Who really don't deserves a healthy,peaceful,loving marriage? Who in his state of mind won't appreciate a harmonious home?. These and more were the aspiration coming from the social media as against the ugly trend spreading amongst ths hasty generation. Just wondering,in the time past,our fathers assumed Holy matrimony as sacred institution,where couples who steps into it,were not expected to turn back come rain,come shine. Indeed, Marriage was held in high esteem and was reference it as such,as they tread wt caution. But today,is so unfortunate,that this hasty generation has thrown caution to the wind,they are too proud to walk out of marriage at the flimsiest reason,leaving the once upon a time happy,peaceful and harmonious union in shambles. Listen up,you cannot breakup God's foundation,and expect yours to stand. Marriage is God's institute,and not tetelizer kind of super market,where u can walk in and out at any given time. Rather,it's should be seen as a Lifelong relationship that needs lots....

Social and moral decay , its an excuse for modernisation ,but it's what ruins the modern society , Africa held to its Norms and that the white man sees as a threat , being able to keep a family circle strong , the first response and protection any black man has

Social and moral decay , its an excuse for modernisation ,but it's what ruins the modern society , Africa held to its Norms and that the white man sees as a threat , being able to keep a family circle strong , the first response and protection any black man or woman

Social and moral decay , its an excuse for modernisation ,but it's what ruins the modern society , Africa held to its Norms and that the white man sees as a threat , being able to keep a family circle strong , the first response and protection any black man or woman has

When u don fucking d pussy n realise ur account dey dry instead of add because one fine girl u married isn't contributing economically n claiming its our money but i wont work marriage start to shake


Or

She haven't left the street fully yet

Or

Yahoo money don finish

Or

He promised to stop fucking around, oyo.

Or

Pussy got wide suddenly

Or

He tires after 1 round (2secs)

Or

Or

Or

Or

The list many

Or she just a bitch period

Of caution. Marriage is a lifelong journey,definitely it is expected to bring out the best and the worst out of both couples,never an opportunity to backout. Even Jesus has to pass through the cross to the crown,through hell to His halleluyah land of glory. AT any juction,make use of the opportunity in this lifelong journey's lessons and move ahead. Never forget this: a commitment was made. Dowery[Bridewealth] is offen a huge amount of money ws paid to show love,affection and commitment of the groom to the bride at the beginning of the this journer,as it stands: With rate of divorce has shown,that huge dowary cannot gurantee marriage or strenghten relationship any longer. Equally Christian solemnisation,traditionational ceremony in the five star holtel,even culture and civil law were involved,if all these can no longer strengthen,guide and checkmate the high rate of divorce,then note that this hasty generation has totally lost the true virtues of marriage.

Reasons
1. Modern men wants to test run all the girls in the street in the name of searching for real wife unlike our fathers time when marriage are taking serious as they practice marriage before s*x . When you finish the food before ordering it what do you expect.

2. In the old days our father do not have side chicks but now is a competition among married men. No respect to their wife’s

3. Modern men do not want to accept gender equality but they want to share responsibility with their wife or relinquish their responsibility totally but claim the head over her, things don’t work that way. Our father takes full responsibility and claim the head and the wife respect him full time.
The lists are endless…… let me enter church I will be right back

If the marriage was peaceful, harmonious and loving, there will be no divorce.

If your are in a marriage and there is no peace of mind, abeg leave am. Life is too short to be miserable.

vickybby:
1. Who really don't deserves a healthy,peaceful,loving marriage? Who in his state of mind won't appreciate a harmonious home?. These and more were the aspiration coming from the social media as against the ugly trend spreading amongst ths hasty generation.

2. Just wondering,in the time past,our fathers assumed Holy matrimony as sacred institution,where couples who steps into it,were not expected to turn back come rain,come shine. Indeed,

3. Marriage was held in high esteem and was reference it as such,as they tread wt caution. But today,is so unfortunate,that this hasty generation has thrown caution to the wind,they are too proud to walk out of marriage at the flimsiest reason,leaving the once upon a time happy,peaceful and harmonious union in shambles.

4. Listen up,you cannot breakup God's foundation,and expect yours to stand. Marriage is God's institute,and not tetelizer kind of super market,where u can walk in and out at any given time. Rather,it's should be seen as a Lifelong relationship that needs lots....

1. So long as humans are involved in anything, expect there will not always be peace.

2. There is nothing "Holy"nor "sacred" about your matrimonial this since God Himself cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 15 b. So any delusions that assumed peaceful marriage is nothing but, a delusion.

3. Ok

4. God Himself cursed marriage at its very foundation, so leave HIM out of your delusions where marriage marriage concerned..

luvmijeje:
If the marriage was peaceful, harmonious and loving, there will be no divorce.

If your are in a marriage and there is no peace of mind, abeg leave am. Life is too short to be miserable.

Before you advice a walk out,go back to this post..Read once again more carefully. Marriage is a discipline place. The plateform that will bring out your nature..., the worst or the best from you both....it's a lifelong journey....learn the lessons it present and move ahead. By walking away...from how many of the marriage? Never prospone the evil day,for what goes around,come around. No matter what life throws at you in this journey,remember difficult roads often leads to beautiful destination.

The major cause of high rate of divorce today is the lack of knowledge! Hosea 4:6

The secret of lasting commitment in marriage is revealed in the Bible book of Ephesians 5:33

The man must LOVE his wife as he does himself and the woman must have DEEP RESPECT for her husband. So before going into the marriage, look intently at the man/woman then ask yourself
"Can this man earn that respect i supposed to give my husband?
Can this woman earn that love i supposed to give my wife?"

