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5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 2:22am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Some tips from an interesting article I found on Yahoo that I wanted to share: ----- 1. Wear something red You can do something to command attention before you even leave the house by putting on a fetching red sweater or dress. A study recently published in British Psychological Society Research Digest shows that humans are attracted to the color red. Researchers found that when a woman wears the ever-popular crimson hue, men sit closer to her and ask more intimate questions. Lead researcher, Daniela Niesta Kayser, Ph.D., says: “I wanted to demonstrate that despite social psychological factors that are known to impede acting on one’s attraction to someone (e.g., shyness, lack of self-esteem, performance situation), the color red had such a powerful effect that it would overcome those barriers to real behavior.” The positive effect can also carry over into online dating, so you might want to consider posting a picture of yourself wearing red to amp up your profile’s visual appeal! 2. Work those pretty peepers Eye contact is important, even before you introduce yourself the person you’d like to get to know better. In fact, if it’s done right, your eyes can literally bring him to you. Navarro suggests softening your features before scoping out someone cute: “Always look with a relaxed face. A smile is fine, but it’s not needed as long as the look says, ‘When I look at you I relax psychologically.’” He also advises repeating the eye-contact routine more than six times in a three-minute period to send a clear message about your intentions. 3. Speak at a natural volume If you feel tempted to lower your voice an octave or two when you meet a good-looking man, you’re not alone. American psychologists at Pennsylvania’s Albright College and the University of Baltimore found that both men and women lower the tone of their speaking voices when they find the person they’re chatting up to be attractive. The catch is men tend to prefer feminine, melodious voices, so making any extra effort isn’t necessarily worth it. Nicholas Boothman, author of How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds, weighs in: “Always be yourself and don’t try too hard — it’s the number one turn-off.” 4. Relax and use humor to break the ice Perhaps the most important thing to remember is that flirting isn’t rocket science. Chances are that guy wants to meet you, too. Brian Hayford, 29, an artist in Wisconsin, says that all you need to do in order to draw him in is “smile and make a witty comment that’s funny, but not overly mean.” Steer clear of touchy subjects, like politics, when you first meet new people. Instead, joke about your surroundings or popular culture. When you’re tempted to say something ribald or outrageous to get attention, Sam Gosling suggests that you proceed with caution: “With the right cheeky glint in her eye, a woman could probably pull it off — but it would be harder [than for a man] because expectations for what counts as acceptable behavior are quite different for men and women.” Boothman agrees: “Everyone likes witty and funny/smart people, but the tone should stay lighthearted — no one likes people who are too aggressive in their opinions or use vulgar language, gestures or anecdotes.” In other words, it’s OK to let your inner Lisa Lampanelli out…but wait until after you’ve gotten to know someone first. 5. Keep your body language open If you tend to be a bit shy, it might feel natural to cross your arms or turn slightly away from others, but people are more sensitive to these cues than you think. If you want to strike up a conversation with an attractive stranger, pay attention to the signals your body language is sending. Don’t fidget, look down, or slouch. Instead, sit or stand in a relaxed and confident manner. Kira Sabin, a professional dating coach in Wisconsin, says it’s particularly important to think about your body language when you’re talking to a friend in a crowded place. “If you are only turned toward your friend, then your body is saying, ‘we are in a closed conversation.’ With both of you facing toward the room, it says, ‘we are nice and friendly — come talk to us.’” http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=12301&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=780072 ----- I tend to disobey a lot of these tips, mostly number one; black is my favorite color and I think it looks best on me. I might have to try red when I go out next. For those of you who have read the excerpts from this |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by LordReed(m): 3:11am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Hey but you wore red in that profile pix n you looked sexky Anyway you look like am arm folder, am I right? |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 4:14am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Oh, you saw that? Lol. That wasn't the good kind of red though. That red was suitable for a picnic lol. I'll try wearing a deep red or wine red sef. I am an arm folder! Apparently it's obvious lol. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by LordReed(m): 4:40am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Yeah you do have a lil stand-offish-ness about you. And you really could be more sexky if you tried |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by pleep(m): 5:14am On Jul 11, 2011 |
