.. I had an ex- girlfriend who really assisted me during our time in relationship... In different installation, sh gave me a total of 540k in five months...the money issue later became our Waterloo..her dissapointment that I am not making headway in my then new business had her almost constantly wear a frowning face...infact,I lost all the money...had only the business structure left and my determination to make it in life...

Before she asisted ,I have. Never owned my own 100k at once before even at being over 30years then. I was very poor. Sh herself fought her way to prosperity..sh was and still is very very stable

We planned to get married once I had a balance,but sh couldn't wait as she suddenly fell to the normal ladie's believe that one's calamity is from one's village...in her mind sh bolted before sh would be drowned with me

Well, I continued to fight,using the business good will to secure local friendly loans till I began to see the shinning light...now I am worth millions

I am this kind of guy that will always pay thier debt or do whatever I promised to do..... Now I seek to mk her payback.. but in installments...

I asked my secretary to go fetch her account numbers posted on the wall in her office unnoticed.... I text her my plan.. sh never replied.. I went ahead to make the first 40k payment.. yet sh didnt reply or confirm... I have sent her loads and loads of messages about confirmation of my payment.. sh still refuses to reply...

I must add that after our break up which sh initiated, sh blocked me from all platforms, including calls...

What do u guyz think..shld I stop the payback process..?

Holly Gram Make THUNDER fire the both of una!



Make THUNDER also fire RELATIONSHIP!


WEED is my RELATIONSHIP and MOTIVATION!


WEED is my LOCATION and RELOCATION!


WEED is the PREPARATION to my EXAMINATION!


WEED is the CALCULATION to my EXAMINATION!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

I can't even prophesy because of the kind of English you wrote and you say you're worth millions. Oh well, let me leave here before I loose my prophetic gift.

This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:
I can't even prophesy because of the kind of English you wrote and you say you're worth millions. Oh well, let me leave here before I loose my prophetic gift.

This I have seen.

lmaoo

Why would you pay her back in miserable instalments.
Just save up and pay her once, she would understand though the value of money is vanishing terribly on a daily basis.

From the beginning of the story...
I know say u Bleep up...

If u want your respect just pay her back if you can and as soon as you can....

bigpicture001:
.. I had an ex- girlfriend who really assisted me during our time in relationship... In different installation, sh gave me a total of 540k in five months...the money issue later became our Waterloo..her dissapointment that I am not making headway in my then new business had her almost constantly wear a frowning face...infact,I lost all the money...had only the business structure left and my determination to make it in life...

Before she asisted ,I have. Never owned my own 100k at once before even at being over 30years then. I was very poor. Sh herself fought her way to prosperity..sh was and still is very very stable

We planned to get married once I had a balance,but sh couldn't wait as she suddenly fell to the normal ladie's believe that one's calamity is from one's village...in her mind sh bolted before sh would be drowned with me

Well, I continued to fight,using the business good will to secure local friendly loans till I began to see the shinning light...now I am worth millions

I am this kind of guy that will always pay thier debt or do whatever I promised to do..... Now I seek to mk her payback.. but in installments...

I asked my secretary to go fetch her account numbers posted on the wall in her office unnoticed.... I text her my plan.. sh never replied.. I went ahead to make the first 40k payment.. yet sh didnt reply or confirm... I have sent her loads and loads of messages about confirmation of my payment.. sh still refuses to reply...

I must add that after our break up which sh initiated, sh blocked me from all platforms, including calls...

What do u guyz think..shld I stop the payback process..?

your a poor man, keep on living in fantasy. you go soon start to find afternoon food

KiNg0G:
your a poor man, keep on living in fantasy. you go soon start to find afternoon food

I laff.... I no need explain to u how I made it... Enjoi ur pride...

bigpicture001 Big man please borrow me some #10,000 to start something little please!


I don't mind paying back please. You can check my posts and threads. I really need to start something no matter how little as jobs are not forth coming.

Uzomacharles:
From the beginning of the story...
I know say u Bleep up...

If u want your respect just pay her back if you can and as soon as you can....

