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Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Promzy99: 5:37am On May 07, 2022 |
[/b] So, some of us guys are always trying to think that giving a woman money is a form of showing romance to her, right? I think it is high time we know the consequences of giving a Woman you are dating or planning to date, some money. Money is a resource that means a lot in a relationship and it should be handled with much care. In that case, here are the four reasons why you should avoid giving a woman you are dating, money. [b]1. She will use you. Well, to say so, a woman will never take you serious if what you does is to give her money whenever she asks for it or even sometimes when she doesn't ask for it. It is up on you to realize that the woman doesn't need you to give her the money always. Stop thinking that giving her money is a form of Romance, and keep your money to yourself. That is why she will leave you once your money is finished. So to avoid being left in hard times, avoid giving her money. 2. She doesn't need your money. I don't know about your aim if dating that girl but the truth is, if you want a serious relationship with her, then you should know that she doesn't need your money. What a woman needs from you is your love and affection towards her. Those other things you are trying to do to make her happy are up to you. She doesn't need you to use your money on her and that is why you should avoid giving it to her especially if you want something serious with her. 3. She takes you as a provider instead. Well, if a woman finds out or learns that you are always aiming at giving her all she wants In the form of money, what will happen is that she will be thinking about you when she needs help. That means that she won't give you her true affection. A woman who only thinks about you when she needs some help is not serious and you have made her to. In that case, if you want her to avoid taking you as a provider and to take you as her lover, then keep money aside from your relationship. 4. It will make you poor. Just come to think of it, you are always the one giving her money and it seems like she never cares to give you money when it is time. All that happens is you giving out your money but she never gives you her money when it is her turn to help. In that case, within a short period of time, you will only be poor and she will not have added any value to your life. So never give her money. Hoping that makes sense to you. 6 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by thesicilian: 5:46am On May 07, 2022 |
Many men will seduce ladies with money and later start complaining that they love money too much 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Promzy99: 5:56am On May 07, 2022 |
thesicilian: Exactly Bro...We actually started it.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by CoronaVirusPro: 6:03am On May 07, 2022 |
Lamentations of a stingy broke ass hog 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Exkandayee(m): 6:03am On May 07, 2022 |
Women women all the time 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Onyiiobi7735(m): 6:04am On May 07, 2022 |
But some men are fools,oo! When you flaunt your money before a woman and use it to win her over,you must definitely get a succubus who will suck all the money out of your pocket.And once it's all gone,she moves. No man gets a decent woman by flaunting money. 7 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Nobody: 6:07am On May 07, 2022 |
Oga how can our gender stop raping women,make we still talk that wan. 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by odinson1(m): 6:26am On May 07, 2022 |
These foolish men who are ruled by what their dicks tell them,will not listen. They will still go on to waste their hard earned money on the promise of sex in order to assert their dominance as men. What these Idiots don't realize is that women see them as fools, imagine asserting dominance but you are the one on the losing end, doesn't that make you a compound fool? All the woman just has to do is show a little flesh,and the foolish man starts vibrating like a Christmas goat about to be sent to it's ancestors. If sex never existed in this world,and we all reproduced asexually,then women would have been completely Useless. As a matter of fact,men of old wouldn't have seen any need to protect them from wild animals,so they would have gone extinct by now. Sex is their only trump card,so they play it when they see any FOOLISH man who is ready to surrender his manhood and money for some few minutes of pleasure. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by odinson1(m): 6:27am On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007: You can create a thread for that at your spare time. Chiefbutcher007: You think there are rapists here on Nairaland,and telling them to stop raping women...will make them stop raping women? Don't be stupid. Even life imprisonment sentences don't deter them,they still commit the crime and you expect them to stop because some stranger on Nairaland advised them to stop? Magnoliaa: My God! You people are so dull! How can you even compare rape and simping in the first place? This is a thread to curb simping,you can create one on rape on your spare time. And yes,rapists won't see your thread about rape,and magically stop raping,no matter how you want to believe it will. Stringent sentences hasn't stopped them,you think a thread will? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Nobody: 6:33am On May 07, 2022 |
odinson1:I want you fvvls to put the same energy you use to talk about women in educating men. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by chiommy123(f): 6:40am On May 07, 2022 |
I really do not understand the type of boys you have here. So it's now a crime to give someone money abi? Anyways Sha how much do you even give out that we can not hear something 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by GooodHardDick: 6:54am On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123: Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality! 5 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Promzy99: 6:59am On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007: Rape is caused by lots of factors... Ranging from Simping, indecency in dressing, lack of discipline and self control from both parties.... Meanwhile, I would boldly hold Men responsible in most cases of rape, because they choose to reason with their third leg. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Promzy99: 7:01am On May 07, 2022 |
