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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:36am On Apr 17, 2022
Grandmeister:

OK you too don join the toto fight? Abeg make I cuddle my woman and sleep jaré.
that was exclusively reserved for pocohantas, not you.

I could scalp you without efforts easily.

Like....

I know your mom can share gonorrhea by quote on Nairaland.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:37am On Apr 17, 2022
LadyRosa:


If I carry my smelly puz'zy water rub you for that ya mouth na,them go say I don start.
and this should pass as a diss or clapback?

What a boring doofus!
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 12:38am On Apr 17, 2022

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by VlamesIffect(f): 12:39am On Apr 17, 2022
Confession: When i was way younger i had a carnal affair with a very young girl....i didn't know she was still very young...very mature personality even lied to me she was way older than what i perceived it to be... but even at that age she wasn't a virgin, i was shocked....her pups is a well renowned clergy man...i regret my actions as i stopped the very moment i knew she was lying all along...till today it's a stain to me as a man...i made sure a year or 2 ago we met...now she's a big girl in her finals...i had a meeting with her at an open restaurant... even tho she lied to me back in the day...but me being an adult i shouldn't have been that stupid or gullible back then...i still apologised for what happened while she was way younger...gave her a very solid sum in check and settled that account... Till date i hate myself but it is what it is..... it's not a good thing...

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:39am On Apr 17, 2022
When u are too emotional to judge case, u would only end up talking nonsense.
Nobody talked about what I expected to hear, rather emotion took hold of us.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ibinaboonline: 12:40am On Apr 17, 2022
There’s such a thing as grooming. There’s a word called “exploitation.” But I’m positive you know all about those words by experience, which is why you’re obviously absolving the pedophile and placing the blame on a minor.
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 12:40am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


You are very slow if you ever thought he never engages in toto insults. The problem with selective moral police like you is you assume you know the troll more than the person responding to him/her. No, don’t go cuddle your woman. Come here and chuchuchu.





Hahahahahah! He sure didn’t see this coming!



Shior!Taw Taw dey smell weda she be queen or angel e must smell if them no wash am.But na still them dey lick am ,still jerk like red neck untop am.So if my TAW TAW dey smell na compliment.BUT the water wey I take dey wash my TAWTAW per day,TAW TAW mama never see am take bath for 3 months!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:41am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


So a classless girl has got you around her fingers for how many years? 4,5? Made you change how many monickers? 15?

The attention you men give supposedly classless girls, is that why the good ones are lonely? Because the attention you give me can successfully power Nigeria’s grid.

Nothing new in a mad Poco. Everyone knows I am mad. Don’t strip me of my records please. I relish in it.
Why were you mad tonight?

Was it because I exposed you for not knowing legal consent for compilation was 18?

I know your education is built on 5 minutes Google search and post.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Rawhumper(m): 12:42am On Apr 17, 2022
The man is really foolish, a married man but
the girl is spoilt too.

If she wasn't spoilt , she won't give the man a
chance....I know little about girls. If they really don't want something and you pester them,
they will report to their parents or elder ones thats girls for you but if their mind dey there some how, no reporting so she loved and enjoyed getting spoilt.

I have said how I have been molested by 9,10
years old some Here may think am just
talking crab but the truth is it happened and I
never had mind or expected such from such girls.











quote author=QuinModah post=111999467]*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.[/quote]
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:43am On Apr 17, 2022
ibinaboonline:
There’s such a thing as grooming. There’s a word called “exploitation.” But I’m positive you know all about those words by experience, which is why you’re obviously absolving the pedophile and placing the blame on a minor.
I never said d whole portion of d blame should go to d minor. A girl of 15years in this our generation having an affair or whatever with an adult has a question or some questions to answer.
Let's take emotion out of this and get d fact right.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 12:43am On Apr 17, 2022

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:43am On Apr 17, 2022
LadyRosa:




Shior!Taw Taw dey smell weda she be queen or angel e must smell if them no wash am.But na still them dey lick am ,still jerk like red neck untop am.So if my TAW TAW dey smell na compliment.BUT the water wey I take dey wash my TAWTAW per day,TAW TAW mama never see am take bath for 3 months!
did ladyrosa just informed us that she's a low-hygiene bonobo?

Damn!
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Vinnie2000(m): 12:44am On Apr 17, 2022
Grandmeister:

He cussed you and you cussed him out draw game, but you felt you needed to land an imaginary e-knockout and then resorted to including his mother's private part. You women never fail to amaze me.
Hehehe! See dis guy! Dey DO NOT have respect for dier gender! Dats how Naira Marley once said sumthing Actress Ada Ameh did not like, instead of her to attack him only, she went on to Bash his mother!
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 12:45am On Apr 17, 2022
TawTaw:
did ladyrosa just informed us that she's a low-hygiene bonobo?

Damn!


