after our 2 and half months old strike.on my way to ibadan, i met a young pretty lady in the vehicle i board.then after a long talk from lagos to ibadan we exchange numbers and she promised to visit me, which she did. after a little paparazzi with her i found out tat she is 19 and a virgin and she said she want me to disflower but i must marry her. she said she luv me and i do too. but am confused cos i dont want to make promises, when i tried inserting my dick into her she started crying and im dont what to hot her but she said she want it OPEN ONCE & FOR ALL!! which i refused but i make juice out 4 times which she confessed she enjoyed

pls tel me what to do

Tosin wole:

after our 2 and half months old strike.on my way to ibadan, i met a young pretty lady in the vehicle i board.then after a long talk from lagos to ibadan we exchange numbers and she promised to visit me, which she did. after a little paparazzi with her i found out tat she is 19 and a virgin and she said she want me to disflower but i must marry her. she said she love me and i do too. but am confused because i don't want to make promises, when i tried inserting my privates into her she started crying and im don't what to hot her but she said she want it OPEN ONCE & FOR ALL!! which i refused but i make juice out 4 times which she confessed she enjoyed

please tel me what to do

How old are u?
Are u ready for commitment?
When did u meet her that u both are already falling in love?
Pls,if u know u aint ready for commitment,pls just let her be for now.

i should think you are just a mere foolish man. 19years and u have the mouth to even spill it out? are u meant to build or destroy. You meet a tiny girl whom probably haven't a clue to her directions to life and you come up to paste this?
What a waste of personalty

hailtopsy:

i should think you are just a mere foolish man. 19years and u have the mouth to even spill it out? are u meant to build or destroy. You meet a tiny girl whom probably haven't a clue to her directions to life and you come up to paste this?
What a waste of personalty

lol

one word - idiot

Better ask us how u gonna be a successful man in life and not this rubbish, you must be a foolish and stupid little bract

@ Tosin

You hav to be very careful wit things,

She said you must promise her marriage , that's so shockin.

I mean a girl of 19 wants to be deflowered and also get married to the same guy, I don't think things will work as she has said it.

She has currently putted you in a tight situation and i guess u should think bout it well.

Cheers!

@iice
Lol, abi no be by force ooooo!!, this guy self ur own dey one kind oh!!

The boy need help, not bashing. He is probably 19-20. Maybe, we should advise him to either wake up and realize that what he want to do has consequences so he could think. That is if he is real.

Frankly, let check it out. Just 2 and half months, met a stranger in a bus, and you had already 'entered' her private sanctuary ( It doesn't really matter whether you broke the pot or not you have seen her unclothedness and had had contact) without idea of her medical history, life goal and aspiration etc. You don't even think of her possibilty of being a witch. I think you should first go for HIV test. Virgin can be a carrier just as babies.

Then you should ask yourself if you are ready tn meet her demand. Somehow, someone would be hurt. A 19 year old virgin begging you to break her pot with stringent conditions as you stated is a potential danger. She would eventually leave you once she realize her stupidity. Most ladies lost their virginity to excitement and wrong judgement.

It is obvious what you felt for the girl is lust. I think on second thought, you deserve the bashing you got. I just hope you get the messages and not the bashing.

The boy need help, not bashing. He is probably 19-20. Maybe, we should advise him to either wake up and realize that what he want to do has consequences so he could think. That is if he is real.

Frankly, let check it out. Just 2 and half months, met a stranger in a bus, and you had already 'entered' her private sanctuary ( It doesn't really matter whether you broke the pot or not you have seen her unclothedness and had had contact) without idea of her medical history, life goal and aspiration etc. You don't even think of her possibilty of being a witch. I think you should first go for HIV test. Virgin can be a carrier just as babies.

Then you should ask yourself if you are ready tn meet her demand. Somehow, someone would be hurt. A 19 year old virgin begging you to break her pot with stringent conditions as you stated is a potential danger. She would eventually leave you once she realize her stupidity. Most ladies lost their virginity to excitement and wrong judgement.

It is obvious what you felt for the girl is lust. I think on second thought, you deserve the bashing you got. I just hope you get the messages and not the bashing.

Go right ahead and disflower (sic) her.
All these jokers on nairaland sef.

rubbish of the highest order, u are such an irresponsible boy, please if u do not have any meaningful thing to post pls leave this thread. HABA IS SEX FOOD.

Ds Romance thread does have a lot of hypocrites!!
Wat do u all mean by that he shouldnt pop the pot? The young lady is actually asking for it so its not rape, both claim they are in love so sex is expected to come up sometime during any relationship(Some lovers take years to get to it, some just take weeks!!), and to think some of you posted in favour of the guy who had not had a kiss in 2 years but you think tosinwole should miss a chance at scoring the jackpot HYPOCRITES!!! HYPOCRITES!!!

Take note: Virginity is not Integrity,
Its lack of Opportunity,

tobaaro:


Take note: Virginity is not Integrity,
Its lack of Opportunity,

I don't agree wit all u said but i hav that as my wallpaper. luv it

If both of you are ready and in agreement then why not?

It is only going to happen once and there is no need to wait. If she wants to then go for it

Reverend:

If both of you are ready and in agreement then why not?

It is only going to happen once and there is no need to wait. If she wants to then go for it

Reverend, you are supposed to be called DEVIL,
Soji pastor, you wake up bajeee
you sabi!! your church member would be in trouble if you were a real Reverend

humanity will never 4give yo[/color][color=#006600]u if you disvirgin that girl , you should think of your future and not that bullshit alright.

Why would two people be in trouble for doing something completely natural?

Reverend:

Why would two people be in trouble for doing something completely natural?

that's true sha, but the folks are still young you know? Wouldn't that ruin their future?

i so much dont wanna contribute to this, but i just cant seems to get away from telling the poster, that you are one of those men that makes men look bad, get a grip, be a man, tell her u cant make promises, cos i am sure if you do, she will let you be

Is it natural for strangers to meet and fall in bed without conviction? Maybe you forget the girl is just 19. Their meeting is less than a month. Lust. Would you be happy to see you beloved virgin sister, if you ever had any, fall in lust on Lagos-Ibadan expr way and open her pot to a man just because it felt sweat? And guess what? They are getting married after that regardless of their error! Take a bow. Morality apart, it is sheer ignorance.

There is nothing wrong with a 19 year old couple experiencing the beauty of sex. Why it would would ruin their lives is beyond me. Just because they sleep together does not mean they are doomed for the rest of their lives.

That is utter nonsense.

There is a big difference between picking up a prostitute by the side of the road and paying for sex, and making love with somebody because that is the way you both feel towards each other.

As for morality in a country where people kidnap children for money, I will take two 19 year olds sleeping together anytime.

Wot sorta reverend is this sef?

y una dey attack d guy? @ poster,dnt start wht u urself no dat u cant finish.

This reverend is all about common sense and normality  

Reverend:

This reverend is all about common sense and normality

Yeah right

U be Finidi George?

PHEESAYOUR:

You be Finidi George?

Fisayo _namesakeNa so finidi dey do? 

Your situation is too vague for me to say anything. But I wouldn't.

wen u learn how to stop shelling disflower her, no be only disflower, na dis petal her, ode langido

Tosin
would you like your junior sister to be disflower at such an age ?

Why don't you look for something good to do with your life,remember what goes around comes around.you will have your own daughter and worse thing like that may happen to her if u spoil this little girl's life.

This is a lesson for all of us that has female junior once.please take care of them.