentionally. I always made my intentions known. If I'm not interested from the start even if I'm starving to the core and I know u are rich, I wouldn't deceive u.

Just try and heal ur self. Stop crying and begging. Leave with total dignity.

Why must you cry and beg a woman that insulted and left you because of your financial state. That's the highest level of low self esteem... If you wer below 20, I would have congratulated you on learning it the hard way, but at 28, my brother you are a simp.. most of una think say na until you beg and cry or spend extravagantly before girl go stick to u?. Believe me you, that banny could leave you because of money, but she left you more because of your low self-esteem. You too mumu for her.
Never beg a girl who left you for no reason, never let them know you are hurt by the breakup.. move on and act like she never existed..
Oya swallow these pills make we see whether you fit geh sense.

See as you dey mumu for woman.chai na wa o.why must you cry and beg when a lady leaves you.it shows you lack self esteem,its not as if you hurt her and she left you.she just left.hmmm.i will open a free consulting house for guys when I achieve somethings firstly.so I can give advise.am not a red piller.just a realistic person.Move on,she has already started treating you like thrash.she will never treat you better.you will loose your self worth if you keep behaving like a sissy and begging upandan

I can't believe there's still a Mumu like you after 28 years. I'm sorry to say that. Why make her your first priority while you're spending your money, bro? You're a scumbag, dude.
Now is the moment to put your best foot forward and always put ladies where they belong, rather than making them your number one priority. She acted the way she did because she saw you finish and didn't let a lady predict you. You're so uninteresting to her brother. Best wishes shaa, put yourself together bro you will find love again, heads up man.

Bigredmachine:
When Igbolabi tell una say... She's not your girl friend it's just your turn, una dey form deaf...

See my guy your turn don finish, it's another guy's turn, e pain me say during your turn... You spent like a mugu...

Stop crying like a baby, pick up your self and move on, next time be wise...

How do you want to satisfy present day girls financially when u are not a yahoo boy
crypto boy...

Everything for the country don go up, including maintenance of girl friends...

We dey pray make the air we breathe in, no go up too

Things done hard for yahoo or crypto boy like this. Na ritualists dy spend anyhow these days.

Become an alpha.. U refused!
Become a red piller... Una say no!

You're 28years old and you don't have sense?
Foolish SIMP! you chased her for 2 years? You're a disgrace to manhood! Upon all the threads wey we dey post here, u no see am abi? Yet you made a hoe your highest priority. What a stupid man you are!

Oga, we don't have any advice for your kinds here, You can continue simping or get sense. The Choice is yours!

This man!!! You think say you dey wise, you're a mumu man. Come on gerrara here pussy nigga

Breakfast is served. we keep on telling people like you to run girls package with sense. Una no de listen. Pls don't go near wey sniper dey o.

lyriclekidd:


Things done hard for yahoo or crypto boy like this. Na ritualists dy spend anyhow these days.

You don't mean it...

So na Ritualist dey top league now...

I have been off relationship for about 14 months now.. after my ex whom I put in so much into our relationship left cuz of money.. she admitted it's cuz of money...

Then I earn a paltry 25k monthly sh earns 15k daily, now she earns over 100k daily and I now earn 300k monthly.... Dou am not going back to her , sh too has never for once flashed or call or try to reach out...

Sh was the last peice in the puzzle that confirm my theory that the only thing a woman care about in a relationship is "money" ..... If u like generate the best pet name or do all the good things in relationship like call, good sex, friendliness with her family, care in physicality, advice , companionship, dress well, smell well.

See all those attribute comes next after money..that is the only language women understand... for me.. when I get married I will ban my wife from using that statement.. "I love you" .. cuz I know it's a lie.. they love the money u have never you...

Well, @OP, there is no special way to absorb your heartbreak.. just don't kill urself..
And try your best to talk less to her.. it will help. Again every one has a blemish, we all just pretended we never saw them..

Like my ex that I adore is very black like kogi indigenes, and I dislike such deep darkness but set it aside and loved her.. now I focus on that to build the dislike so I can have justification and peace..

@OP, do the same. There is sure something not ok with her but u ignored.. build ur mind around that thing and dislike her from there.. but don't call her again..

The more you call, the more she dislike you

Bigredmachine:
When Igbolabi tell una say... She's not your girl friend it's just your turn, una dey form deaf...

See my guy your turn don finish, it's another guy's turn, e pain me say during your turn... You spent like a mugu...

Stop crying like a baby, pick up your self and move on, next time be wise...

How do you want to satisfy present day girls financially when u are not a yahoo boy
crypto boy...

Everything for the country don go up, including maintenance of girl friends...

We dey pray make the air we breathe in, no go up too

His tenure for the pussy don expire like Ihedioha tenure for Imo State. A guy occupying the 4th position don enter, because he have the money.

Op have lost the pussy to APC (Another Pussy Client)

bigpicture001:
I have been off relationship for about 14 months now.. after my ex whom I put in so much into our relationship left cuz of money.. she admitted it's cuz of money...

Then I earn a paltry 25k monthly sh earns 15k daily, now she earns over 100k daily and I now earn 300k monthly.... Dou am not going back to her , sh too has never for once flashed or call or try to reach out...

Sh was the last peice in the puzzle that confirm my theory that the only thing a woman care about in a relationship is "money" ..... If u like generate the best pet name or do all the good things in relationship like call, good sex, friendliness with her family, care in physicality, advice , companionship, dress well, smell well.

See all those attribute comes next after money..that is the only language women understand... for me.. when I get married I will ban my wife from using that statement.. "I love you" .. cuz I know it's a lie.. they love the money u have never you...

Well, @OP, there is no special way to absorb your heartbreak.. just don't kill urself..
And try your best to talk less to her.. it will help. Again every one has a blemish, we all just pretended we never saw them..

Like my ex that I adore is very black like kogi indigenes, and I dislike such deep darkness but set it aside and loved her.. now I focus on that to build the dislike so I can have justification and peace..

@OP, do the same. There is sure something not ok with her but u ignored.. build ur mind around that thing and dislike her from there.. but don't call her again..

The more you call, the more she dislike you

100k daily??
Its a new whole level entirely...she's a big lady o


But I used to think well to do women are cool with any financially stable man

DevilsEqual:


100k daily??
Its a new whole level entirely...she's a big lady o


But I used to think well to do women are cool with any financially stable man

She doesn't know. My new pay now.. last she knew was that 25k...

Trust me all ladies are after money.. nomata their own financial status.. check out Linda ikeji..