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A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 4:52pm On Jan 19
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by tolugar: 4:54pm On Jan 19
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by bedspread: 5:00pm On Jan 19
It's Not Normal!

The Living and Dead has nothing in common!

It's not a Good sign!

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by TarOrfeek: 5:02pm On Jan 19
This kind of thing only happens when you're owing the spirit money.

Check your records very well.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 5:04pm On Jan 19
It happens when a bond is so deep that even when death comes, that bond is not terminated. However, the living and the dead have nothing in common, and when the spirit of the dead keeps visiting you then it's time to put a stop to it. It's very dangerous.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by haywire07(m): 5:11pm On Jan 19
It happens to me too but I consider it a normal thing.

Sometimes I get to see people I haven't seen or thought about in years in my dream.
So when I see my dead friends or roommate, I just go about my normal day
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.


aah! In a dream? Is this one alright?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Forreellinc: 5:23pm On Jan 19
Ah e mean say you go soon join am

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 5:38pm On Jan 19
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.


In a dream? How?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 5:39pm On Jan 19
Ishilove:
It happens when a bond is so deep that even when death comes, that bond is not terminated. However, the living and the dead have nothing in common, and when the spirit of the dead keeps visiting you then it's time to put a stop to it. It's very dangerous.
Exactly my intention for creating this thread but the question is how.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 5:40pm On Jan 19
Forreellinc:
Ah e mean say you go soon join am
...after you Sir.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 6:18pm On Jan 19
MajorJeffery:
...after you Sir.
He is actually saying the truth, although it's not your portion. Seeing a dead person constantly in the dream will eventually take your enemy to the corridor of premature death.

What are your religious beliefs?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Uyi168(m): 6:20pm On Jan 19
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.


...
We can't always control what happens in the dreams

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Oyindidi(f): 6:37pm On Jan 19
There may be something he want you to do for him in the physical.

Pray against it though if you feel uncomfortable

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 6:40pm On Jan 19
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.


I doubt it. Op has been seeing the dead fella for quite a while. If he has a message it would have been passed long ago

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by HappyPagan: 6:44pm On Jan 19
Your friend is dead. Get used to it.

Chasing shadows might lead to real mental issues, not worth it in the long run.

You've got a life ahead of you. Focus on that, and stop wishing for that which is long gone.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by orisa37: 7:04pm On Jan 19
Yes. They come to remind us of what is happening in the economy.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by McSterling(m): 7:35pm On Jan 19
I think it's simply an indication of the bond you both shared while he was alive. You perhaps still think about him and that's understandable. I've been having a similar experience about a school colleague who passed away late last year. I'm not bothered by it though. I'm only sad about his early death. Might be because of my perception of death.

I don't subscribe to dreading the memories of loved ones once they die. I see death as a debt we all must pay. We are all under a death sentence, only some have to die before others. In the end it makes no difference who died first. Memento Mori.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Forreellinc: 7:38pm On Jan 19
MajorJeffery:
...after you Sir.
Na me dey see my friend for dream?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by bloodofthelamb(m): 8:25pm On Jan 19
McSterling:
I think it's simply an indication of the bond you both shared while he was alive. You perhaps still think about him and that's understandable. I've been having a similar experience about a school colleague who passed away late last year. I'm not bothered by it though. I'm only sad about his early death. Might be because of my perception of death.

I don't subscribe to dreading the memories of loved ones once they die. I see death as a debt we all must pay. We are all under a death sentence, only some have to die before others. In the end it makes no difference who died first. Memento Mori.

Bro, you and who is under death sentence after all that Christ has done on the cross? Don't you that through one man death reigned even so through another man eternal life reigns.

I am not among those who is under death sentence. I'm under life sentence.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 10:55pm On Jan 19
Oyindidi:
There may be something he want you to do for him in the physical.

Pray against it though if you feel uncomfortable
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by SKhanmi: 11:35pm On Jan 19
Hmm. Op you have to break that bond. A strong bond/concern or unfinished business especially when it was the last strong thought held by the deceased can tie them to this realm. Seek local help, tell your parents,relatives. The old ones will know what to do. Don't waste your time with pastors. They would only pray in vain until you join him.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Kenneth4u205(m): 12:19am On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.
he died before fulfuling his goals and passion. What's happening now is that he want to possese you and use your body to fulfil this pass ions. Passion for se.x, etc. But from your experience of seeing him always, it means he has already possessed you and living out his life through you. That's why your mood suddenly changes and you behave unlike yourself sometimes

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Zoharariel(m): 12:14pm On Jan 20
bloodofthelamb:


Bro, you and who is under death sentence after all that Christ has done on the cross? Don't you that through one man death reigned even so through another man eternal life reigns.

I am not among those who is under death sentence. I'm under life sentence.

Oh holy heavenly shiit! An imaginary jewish asshole died for you and you believe it - simply because some Roman drunken charlatans purportedly under the influence of the holy spirit said so in a book filled with so much lies & contradictions, written over a period of 1,500years and that is being systematically edited & updated every decade with newer versions.

Look, I will tear you apart with my tiger claw & carnassials the next time you write something as foolish as this. grin

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Tunasco4u(m): 1:18pm On Jan 20
Sure it happens like that sometimes
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by itiswellandwell: 1:18pm On Jan 20
Hmm
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by promise4040: 1:18pm On Jan 20
Maybe you killed him.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by kingreign(m): 1:19pm On Jan 20
Go for deliverance

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Jh0wsef(m): 1:19pm On Jan 20
leave atheists. it is NOT normal.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by OboOlora(f): 1:19pm On Jan 20
Ok
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by gare(f): 1:20pm On Jan 20
You have something that belongs to him or you where owing him money before he died

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Praktikals(m): 1:20pm On Jan 20
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.



You cant influence the direction of a discussion in a dream.
@ op. He told you where the document is and you found it there shocked
It means you have a rare gift of communicating with the dead. Work on your gift, bro.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Uploadme(m): 1:20pm On Jan 20
Africans grin grin grin

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