CoronaVirusPro: Opinion of a lazy female pest... If I broke na ur business? 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Promzy99: 7:05am On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123: 1Kobo is still money... Giving u d money is not even d problem... But making it compulsory and a yardstick for measuring who's worth ur pvvsy or not, makes it a problem... You guys are always at d receiving end... Its unfair, and unbalanced. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by JONSYN7154: 8:12am On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123:surprise him and send him money |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Uniquetani1(f): 8:45am On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007: Woman matter no dey finish 2 Likes
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Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by bmdmix13: 8:46am On May 07, 2022 |
Exkandayee:its a romance session what should they talk about? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Magnoliaa(f): 9:24am On May 07, 2022 |
You think there are rapists here on Nairaland,and telling them to stop raping women...will make them stop raping women? Don't be stupid. Even life imprisonment sentences don't deter them,they still commit the crime and you expect them to stop because some stranger on Nairaland advised them to stop? Okay. Rapists on Nairaland will not read and change, but simps, odogwu and sinzu spenders will read and change because you guys online say so. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by candygist: 9:28am On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007: It is left for you to decide. Every aboki with him kettle. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by efficiencie(m): 9:30am On May 07, 2022 |
Promzy99: Wehdone Counsellor General. Oga find a woman that is worth it and shower her with what you have. Find a virtuous woman and support her with everything you have. Her worth is more than rubies. She will do you good all the days of your life...with her by your side battles become easy to fight and journey becomes adventurous. However you will need the counsel of our counsellor general if you are rolling with a hoe. Many of you guys love hoes so much so take the counsel by the OP very seriously and perfect your hoe-management skills. 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Mcslize: 9:51am On May 07, 2022 |
odinson1: Don't mind some men. They just can't do without sex and masturbation. I thank God for my life sha. No sex, no masturbation. Those still battling with those two things are on long thing. They will empty their bank account carrying girls every fucking week. A week won't pass without carrying girls. It in the long run becomes a chronic addiction. So many men are fooling themselves trying to use money to impress girls or win them. What they don't know is that they will never be loved by doing all those things. Sex don't freak someone like me and I can't be acting like a fool for any woman just for something whose pleasure doesn't last more than 5 seconds. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Nobody: 9:54am On May 07, 2022 |
Only give her freely if she’s willing to give you. Otherwise, you’re just subscribing to affection that will expire when your money runs out. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Nobody: 9:56am On May 07, 2022 |
Promzy99:Any person that rapes is responsible for rape. The word ‘most’ doesn’t apply here. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Mcslize: 10:04am On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123: Na woman like u dey advice men in this video so. There are so many things men are doing wrong. 4 reasons why you shouldn't give the woman you date money https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sB-9QRnMoxI&t=11s |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Nobody: 10:08am On May 07, 2022 |
Uniquetani1:Big mama. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Uniquetani1(f): 10:52am On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007: Big papa 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by LogicBomb8: 12:15pm On May 07, 2022 |
Chiefbutcher007:At the same time you ignor the women that also rape men
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Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by JovialJune(f): 12:55pm On May 07, 2022 |
odinson1: So cautioning rapist online or nairaland will not make them change, but your "stop giving women money" and all the nonsense pills you guys keep preaching about on nairaland will make them change because some stranger on nairaland says they should stop abi? You see how meaningless you write up sound right?? So we should advocate for them to continue raping? Or we should keep shut and let them be? Is that what you're trying to say? How do you guys think for Pete's sake? Does your write up make any sense to you? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by JovialJune(f): 12:56pm On May 07, 2022 |
LogicBomb8: What stops you from talking about it? Is it a competition on who talks first? How are women that rape being ignored? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Lordedifice1: 1:07pm On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123: Stop encouraging laziness Be self sufficient to avoid disrespect Don't allow money rule you A guy can give his gf money when there's need for it,but giving her money anyhow is insane and inane. Remember you guys are not married so there should be some modifications and accurate measures to do things The poster is not condemning giving ur gf Money but he is saying that some guys overdo things that is not right Get my point I come in peace |
Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Her Money If You Are Dating Her by Lordedifice1: 1:11pm On May 07, 2022 |
chiommy123: Stop encouraging laziness Be self sufficient to avoid disrespect Don't allow money rule you A guy can give his gf money when there's need for it,but giving her money anyhow is insane and inane. Remember you guys are not married so there should be some modifications and accurate measures to do things The poster is not condemning giving ur gf Money but he is saying that some guys overdo things that is not right. Spending too much on her doesn't make sense because you are not guaranteed whether she's going to marry you or not,it's just a fling Get my point I come in peace |
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