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phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Why won’t she regard their advice higher? They are her blood. She grew up with them and knew them before you. Her mom can die for her, can you?

Do you want her to rubbish her family just because you paid chikini bride price to marry her? If you can’t tolerate her behavior, then divorce her.

Proof to her that those advice is useless

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Talk to her about it, if she doesn't change, buy our large catfishes and make her very tasty catfish pepper soup and while she's enjoying it tell her you are not comfortable with her discussingng your marriage with her family..... she'll definitely change.

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Are you sure you're not been jealous? It's their bonding and you're talk-material. I won't subscribe to your notion as the pure truth about your marriage cause no one speaks ill of him or herself. Stop finding faults

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

I have the same problem here, but thank God I ignored whatever the mother says. I just keep calm no question whatsoever.

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

Well said

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

And this is your contribution to the discourse? How dull can someone be? The op is seeking opinions on how to stop his wife from taking family issues out and all your brain could produce is this nonsense. Rubbish.

Hey, stop castigating the OP. He came online to ask and discuss with us which ain't badly at all. He must have been disturbed and rather than develop HBP, he simply let it out for the wise ones for advise. I think the problem here is you, if you don't have any sense to advise him, simply keep your mouth shut for now or forever. He's wiser than you and that's why he seeks knowledge and advise. Your likes have pushed souls to commit suicide cos nobody to talk to. Beside, he's an anonymous person here on nairaland or do you know him?

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

Destiblack:



Tell the parents to stop dividing your home boldly looking them in the eyes, or they should return your bride price and marry their daughter.


Bleep whatever you think about me,always remember there is no competition in destiny.

How much bride price? Is it the 250K the groom paid that they should be grateful for?

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

What next after all these? No solution, no advise on how to resolve the issue.

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

My brother, you have entered one chance.
This attitude is common among 20s. Your wife was trained by her mother alone. The mother will dictate the number of times you have to s*** in a year. You have to be cautious because the marriage might be heading to disunity. Chat me up so that I tutor you so that you will not lose. Are you aware that the mother is interested in the union more than God. The moment she refuses to inform the mother, she would use all her energy to tear your home down.

My girlfriend is not like that.

Temi to mi leru oo!

Seun should probably rename this site to RelationshipLand or something

Mmmm why? She's not matured for marriage even some 15years old can hold her home. You have to wait for her to grow up then, I mean be patient talk, talk talk until she gets it. Happy married life ♥️

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

The word “Comprehension" is so far from you

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict, you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same. Shame on you 'contemporary husband'

Are you the wife? Ha ba easy am na.

Most women have met a lot of men and have read their minds while some men have barely friend two women.

He can't just control her just like that if he has no idea hence his coming online.

I have a coworker who does the same thing the OPs wife is doing.

She will even tell me and others how she gives to her husband and how her husband use to shout because of joy.

Now, I can't tell the man what the wife is telling me and the man always come visiting his wife at work.

Just yesterday, she brought another complain to me and so she goes telling everyone that is close to her.

The OPs own is even better if she is limiting the privacy exposure to her family alone unlike my coworker.

That's a ticking time bomb!
You better nick it in the bud by calling her to order...sit her down and gently inform her that decisions regarding your home shouldn't go beyond the one agreed by you both, and no third party (whether family members, pastors, friend, etc) should interfere

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

Hmm

How were you coping while you both were courting ?
Next Please!

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

That's very dangerous she's selling her husband dignity's let her know your stand and don't compromised

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Na so dem be oo... You have to learn to live with that reality.

STOP TELLING HER EVERYTHING and triple your hustle

I discovered that attitude with my wife sometimes ago.I was very mad at her.Later I calmed down and told her to keep things private.O boy, it got worse, she sometimes tell them what is happening in our home in my presence.She has refused to change.I know her own matter is coming from pride anyway.

It goes to tell that your yv is not matured for marriage yet.
Let her know it is not proper.She might not know.we keep learning by the day.it could be what she saw her elder sisters doing and she thinks it is okay.

For me, I had to go back to my introverted mood.Keep mute on everything. I brought in a new car without letting her know wordup.I got promoted several times without her knowledge.She only sees results, I don't tell her Jack. I listen more and talk less.I have to keep some many things away from her.

Not all women are trainable though.

So funny

Zonefree:
Married people are becoming menace to this great forum

Olunmercy56:
it's not by age, its by good sense. She is not ready for a good home. You can't win some families unless the person involved is ready to disassociate herself far from them to have a better home

May I meet you?
vtghomes@gmail.com
Pls contact me!

I love the fact that this is coming from a woman... I lost my fruitless marriage due to this

[This a big problem. Many marriages have been run aground because of this. Some mothers are so bad that they unknowingly transfer it to their daughters. No two homes are ever the same. What works for family A might not work for family B. I think been ready for marriage also includes been ready to divorce your family and build a new home.

Didn't you notice all these while dating before you both end up getting married
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I wonder how you guys do some things sef when all you all know during dating na fucking and sex all night thereby ignoring all red flags

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Sit her down and ask her if she is truly ready to be a Wife.
Not all married women are ready to be a wife mentally,some still thinks like sisi olode abi na sisi ologe