This seems like good advice. But The eye contact thing really bothers me sometimes. There's nothing more intimidating than when a tall hot girl is just staaaarig you down. So much sectual tension. . . If she's shorter than you it's cute tho |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MrsChima(f): 5:17am On Jul 11, 2011 |
(looking up at Pleep) |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by pleep(m): 5:20am On Jul 11, 2011 |
so how short are you? |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MrsChima(f): 5:21am On Jul 11, 2011 |
By your kneecaps. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by pleep(m): 5:22am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Yeeesssssss perfect! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by pleep(m): 5:25am On Jul 11, 2011 |
I love midgets because you can pick them up and [i]f[/i]uck them!!! haha jk i'm not that kinda guy. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MrsChima(f): 5:52am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Damn! I thought you was kinky for a minute! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by pleep(m): 6:08am On Jul 11, 2011 |
If I married a midget I would pick her up and sex her daily. No doubt about that heck, I could even do that to a normal sized woman! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 6:09am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Lord_Reed: I don't try because I'm not ready for what they sexiness may bring. . . relationship lol. pleep: I too agree with the eye contact thing. It can be mighty awkward at times. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 6:09am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Zzzz. . . |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by 190: 6:50am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Thread has lost its meaning already as a result of it already derailed If 190 does this same thing Its 4hrs ban straight no arguments Mod's well done |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Only a Classy Intelligent Nigerian Lady can Inure to this Tips easily and work it out perfectly. I wouldn't be excepting a calm and mustered high Self Esteem from a Shy Nigerian Lady, She'ld probably fidget to the point of forgetting her Shoes behind. . . Lol! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 8:01am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Errm, Poster, After a lady tries this on me and it doesn't work, What next Should she do? Carry bottle break my head? What works for you may not work for all! Nice tips for those who find it useful though! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 11, 2011 |
I never said it works for me. It came from a Yahoo article. I'm yet to try them myself. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by 190: 8:33am On Jul 11, 2011 |
ogugua88: Hmm . . . |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 10:22am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Any Lady trying this tips On 190 is wasting her time! |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MMM2(m): 10:39am On Jul 11, 2011 |
6. Open ur legs wide 4 d guy 2 see ur white g-string (if sitting down on a chair) |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Goldieluks: 10:40am On Jul 11, 2011 |
M M M: dirty diddy. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by 190: 10:41am On Jul 11, 2011 |
M M M: Gbam!! works all the time on me OP you have heard MMM- Give it a trial El Gualpo abi na lie i talk |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Confirm truth 190!! Dont even know why Ogugua missed out on that Tip |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by 9dynasty(m): 10:49am On Jul 11, 2011 |
7) drive in a tight S.U.V with yansh like cherokee now that will get my attention in 12 seconds. . . ok 10 seconds (did i mention a complexion like ogugua88's) |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MMM2(m): 10:54am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Goldieluks: sister 2 dirty diddy |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MMM2(m): 11:04am On Jul 11, 2011 |
190: what of d open and close style, dat 1 na bomb. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Goldieluks: 11:06am On Jul 11, 2011 |
9dynasty: 190,i dey greet oh. MMM, tufia kwaka kwaka. |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by gwenevier: 11:10am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Oh well,red is ma best colour dou |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by 190: 11:14am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Goldieluks: I hail - please gualpo and MMM are saying the truth bout how to get a man yahoo are wasting their time |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by Nobody: 11:32am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Did i Eva mention bout the Lady Promising to let the Guy have her Atm and the Password for a Day? |
Re: 5 Ways To Get His Attention In 72 Seconds by MMM2(m): 11:33am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Goldieluks Ok, Just try dat my method on 190. |
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