@gridlock. Thank you jare. I told him, you dont need to have your own biological kids to love them or know how to take care of them.

if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.

if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.

i agree with ya 100%

second that

third that

nikinash:

if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.

people sometimes use protection but you know condoms can bust

@nikinash
I hope "definitely live with it" is not forcing an adult to have the baby if they choose not to. For me, it's OK for them to make a choice and live with it. It's unfair to eliminate choice based on morality, which is often subjective in every society.

@nikinash
I hope "definitely live with it" is not forcing an adult to have the baby if they choose not to. For me, it's OK for them to make a choice and live with it. It's unfair to eliminate choice based on morality, which is often subjective in every society.

if you can't do the time don't do the crime!

Well said. I think me am ready to do the time sha, so am free to do the crime?

F***king is not a crime, last I checked.

F***king is not a crime, last I checked.

hahahaha oooh shiit

F***king is not a crime, last I checked.

it becomes a crime when you don't give a hoot about the consequences.

the man decision,i think

how is it the man's decision?

He is not married to the woman, her body is under her control. It is only WHEN the child is born does he have a say over his/her future.

@poster

After having "Expected Sex(protected, unprotected, hidden or open, whateva)", then you begin talking about "Unexpected Pregnancy".

As long as Rape is not in the picture. There is nothing like Unexpected Pregnancy.
Its all a matter of responsibility.

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Even those who are married, after like 7kids, husband and wife still claim they werent "expecting" the 8th child. im like duh!

@the person above me
and your point is?? lol

@Free

If after all ive said you dont get the point, then im speechless!!! heres my reply again, shine your eyes and read it properly.

After having "Expected Sex(protected, unprotected, hidden or open, whateva)", then you begin talking about "Unexpected Pregnancy".

As long as Rape is not in the picture. There is nothing like Unexpected Pregnancy.
Its all a matter of responsibility.

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Even those who are married, after like 7kids, husband and wife still claim they werent "expecting" the 8th child. im like duh!

@kimba

Free got your joke.

nikinash:

it becomes a crime when you don't give a hoot about the consequences.

The consequences can be remedied by a simple medical procedure called abortion, if all concerned allow their head to rule over their heart.

I believe its the decision of the gurl.
she is the one to go thru the nine months
the one to breastfeed and wake up midnites
the one who buys more stuffs for the baby
the one who changes the diaper
put everything on hold to prepare for the baby.

my 2 cents!

@Africanboy, the proprietress of Mbari Mbayo is now a proud mother of a bouncing baby boy

lets face it only women that have been in that position can really tell, if u happen to be preg out of wedluck the only thing that comes to your mind is abortion, only those of them that are in it just the tie down the man dont think so, so sometimes the man might suggest to have it but it all entirely lies on the woman to carry or to remove, thts wat i know