Bad business and thieves took all the monies aaway.... I didn't pay my rent or buy a single top or short or give a dime to aany girl.... Misadventures happened too closely

You said she gave you 540k in 5 months which means she must have given huge sums of money at once.
Now you are worth millions and you want to start paying her just 40k a month which will take more than a year to balance.
What exactly do you want from her, to get back at her for dumping you, to show her you are now a big man or inside you, you want her back and using this means to create a bond with her.
Reconciling with an ex is not bad, just try to talk and see whether she is still available then move from there, maybe, who knows there might be residue feelings.
But if all you want is to show off to her, just pay her at once or you can even divide the money and pay her twice, send somebody to inform her that you have paid the money then move the hell on.

bigpicture001:


Bad business and thieves took all the monies aaway.... I didn't pay my rent or buy a single top or short or give a dime to aany girl.... Misadventures happened too closely

The main point there is that she gave you the money and how you spent it doesn't have anything to do with her..

bigpicture001:


I laff.... I no need explain to u how I made it... Enjoi ur pride...

you won scam people so that they go ask you the business

Uzomacharles:



The main point there is that she gave you the money and how you spent it doesn't have anything to do with her..

Sh was my gf.. and we discussed everything dayy to day every evening then.. both her biz and mine

KiNg0G:
you won scam people so that they go ask you the business

Hahhabbanna.. na so ur mentality dey reach..?
Well, I don grow pass that.. never menty what I do on this platform before.. only said. What shh did plenty times.. sh runs a medical lab...

But for me.., I usually call mine huzle

bigpicture001:


Sh was my gf.. and we discussed everything dayy to day every evening then.. both her biz and mine

No matter how the money was spent....
is her duty to decide whether you will pay her or not

Uzomacharles:


No matter how the money was spent....
is her duty to decide whether you will pay her or not

That is the issue.. I want to pay her.. infacct made first payment.. but shh is unresponsive.... Like still carrying the beef in her mind.. and if this period paasses.. I will never paay her again ever.. should I just continue to put money into her account while sh never ever confirms it.. or just cancell the. Payment entirely..


Mind u, then I incurred alot of debt aside. Her.. upto another 300k.. I have recently cleared. Those ones.. by same instalments paayment.. it's now. Her turn to start receiving....

In one of her complain then, sh said sh lockked. Herself inside her. Housse and started crying that sh was giving me this. Much money.. again events around the eventual break up her new gang of advisers told her tto leave thaat I am a manipulator who is just there for her moneey...

Baba, I started asking for. This asisst three years into the relationship, that's when I was ready to venture into really huzle.. but babe still believe outsiders instead of to trust me..

I Madea abow to pay her den.. but her attitude now in receiving the. Paayment is not encouraging

I need input especially from. Ladies... cuz I know they all think alike

Oga milion million you can pay the rest to me o.

On a more serious note pay her everything whether she acknowledges or not. As long as you know the account is correct. Always keep to your words and promises. If she doesn't want she will tell you to stop. Otherwise keep paying her till you pay your debt to her. That will prove to the universe that you were never after her money.

FalseProphet1:
I can't even prophesy because of the kind of English you wrote and you say you're worth millions. Oh well, let me leave here before I loose my prophetic gift.

This I have seen.

It's lose, not "loose'

FolakeBabyBoo:
Oga milion million you can pay the rest to me o.

On a more serious note pay her everything whether she acknowledges or not. As long as you know the account is correct. Always keep to your words and promises. If she doesn't want she will tell you to stop. Otherwise keep paying her till you pay your debt to her. That will prove to the universe that you were never after her money.

Very very much appreciated.. thanks

bigpicture001:


That is the issue.. I want to pay her.. infacct made first payment.. but shh is unresponsive.... Like still carrying the beef in her mind.. and if this period paasses.. I will never paay her again ever.. should I just continue to put money into her account while sh never ever confirms it.. or just cancell the. Payment entirely..


Mind u, then I incurred alot of debt aside. Her.. upto another 300k.. I have recently cleared. Those ones.. by same instalments paayment.. it's now. Her turn to start receiving....

In one of her complain then, sh said sh lockked. Herself inside her. Housse and started crying that sh was giving me this. Much money.. again events around the eventual break up her new gang of advisers told her tto leave thaat I am a manipulator who is just there for her moneey...

Baba, I started asking for. This asisst three years into the relationship, that's when I was ready to venture into really huzle.. but babe still believe outsiders instead of to trust me..

I Madea abow to pay her den.. but her attitude now in receiving the. Paayment is not encouraging

Don't tell her again just pay the money keep the receipt, send the receipt to her when you're done sending all the money. Good luck

bigpicture001:


That is the issue.. I want to pay her.. infacct made first payment.. but shh is unresponsive.... Like still carrying the beef in her mind.. and if this period paasses.. I will never paay her again ever.. should I just continue to put money into her account while sh never ever confirms it.. or just cancell the. Payment entirely..


