I was gisting with my elder sister's house governor and she told me her brother's wife just left him. I asked why and she mentioned that the babe won 1.2 million on naira bet and gave the dude the middle finger. I asked if there were previous issues and she mentioned that her brother had cheated consistently but ended up catching her once also cheating with her sales boy.

I laughed but on a deeper level thought, will a few millions help heal a struggling marriage or give reasons to break it irreparably?

Money dey stop nonsense but which kain?

My dearest, money is simply a tool. We do not blame a crazy bike for hitting someone but instead the cyclist is to be blamed. Money could become either a positive or negative force depending on whose hands it gets into. Secondly I must also mention that a cheat is a cheat. Cheating is a learnt behaviour. Both the person cheating consistently or the person who cheated once (with tha sales boy).. Hope this helps.

There were issues in that marriage and the woman already wanted out, not having money was the reason she probably stayed and when she hit the 1.2mil, she said adios.

gracie007:
I was gisting with my elder sister's house governor and she told me her brother's wife just left him. I asked why and she mentioned that the babe won 1.2 million on naira bet and gave the dude the middle finger. I asked if there were previous issues and she mentioned that her brother had cheated consistently but ended up catching her once also cheating with her sales boy.

I laughed but on a deeper level thought, will a few millions help heal a struggling marriage or give reasons to break it irreparably?

Money dey stop nonsense but which kain?

If a marriage is damaged it is permanently damaged. The scar never goes away on both minds.

Human beings will never take responsibility. Blame money rather than the people handling it. Well said.

TCMA:
My dearest, money is simply a tool. We do not blame a crazy bike for hitting someone but instead the cyclist is to be blamed. Money could become either a positive or negative force depending on whose hands it gets into. Secondly I must also mention that a cheat is a cheat. Cheating is a learnt behaviour. Both the person cheating consistently or the person who cheated once (with tha sales boy).. Hope this helps.

1.2 million is 100k per month.. if that's why she left; all the best to her.

The man should be happy now as both of them were never in the marriage

Ok