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Everybody is going tru alot

Dont think urs is greater...if everyone begin share their problems, u will thank God for urs

Just smile , to confuse the negative voice in u

How about the factory work the other guy told you about..-how did it go?

This betting thing and borrowing money from loan apps has really rendered so many young men useless.

There's nothing wrong with you and you're not finished. If you can stop your addiction of betting and borrowing from all these loan apps, you'll get your life back.


I don't want to say anything about masturbation that you're addicted to, because it seems that one is a good addiction, because even me as a lady, I find so much satisfaction and pleasure too In masturbating. Of truth, I haven't seen any danger of it yet, I don't think there's. Some of my fellow girls told me that I won't be enjoying the real sex with a man if am addicted to masturbation, but it's a lie, I have been enjoying it. Sorry , to me , I am not stopping it anytime soon.


But the most important thing you should know is that you're not finished as you claimed. Always remember that some people start making it at the age of 50, while some who started making theirs in their early twenty died at 50.

But quit your betting lifestyle and stop borrowing from this exploitative loan apps.

We're all suicidal in this country. I do feel same way most times. The other side might be better, just saying.

If you hear another person story you will know you don't even hv issue

Since dere is life, we all hv hope.
Kip believing and don't give up, don any hustle Dat will put food on ur table and don't be shy of anything hustling

Don't involve urself in any crime or negative tin. Bliv d sun will shine on u soon

SmellySperm:
We're all suicidal in this country.

Realmi:
Everybody is going tru alot

Dont think urs is greater...if everyone begin share their problems, u will thank God for urs

Just smile , to confuse the negative voice in u

for the fact that masturbation is in the picture, why should he thank God for his problem?

Brother, there is a lot going on in his life that he doesn't need to hear anyone's side of story to make himself comfortable in a problem he should be fighting to break free.

Obadiah 1:17 "upon mount zion, there shall be deliverance and holiness and he house of jacob shall possess their possession"

1sherlockHolmes:
i have spent 27(majorly useless) years on this earth, i will be 28years old next week, but i have nothing to show and there is no any sign of hope in the future. lately i have been feeling depressed and suicidal and also losing hopes about life. im jobless hopeless and sick addicted to masturbation for morethan 10 years and also become addicted to betting recently, chronic debtor borrowed from several loan apps and wastes it on betting sites. im writting this today because rightnow im feeling very suicidal, i no get shishi i dont know where to get and im sick. do i still have hope? can i fix my life and live a normal life style or im just finished note# i am not asking or trying to ask for money thats the main reason i alway bet the little i have because to me its better to bet than beg people for money i hate begging may god help me not become a criminal

go to building site and carry blocks from morning to evening any money u get no be pesin go tell u how to use am

There are still lots of countless hope, I use to bet before too, but the day I sat down and calculated all I have bet, that day I stop going to betting shop or even betting online, mine I was even given a cashier login ooo. Another is instead of thinking suicide why not just think tomorrow is going to be a good day and everything that happens today won't happen tomorrow and stop thinking about the past and focus on what you want your tomorrow to be cause if you keep focusing on the past you won't see what your tomorrow would be, before you know rhings will start changing bit by bit that my own little advice

Change your mindset, change your life.
You can't keep doing what you have been doing all these years and expect a different outcome.

Gratitude is the secret to happiness.
There's always something to be thankful for.

Your association is also very important, you hang out with losers, you'd become one.
Check your life and see if the people you spend time with are living a life you admire.

Eventually when you become serious with life, you'd get angry about a lot of things.
Use that anger to make changes.


Start small, you might just decide to start waking up at a different time , might decide to stop drinking.
Just start somewhere, Start changing what you don't like about yourself

It's the country that is making you feel useless. Japa, bro. Japa. Trek through the desert into another country if you have to, but by any means leave the useless country.

This is really true though...Nigeria is affecting everyone's mental health

OP no hope again

And here I am feeling like crying but we move . if the struggle was easy everyone would do it.

That is why I hate gambling, victor ikpeba and his (beta9JA) crew have rendered our youths useless, as for jay jay okocha with that his annoying Fulani dance on Betking Advertisement, jumping and dancing at the expense of people's money.

Op trust me it's just a phase that will pass. First thing you need to do is stop masturbation immediately, it's making you mentally redundant without you knowing. Then get your kit in the morning and run like hell. After jogging, come back home sleep and wake up. Do this for 2 -3 weeks and you will notice a significant improvement in your mental health. Flee from masturbation op don't listen to any rubbish justifying it. In summary your solution is 3 fold. Stop masturbation, start jogging and rest very well. Do these and you will be fine. That i assure you.

if I tell U the story of my life
U go cry but look at me
bro, Ur life will be beautiful
ma fo
it's just a phase

Itohanmiwa:
Op trust me it's just a phase that will pass. First thing you need to do is stop masturbation immediately, it's making you mentally redundant without you knowing. Then get your kit in the morning and run like hell. After jogging, come back home sleep and wake up. Do this for 2 -3 weeks and you will notice a significant improvement in your mental health. Flee from masturbation op don't listen to any rubbish justifying it. In summary your solution is 3 fold. Stop masturbation, start jogging and rest very well. Do these and you will be fine. That i assure you.