Mind u, then I incurred alot of debt aside. Her.. upto another 300k.. I have recently cleared. Those ones.. by same instalments paayment.. it's now. Her turn to start receiving....

In one of her complain then, sh said sh lockked. Herself inside her. Housse and started crying that sh was giving me this. Much money.. again events around the eventual break up her new gang of advisers told her tto leave thaat I am a manipulator who is just there for her moneey...

Baba, I started asking for. This asisst three years into the relationship, that's when I was ready to venture into really huzle.. but babe still believe outsiders instead of to trust me..

I Madea abow to pay her den.. but her attitude now in receiving the. Paayment is not encouraging

if I were I would pay back the money to cut all ties with her so Incase if sha has any bad plan for you...
it will backfire her since your hand is clean

gracealonev:
Why would you pay her back in miserable instalments.
Just save up and pay her once, she would understand though the value of money is vanishing terribly on a daily basis.

Babe payback of anny kind is very difficult to do... I promise if sh complains about the installments.. I would add 50k to it... This is the. Only way I can paaybak without self distraction of my huzle

Just try aand understand

bigpicture001:


Very very much appreciated.. thanks

From your write up, i can deduce that you also want her validation and acknowledgement, maybe for her to finally recognize you as a successful person.
If not you could have just gone ahead and pay up without waiting for a reply. What do you want to do with her reply?
Since you see it as a loan, pay up and get the receipts across to her.

Just pay back her cash and have a free conscience. Even if she never talks to you again atleast you know you have paid back her business money. She can never bring it up in the future that you owe her..

Ximenez:

From your write up, i can deduce that you also want her validation and acknowledgement, maybe for her to finally recognize you as a successful person.
If not you could have just gone ahead and pay up without waiting for a reply. What do you want to do with her reply?
Since you see it as a loan, pay up and get the receipts across to her.

Sh knows dat I am now stable.. cuz I told her gat ND showed her prove just 8 months after sh left, cuz then I wanted her back I felt guilty then..even sh See's my services all around the town we both stay... that period has past...

Do u know how it feels that someone calls u manipulator ND says it's all about her money..?

Someone u gave ur all . I mean ur every effort to mk things work.. even help from h3r own biz..?

See I told her den that I needed her support financially, what else can I say.. but sh twisted it to manipulator ND pre plan stuff....

Guy every human has ego in one way or the other... Sh bruised mine... And only a payback will restore that... If I pay her by force ND sh want to dad to motherless, na she Sabi...

But I must pay her the money by force

bigpicture001:


Sh knows dat I am now stable.. cuz I told her gat ND showed her prove just 8 months after sh left, cuz then I wanted her back I felt guilty then..even sh See's my services all around the town we both stay... that period has past...

Do u know how it feels that someone calls u manipulator ND says it's all about her money..?

Someone u gave ur all . I mean ur every effort to mk things work.. even help from h3r own biz..?

See I told her den that I needed her support financially, what else can I say.. but sh twisted it to manipulator ND pre plan stuff....

Guy every human has ego in one way or the other... Sh bruised mine... And only a payback will restore that... If I pay her by force ND sh want to dad to motherless, na she Sabi...

But I must pay her the money by force

Thank God you are not under pressure to pay now, so it will be easier for you.
So pay and keep the receipts.
Before she'll come back and say you are where you are today because of her.

bigpicture001:
.. I had an ex- girlfriend who really assisted me during our time in relationship... In different installation, sh gave me a total of 540k in five months...the money issue later became our Waterloo..her dissapointment that I am not making headway in my then new business had her almost constantly wear a frowning face...infact,I lost all the money...had only the business structure left and my determination to make it in life...

Before she asisted ,I have. Never owned my own 100k at once before even at being over 30years then. I was very poor. Sh herself fought her way to prosperity..sh was and still is very very stable

We planned to get married once I had a balance,but sh couldn't wait as she suddenly fell to the normal ladie's believe that one's calamity is from one's village...in her mind sh bolted before sh would be drowned with me

Well, I continued to fight,using the business good will to secure local friendly loans till I began to see the shinning light...now I am worth millions

I am this kind of guy that will always pay thier debt or do whatever I promised to do..... Now I seek to mk her payback.. but in installments...

I asked my secretary to go fetch her account numbers posted on the wall in her office unnoticed.... I text her my plan.. sh never replied.. I went ahead to make the first 40k payment.. yet sh didnt reply or confirm... I have sent her loads and loads of messages about confirmation of my payment.. sh still refuses to reply...

