olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!

I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! .....I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year!

Kobojunkie:
Game ke?

olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!

I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year!

olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!

I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year!

dawnomike:
The are going a downward spiral... Your eife is almost gone

Righteousness2:
Are u sure u are married? This does not sound as a Marriage.

capetownboyz:
Better staying off single than seeing nonsense like this .. wacko de worry u big time .. weak ass bitch

DoggoneDogg:
I know this game
It's called Pro Evolution Simp 9 on PlayStation

olaitonto:
I'm not weak! Financial incapacity can make it seem, I trust her to let her play cos she begged for it when I challenged it initially

Richy4:
You are playing games with us as well for coming up with this kind of story...I no dey play again

olaitonto:
We are married

advanceDNA:


U mean you trusted her to be go out with other men?? I dont get...i can never get it...

I never knew there's this kind of simping level

Nigaa open your eyes..your wife is taking advantage of your love, trust and gentleness..she has zero respect for you...shes cheating on you but hiding it with zero effort...this manipulation is horrible man..

This is why some guys have been shouting redpill on nairaland and women think men here hate them.....

olaitonto:
We are married

Righteousness2:
If what you put out here is the real state of things, then your Home is in a mess and needs the Healing and touch of GOD.

Take your home to GOD in Prayers.
Save this date. 11th-12th of June. Ensure you attend the program. Stand in for your Family.

Mindlog:
If your story is true, It is not being insecure but you are living in denial that your wife is sexually active with the man with the "excuse" she is playing games.....your wife is gone.

thorpido:
Are you Will Smith?He's throne that allows Jada play this kind of game.
Mister,no let money yab you o.This na game of dethrone.

Richy4:
Ok..
Let me see
<< You are married for 9 years..
<< The woman you called your wife says she is playing on another man's emotions.. you challenged it but could not do anything about it..
<< She speaks with this man at the ungodly time of the night.. (which you know)..U also challenged and could not do anything about it..
<< She chat with him using erotic words... You saw it, You challenged and could not do or demonstrate your displeasure with action..
Now the Question is
<< Are you waiting to make millions of Naira before you realize that she is playing with your emotions as well as that of the man..
<< Based on your thinking and perspective, how do you define cheating?

Righteousness2:
Are u sure u are married? This does not sound as a Marriage.