WHEN my father said that he was gonna raised me up in the u.s,my grandma said no,but my pops didn't listen,so my grandma was like may GOD give you a son that will break your heart all the time and I think what she said affect him and me,when ever my pops's Trina do something good for me am always breaking his heart,this is serious what do you think I gotta do?

I think it may affect you. Your story look familiar to one I heard years ago. It may create a domino effect which may you if you are not careful. The goodnews is that you can stop the curse.

grandma love me but she said she will never forgive my dad for that,when ever i bring that to her she get mad at me and all that.

No need to wrry about any generation spill over. The first step toward solving any problem is to identify it. Now, you can follow up from there. all you need to do is try as much as possible not to personalize the issue. The issue between your day and mum is not your business. you must not try to blame your action on any any curse. Even though you may be under one. you cannot blame the rain for wetting your cloth when you could not use umbrella. keep praying. When you offend dad, try to be sober and prompty appologize to him. as long as he doennt curse you, you arefree. Also go to you granny and warm your way to her heart. She would pray for you one day and that prayeritself would neutaralize whatever curse she put on your dad, that may spill over. You might be unwittingly using that curse as rewason for your own error. Don't be. I trust in The Lord to give you strenght and power to overcome any curse or whatever that is uopn you in His might name! He had never fail to deliver when asked for helps and he would never fail you at this time if you are sincere and truthful in your heart. Just abide in His ordinance and stay close to him. Your Dad may be innocent of the curse, so he may not deserve any of the teatment you melted out to him. Yes, he might be. Just don't meddle in it. the lord will help you.

if it is true that you are praying and try your best to free ourself, you would be free from it. trust in God and He would not leave you to suffer! Cheers