I must add that after our break up which sh initiated, sh blocked me from all platforms, including calls...

What do u guyz think..shld I stop the payback process..?

you can pay all at once and delete her from your life completely. Please which line of business is that, I don't mind to do it

bigpicture001:
.. I had an ex- girlfriend who really assisted me during our time in relationship... In different installation, sh gave me a total of 540k in five months...the money issue later became our Waterloo..her dissapointment that I am not making headway in my then new business had her almost constantly wear a frowning face...infact,I lost all the money...had only the business structure left and my determination to make it in life...

Before she asisted ,I have. Never owned my own 100k at once before even at being over 30years then. I was very poor. Sh herself fought her way to prosperity..sh was and still is very very stable

We planned to get married once I had a balance,but sh couldn't wait as she suddenly fell to the normal ladie's believe that one's calamity is from one's village...in her mind sh bolted before sh would be drowned with me

Well, I continued to fight,using the business good will to secure local friendly loans till I began to see the shinning light...now I am worth millions

I am this kind of guy that will always pay thier debt or do whatever I promised to do..... Now I seek to mk her payback.. but in installments...

I asked my secretary to go fetch her account numbers posted on the wall in her office unnoticed.... I text her my plan.. sh never replied.. I went ahead to make the first 40k payment.. yet sh didnt reply or confirm... I have sent her loads and loads of messages about confirmation of my payment.. sh still refuses to reply...

I must add that after our break up which sh initiated, sh blocked me from all platforms, including calls...

What do u guyz think..shld I stop the payback process..?

Pay ur debt once and forget about her. She doesn't give a fûck tho. For ur conscience sake. How u go pay 40k inside half a million when u say it swimming in millions. Oga drop the block once she will call to appreciate u. But wait did she borrow u the money or na normal giving to help her guy? If it's the former I see no need to payback. Why not just appreciate her efforts with whatever u can spare. Probably the reason she's ignoring u cos she believes u owe her nothing. Anyway u try for calculus ontop money when babe freestyle

killmods:

Pay ur debt once and forget about her. She doesn't give a fûck tho. For ur conscience sake. How u go pay 40k inside half a million when u say it swimming in millions. Oga drop the block once she will call to appreciate u. But wait did she borrow u the money or na normal giving to help her guy? If it's the former I see no need to payback. Why not just appreciate her efforts with whatever u can spare. Probably the reason she's ignoring u cos she believes u owe her nothing. Anyway u try for calculus ontop money when babe freestyle

Sh never for one day called it assist u money.. it's always a loan that she refused to give but when I couldn't get from somewhere else, sh gave me, dou reluctantly... But sh did.. in five months 500+..
Now I still can't pay her in block cuz I never still blow just some very few millions that will hurt my biz if I pay once.. but I sent her. Message in consistent same money monthly installments for about 1year...

See alot. Of ppl borrow from app common 10k, den get the money but will still refuse to pay.. ND comes here dey abuse loan app owners...

I want pay.. but from all I read here.. I will damn wether sh confirmed it or not and. Keep paying into her. Account.. if sh no want mk sh dash orphanage.. wetin I know is that I paid her back..

I want to paay so I wouldn't be a reason a. Good girl will go bad.. forget about breakk up.. the girl good.. ND I no want spoil other. Bobo with good intentions way

bigpicture001:


That is the issue.. I want to pay her.. infacct made first payment.. but shh is unresponsive.... Like still carrying the beef in her mind.. and if this period paasses.. I will never paay her again ever.. should I just continue to put money into her account while sh never ever confirms it.. or just cancell the. Payment entirely..


Mind u, then I incurred alot of debt aside. Her.. upto another 300k.. I have recently cleared. Those ones.. by same instalments paayment.. it's now. Her turn to start receiving....

In one of her complain then, sh said sh lockked. Herself inside her. Housse and started crying that sh was giving me this. Much money.. again events around the eventual break up her new gang of advisers told her tto leave thaat I am a manipulator who is just there for her moneey...

Baba, I started asking for. This asisst three years into the relationship, that's when I was ready to venture into really huzle.. but babe still believe outsiders instead of to trust me..

I Madea abow to pay her den.. but her attitude now in receiving the. Paayment is not encouraging

You want the girl back that's why you are interested in her response/attention. Dude pay her the money and save yourself from guilt. Shebi u dey owe her, why are you after her acknowledgement as if u dey dash her money?