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Hi Everyone!

I decided to share something with you all and to know if this is truly normal.

First I’m this kind of guy that loves communication and I try as much as possible to be friendly with everyone in as much as I’m kind of introverted and love being all by myself.

Not to bore you! lol

I noticed that people tend to trust me a lot whenever I get to talk to them or should I put it this way, They tend to say a whole lot of things, things that you shouldn’t tell a stranger you just met for the first time.

I could remember a girl I met the first time telling me about some issues in her family and was crying or the time a church girl after talking for 20mins she gave me her phone and Told me she’ll be back in minutes. Lol (For this kwantry)
Or times without number people just tend to say things and I’d be surprised upon the insecurities in the country, why do people trust strangers and share their first hand infos?

In as much as I don’t have any issues with this though (Not complaining oh) nor Do I take their trust for granted.

I’m just saying this because i remember a mature man( Also very religious) after talking for some days, he told me that I had the spirit of bringing out words from people. Funny enough when we talk, After saying something he’ll be like “I’m not supposed to tell u this”, Or “You’re the only one that knows this”

Although Ill just laugh it off and continue my life but yesterday same thing happened and the guy (A security man ) wanted to keep his phone with me (Was charging it though) and I was the only one there, and said he would be back in hours.

I had to beg him to take his phone with him because I could leave there any moment from that time.


Your opinions or experiences are all welcome.

Solanaa:
I noticed that people tend to trust me a lot whenever I get to talk to them or should I put it this way, They tend to say a whole lot of things, things that you shouldn’t tell a stranger you just met for the first time.

God didn't create any of us empty. You have a gift but need to find out in which area you should use it in life.

For instance, I often debated the Bible with my former pastor, I made him think a lot with the questions I asked. One day he told me I had the gift of teaching and here I am today.

PastorMIsBack:
God didn't create any of us empty. You have a gift but need to find out in which area you should use it in life.

For instance, I often debated the Bible with my former pastor, I made him think a lot with the questions I asked. One day he told me I had the gift of teaching and here I am today.

Thanks Ma’am, I’ll put that into consideration