I know what attracts me to a woman whether she's spiritually sound or not, so that's the first thing i consider before any other thing and of course she must be a JW.
So a woman also needs to do the same for the man she wants to marry. What makes you have DEEP RESPECT for any man? Does this particular guy have such quality?
Once this has been taken care of the rest is simple!

God is the originator of marriage at Gen 2:22-24. He paired the first human couple, he later gave each partner their role in marriage and to make their marriage bed be honorable Heb 13:4. To the man he said at Ephesians 5:33 to love his wife as his own body and the woman should have DEEP respect for the husband. So if couples fails to follow such directions, there are prone to be problems which can lead to divorce. Imagine using a new machine you haven't used before without following manufacturers manuel

Dem Wicked na! So you no expect say 2 wicked people wey join marry go be better marriage.

paltielx:
1. God is the originator of marriage at Gen 2:22-24. He paired the first human couple, he later gave each partner their role in marriage and to make their marriage bed be honorable Heb 13:4. To the man he said at Ephesians 5:33 to love his wife as his own body and the woman should have DEEP respect for the husband.

2. So if couples fails to follow such directions, there are prone to be problems which can lead to divorce. Imagine using a new machine you haven't used before without following manufacturers manuel

1. The same God then cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, this from before your ancestors were born. He did not give any roles...what he instead did was put a curse on the institution rendering it unholy.

2. Submission is God's curse and anyone who bows to His curse is cursed.

Kobojunkie:
1. So long as humans are involved in anything, expect there will not always be peace.

2. There is nothing "Holy"nor "sacred" about your matrimonial this since God Himself cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 15 b. So any delusions that assumed peaceful marriage is nothing but, a delusion.

3. Ok

4. God Himself cursed marriage at its very foundation, so leave HIM out of your delusions where marriage marriage concerned..

Quietly go back to this post,let God guide you through....Marriage remains an essential part of God's plan. He ordained it," Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother,and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh"[Gen"2:241] God instituted marriage and gave His blessing. According to you,if God cursed marriage,how you manage enter nairaland?

Kobojunkie:
1. The same God then cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, this from before your ancestors were born. He did not give any roles...what he instead did was put a curse on the institution rendering it unholy.

2. Submission is God's curse and anyone who bows to His curse is cursed.

where in Gen 3:16 has God cursed marriage. God only said that women wil have pains when pregnant and on child birth. This was because Eve sinned. God has never cursed marriage

paltielx:
where in Gen 3:16 has God cursed marriage. God only said that women wil have pains when pregnant and on child birth. This was because Eve sinned. God has never cursed marriage

There is nothing like holy matrimony this since that which has been cursed by God Himself is rendered unholy by virtue of His judgment against it.

Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..

You(wife) will want your husband very much,
    but he(husband) will rule over you(wife).” - Genesis 3 vs 16b

Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself.

vickybby:
Quietly go back to this post,let God guide you through....Marriage remains an essential part of God's plan. He ordained it," Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother,and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh"[Gen"2:241] God instituted marriage and gave His blessing. According to you,if God cursed marriage,how you manage enter nairaland?

There is nothing like holy matrimony this since that which has been cursed by God Himself is rendered unholy by virtue of His judgment against it.

Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..

You(wife) will want your husband very much,
    but he(husband) will rule over you(wife).” - Genesis 3 vs 16b

Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing like holy matrimony this since that which has been cursed by God Himself is rendered unholy by virtue of His judgment against it.

Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..
Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself.

the "rule over" there means that the man is the head of the house. Eph 5:23

paltielx:
the "rule over" there means that the man is the head of the house. Eph 5:23

The "rule over" is a result of the curse placed by God on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 b

In the Kingdom of God, having a human as head/master over one is against God aka sin as it guarantees one is not of God - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10.

Kobojunkie:
The "rule over" is a result of the curse placed by God on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 b

In the Kingdom of God, having a human as head/master over one is against God aka sin as it guarantees one is not of God - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10.

In God's kingdom Jesus will be the over all ruler, however in a family setting a father and husband is the head of the family 1cor 11:3. That is God's arrangement, that doesn't mean that a husband should wickedly dominate the wife. At Eph 5:28 exhorts husbands to be loving to their wives

paltielx:
1. In God's kingdom Jesus will be the over all ruler,

2. however in a family setting a father and husband is the head of the family 1cor 11:3. That is God's arrangement, that doesn't mean that a husband should wickedly dominate the wife. At Eph 5:28 exhorts husbands to be loving to their wives

1. Your Pastors and mogs fed you lot that lie of there existing some sort of power hierarchy in the Kingdom of God much like they have in there churches and in this world. .

Instead what Jesus Christ told you is that in the Kingdom of God, you can't serve two masters - Matthew 6 vs 24a. You can either serve God only or you serve only men only - you cannot serve both God and man, no matter the situation.

2. God made no special arrangements for those in marriages this since He instead requires you abandon family for His sake - Matthew 10 vs 34- 39 - this since your families have nothing to do with the Kingdom of God. In addition, what you claim as special arrangement is born of God's curse- Genesis 3 vs 16a - and all that remains submitted to a curse will never grace the presence of God who is instead holy. For this very reason, Jesus Christ reminded His followers that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36