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Am the kind of person that doesn't connect with people. I hate eye service ,am always real.
I hate begging for anything like money or favour. I rather starve than beg for money or favour .Am always conserved ,don't complian and I hardly let people know my problems. I rather seek for real solutions to the problem than beg people for favour. I rather work for my money. I hate free things because I see it as trap .
I lost everything I had since jan last year.
Most of people don't know ,they thought I changed my lifestyle not knowing that am cash strapped.
Am working on my life and ways to survive this predicament secretly without letting people around me know. Am I normal?

Oga, i see that as pride..in as much as I try to understand you , I would like to let you know you need people to succeed, a tree cannot make a forest...look around, there are genuine people who are ready to help...some stress can be avoided if you are helped ...

minexpo:
Oga, i see that as pride..in as much as I try to understand you , I would like to let you know you need people to succeed, a tree cannot make a forest...look around, there are genuine people who are ready to help...some stress can be avoided if you are helped ...

Am a gentleman to the core .

minexpo:
Oga, i see that as pride..in as much as I try to understand you , I would like to let you know you need people to succeed, a tree cannot make a forest...look around, there are genuine people who are ready to help...some stress can be avoided if you are helped ...

That's not pride. It's his principle of life. He mentioned seeking real time solution to existing problems and that's what most people should do to solve problems. It gives room for respect and be conscious of life choices to be made in any situation. Op, you're normal.But if you think some things can't be handled, you can seek for advice from experienced people on such related matter.

Miloski:
Am the kind of person that doesn't connect with people. I hate eye service ,am always real.
I hate begging for anything like money or favour. I rather starve than beg for money or favour .Am always conserved ,don't complian and I hardly let people know my problems. I rather seek for real solutions to the problem than beg people for favour. I rather work for my people. I hate free things because I see it as trap .
I lost everything I had since jan last year.
Most of people don't know ,they thought I changed my lifestyle not knowing that am cash strapped.
Am working on my life and ways to survive this predicament secretly without letting people around me know. Am I normal?

totally, think you are self-reliant

You are normal.

That is your personality and you are very normal. We are alike in this way. There are far more people routing for your downfall than for your success.

Even if you are to seek "help" or "assistance" from anyone at all be very careful. So many fakers out there.

Just keep on grinding, the reward is near than far.

well all i see is a self dependent man..., we keep grinding .

You will enjoy abroad should you ever travel.. A place where everyone has to answer their own names.. Not necessarily blaming uncle's and aunties like we do here in naija...

But until you do, you have to be subtly seeking help from people.. Nigeria is so messed up that most times for you to be successful in whatever you do there has to be people superior to you giving you the lift