Yes I did!Just like your mother cheesy

ME AND YA MAMA YANSH DEY SMELL grin grin


OGILI OKPEHI!!!! grin grin

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Rawhumper(m): 12:45am On Apr 17, 2022
Please did you engage your fellow girl as a lesbian or what?
Because, your monicker is female.....so why
hiding behind female monickers, had it to do
with complex or what?










quote author=VlamesIffect post=112014147]Confession: When i was way younger i had a carnal affair with a very young girl....i didn't know she was still very young...very mature personality even lied to me she was way older than what i perceived it to be... but even at that age she wasn't a virgin, i was shocked....her pups is a well renowned clergy man...i regret my actions as i stopped the very moment i knew she was lying all along...till today it's a stain to me as a man...i made sure a year or 2 ago we met...now she's a big girl in her finals...i had a meeting with her at an open restaurant... even tho she lied to me back in the day...but me being an adult i shouldn't have been that stupid or gullible back then...i still apologised for what happened while she was way younger...gave her a very solid sum in check and settled that account... Till date i hate myself but it is what it is..... it's not a good thing...[/quote]

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:46am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


Why are you slow? Is the age of the girl in the post not 15? Wetin bring 18 inside this matter? Was the toto not tight enough to keep you in place, such that you fell out and ruined your brain as a child?
listen, I know your vagina Wats has progressed to your brain cells.

The dude you quoted said legal age for sex was 16.....your ignorant reply was that men can't wait to smash pussy.

So miss bitter menopausal, Nairaland porn apprentice, didn't you know it was 18?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:46am On Apr 17, 2022
Ochyes:
May it happen to your daughter.
Don't be carried away with emotion, it won't help u in future
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by IamAsiri: 12:46am On Apr 17, 2022
We4all:


I totally agree with you. A 15 year old girl is old enough to know what is right or wrong. I have seen a 12 year old tell a man to go to hell and reported to her parents.

Obviously, she didn’t have a great relationship with her parents to be able to open up to them. It’s a case of parenting gone wrong.

Personality is also another factor. There are children who have developed confidence right from their tender ages while some are very shy and can't really open up to people. Seemed the girl is the shy type.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 12:47am On Apr 17, 2022
TawTaw:
listen, I know your vagina Wats has progressed to your Brian cells.

The dude you quoted said legal age for sex was 16.....your ignorant reply was that men can't wait to smash pussy.

So miss bitter menopausal, Nairaland porn apprentice, didn't you know it was 18?

Oh, you are really so slow it hurts. Where do I start from now. 1 + 1 is what ?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:48am On Apr 17, 2022
olu77:


The blame should go to the paedophile and the girl's parent who gave an underage girl a personal phone with right to privacy
U are on point dear, but never allow emotion to take over u bcs a 15year old girl of this generation know left from right.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:49am On Apr 17, 2022
Basheer22:


You will eventually die in prison.
Do not be carried away by emotion
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:49am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


Oh, you are really so slow it hurts. Where do I start from now. 1 + 1 is what ?
You're so smart and you're slaving monthly for a 35k salary job but want strangers here to think you're a mega earner

She'll start reeling off her family financial history again in defence
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Vinnie2000(m): 12:49am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
When u are too emotional to judge case, u would only end up talking nonsense.
Nobody talked about what I expected to hear, rather emotion took hold of us.
Ogbeni, i understand u jare! Dats how modern parents spoil children. A child will be committing atrocities, dey will be saying 'na still small pickin'. In dis age of yahoo+, if a 16yr old boy use his mother and father for rituals, hope dey will still call him a kid/minor?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:49am On Apr 17, 2022
babajeje123:

Oga, that girl is still a child. How old are you?
I am an ancestor

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 12:51am On Apr 17, 2022
tellwisdom:


Most of your post wey I don encounter de carry estate! estate!- now Na housing estate...where u de live before??

Tellwisdom so you never change after 10 years wey I know you?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:51am On Apr 17, 2022
babajeje123:

People like you should not be on the street. There's nothing a 15 year old is enjoying, she is only being taken advantage of.
I say u lie, a 15year old girl.of tjis generation with android phone knows more than u
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by tete7000(m): 12:51am On Apr 17, 2022
mysticgal:


Why should we talk about a girl that is been coerced by a grown man to give her numbers, her nudes to him. Oh please cry your tears about irritational cases mr clear judgement.

A 15 year old lacks sexual consent. You can smell and see a minor regardless of the body stature. Don’t be stewpid in a public forum. She is 15 slowpoke

Are you sure that is not one of the paedophiles around here?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:53am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


So a classless girl has got you around her fingers for how many years? 4,5? Made you change how many monickers? 15?

The attention you men give supposedly classless girls, is that why the good ones are lonely? Because the attention you give me can successfully power Nigeria’s grid.

Nothing new in a mad Poco. Everyone knows I am mad. Don’t strip me of my records please. I relish in it.

Yenyenyen. I post my nudes, I post my thighs. I post my nyash. Ehen? We have heard you!
by morning you wil get your moderator boyfriend to clean off these posts grin grin grin

I don't know how Nairaland matters so much to you.

Foster dad? Or single mom?

Paternal sexual assaults?

That's why you want Nairaland to father you?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 12:53am On Apr 17, 2022

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 12:53am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I say u lie, a 15year old girl.of tjis generation with android phone knows more than u
You lack comprehension. Read again what you quoted, read your response and tell me the correlation.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:54am On Apr 17, 2022
Athemisia:

That girl is just a teenager with no orientation. You don't expect her to know what you know. She's still a child with no exposure.

On the side of reporting to her parents, well it's clear here that her parents aren't close to her that much for her to open up to them.
She felt loved from that pedophile. Love and care her parents doesn't show.

Meanwhile, her being guilty of her acceptance of that pedophile won't count in the court of law.
Well, in d court of law yes. a 15year old girl of nowadays knows more than some adults, her guardance in school are their for her to know what she doesnt know.

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