Nah pesin wey get wetin to chop dey jog o

Saving any amount, no matter how small, or even just buying food and eating is better than betting.
We're all struggling with different things at different times of our lives.
May you bring this battle.

Where there is life there is hope. Seen people around same age still seeking admission into the university. Commit your ways to God and He will direct your path

Fear of being judged by friends and family.
We really do not have choices in this life but we all believe we do!

C'mon bro,I used to be in ur shoe before I discipline and motivate myself to live a better life.. don't ever borrow to bets,use ur time to learn any physical skills or online skills by all means.. lastly,get urself a girl of ur age with a humble and decent characters,she will help u through those moments.cheers to life bro

Bro,the truth is that you have to get a job or start a trade,that will help you financially and also get you out of your comfort zone. You don't need a girl but what you need now is to work on yourself and find happiness within you first before involving anyone else.
PS: masturbation is not a problem,you just have alot of free time on your hand. Once that free time goes, the masturbation will follow.

The truth is, we are all depressed in this country but most of us have developed a coping mechanisms to deal with the depression. So try and developed Ur own mechanisms if not this country go swallow u.

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LyfeJennings:
if I tell U the story of my life
U go cry but look at me
bro, Ur life will be beautiful
ma fo
it's just a phase

I cann very well relate

I can guide u with a. Step by step on how. To become fulfill... But I can bet my balls , u will not listen or follow through cuz it's not fast money crime guide

1sherlockHolmes:
i have spent 27(majorly useless) years on this earth, i will be 28years old next week, but i have nothing to show and there is no any sign of hope in the future. lately i have been feeling depressed and suicidal and also losing hopes about life. im jobless hopeless and sick addicted to masturbation for morethan 10 years and also become addicted to betting recently, chronic debtor borrowed from several loan apps and wastes it on betting sites. im writting this today because rightnow im feeling very suicidal, i no get shishi i dont know where to get and im sick. do i still have hope? can i fix my life and live a normal life style or im just finished note# i am not asking or trying to ask for money thats the main reason i alway bet the little i have because to me its better to bet than beg people for money i hate begging may god help me not become a criminal

Betting n masturbation will only bring you closer to your destruction. Quit! Then seek counsel, you need a lot of it

1sherlockHolmes:
i have spent 27(majorly useless) years on this earth, i will be 28years old next week, but i have nothing to show and there is no any sign of hope in the future. lately i have been feeling depressed and suicidal and also losing hopes about life. im jobless hopeless and sick addicted to masturbation for morethan 10 years and also become addicted to betting recently, chronic debtor borrowed from several loan apps and wastes it on betting sites. im writting this today because rightnow im feeling very suicidal, i no get shishi i dont know where to get and im sick. do i still have hope? can i fix my life and live a normal life style or im just finished note# i am not asking or trying to ask for money thats the main reason i alway bet the little i have because to me its better to bet than beg people for money i hate begging may god help me not become a criminal

You are just 28.

Let me tell you what i think is the problem.

Your first problem is betting. Betting on games is a game itself and it is rigged not to favour you. Stop betting, no matter what. Delete your betting apps, unsubscribe from their emails. Drop that shit like hot stone.

Masturbation is not a problem. You are still sexually active and young and broke. This is why you masturbate. When you get money, you wont even have the chance to masturbate. When there are dozens of girls at every street corner waiting to make you happy for few naira notes. So dont think about the masturbation angle for now.

As regards your future, everything is in your hands. Stop having ht mentality that you need a job. This is one of the main problems our society has implanted in us. Instead of looking for a job, create a job. Learn a trade, skill or hustle. Learn something that makes you valuable. Furniture, Mechanic, Truck Driving, Programming, Fashion design, Graphics…..anything that can give you a skill. Dedicate the next few years to that hustle and see your life change.

Do not just sit down at home pressing phone. That issue breeds depression more than anything. If you are not selling or networking via facebook or instagram, delete those apps for now. Dont watch WhatsApp status. These things kill slowly. When you see others posting their good life and you have none to post, it makes you weak emotionally. So ignore them. Focus on becoming a better person.

Look for like minded friends who want to achieve. If you have friends who do nothing than wake up and lounge in penury, start avoiding them. Get new friends who share an hunger for growth.

As regards financial, cut down on expenses. You can use the same clothes for more than one year if you maintain them properly. Drop alcohol. Dont take soft drinks if you can avoid it. Cook. Before you spend any money, ask yourself if it is really necessary. Since you have dropped betting, take a look at your bank history and decide on the things you expend on and their relevance to your survival.

Gradually, things would change and you would see results.

1sherlockHolmes:
i have spent 27(majorly useless) years on this earth, i will be 28years old next week, but i have nothing to show and there is no any sign of hope in the future. lately i have been feeling depressed and suicidal and also losing hopes about life. im jobless hopeless and sick addicted to masturbation for morethan 10 years and also become addicted to betting recently, chronic debtor borrowed from several loan apps and wastes it on betting sites. im writting this today because rightnow im feeling very suicidal, i no get shishi i dont know where to get and im sick. do i still have hope? can i fix my life and live a normal life style or im just finished note# i am not asking or trying to ask for money thats the main reason i alway bet the little i have because to me its better to bet than beg people for money i hate begging may god help me not become a criminal

Na Lazyness they worry you, the next money you get, enter car to Lagos and jump to lagoon