Playing hard to get applies mostly
to ladies/girls who wouldn't want to
appear cheap to their toasters and
as such give their toasters much
stress. They do that with the notion
that when a woman plays hard to
get even when in her heart she
really desires the man, that if she
eventually agrees that the man
would cherish and value her so
much.



They believe guys toil with the
heart of babes that play easy to
get, calling them "cheap".
A man can also play hard to get if
it is a woman that is toasting him,
especially if he doesn't find the
lady attractive.
Is it worth then to play hard to get
or easy to get? And in what
circumstances are each of these
seemingly contradictory
tactics-"playing hard to get"and
"playing easy to get"-more
effective?


The first tactic is most effective
when used in the context of long-
term love or the marital context in
which a person wishes to be sure
of their partner's fidelity. Long-
term romantic love may have
significant and enduring benefits
for us and hence we are ready to
invest a lot of effort, and other
resources, in order to attain it.
Playing hard to get ensures that
the other person is ready to make
a commitment to an enduring
relationship.


The tactic of "playing easy to get"
is most effective when used by
someone in the context of casual
sex, where availability is the most
important commodity. In this
context, people are not ready to
make significant investments since
the benefits are smaller and more
temporary; hence, playing hard to
get here will not be effective at all.
Both tactics are less effective when
used by men. The more overt the
sexual advances by men, the less
attractive women find them-
probably because women do not
want men to consider them as
highly promiscuous.
Playing hard to get is also less
effective in men, as they are the
ones who are socially expected to
initiate the relationship.
Romantic love is often described
as a game, but love is more than
just a game for two. Love is a very
profound and complex experience
involving serious, yet enjoyable
games that two can play and both
win.
But at the end of the day, we must
realize the serious nature of this
enjoyable bond between two
people, and act accordingly. Acting
seriously should not mean the
abolishment of games in love, but
rather making them more
important.



Whatever is easily available is not
considered valuable but when
something is scarce, it assumes
preciousness. This is the law of
economics. However, when applied
to human relationships, it throws up
varied results. Many people like to
think that if they play hard to get
with someone they like, they have
higher chances of attracting them.
But does it really work?
Dangers Of Playing Hard To Get
In a book, they write: "Playing hard
to get is the easiest way to land
Mr. Wrong (i.e., Mr. Avoidant.)"Ah
ha!
So, I was like, why is playing hard
to get a bad idea in the long run,
even though it might seem like a
good strategy in the short-term
(because it might help you win
over a very successful or attractive
guy)?


They wrote:"Playing hard to get is
bad news, period — both in the
short run and in the long run.
People need to understand that
when they go out on a date,
they're not looking to win anyone
over. They're out to find out
whether this person is right for
them, whether he has the capacity
to make them happy. If you play
hard to get, or in fact, if you play
games at all, it will be very hard to
tell if this person is a good match
for you and if he is able to meet
your needs. If you’re not putting
your personality and needs out
there, how will you know how the
other person reacts to them, and
whether he can show up and be
there for you?


The danger when you're playing
hard to get is that you will 'win
over' someone who actually
doesn’t feel comfortable being
close and prefers to play hot and
cold. You've led him to believe that
you're comfortable with this kind of
arrangement and when you decide
it's time to let up the 'act,' you
discover that you and your partner
aren't in sync, and that he isn't
capable of giving you what you
need."


Some claim that one may lose her
Mr Right by playing too hard to get
as some guys don't really like
being tossed around.
Finally, I think babes should strike
a balance between playing hard to
get and playing easy to get.
Babes and guys, what's your take
on playing hard to get?

Okay.

I'm so hard because of this my crush..

Jeon:
I'm so hard because of this my crush..

They have small dvcks. How will u cope?

SenecaTheYonger:


They have small dvcks. How will u cope?

they have big penis, stop with stereotypes..
I have seen their penis are bigger than those nlanders that always post their private parts.

"Don't Be Hard To Get, But Be Hard To Forget."

If I am to interpret Hard To Get, It Means: Campaign Now, Stop Campaign after winning the Election.

Hard to Get Does Not Mean Cherishing you after the Wahala, instead of positioning yourself where you will be won everyday.

You don't have to sell your self cheap too, but if you are of great value you will always be cherished.

Bros boys no get time to chase how to get bannies again


If I toast you twice I Don try... And if you no respond, my brother I Don japa

That was how one fine banny been play me "hard to get" that year,as a guy man i just follow her jejely, After doing all the shakara and hard to get, lass lass nah until my sofa we take end the matter

Girls are not forming hard to get.....it is you that don't understand the game.....u are hard to get rid off....if a girl likes you, she will not form anything for u, rather it will be easier... talking from experience. BOSS, no need to complain, if a girl dey form for u, leave her immediately and go for other girls.... population of women pass men's own. No time to waste time king. Have abundance mentality.

E get one baby I jam for where I go repair my mp3
The babe look so fvcking hot,
Introduced myself
I ask her what her name was, she gave me one Korean name
Imagine gbagyi girl

I no send her name, I told her straight to the point, give me ur control she didn't answer, seems she was busy chatting, I glanced her chat, na one aboki she dey chat with.

Let's exchange numbers she said she doesn't give her number to stranger,
I said okay that's cool

I just collected my mp3 and walkaway,
No stress.

I no fit dey convince customer to sale btc for me still dey convince girl to give me number.

As I dey here self fvck don tire me, so Wetin be her use?