@ Richvkunt Finally the thread have been created waiting for response before i make my own comment

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some things to do in life:

make money

get a job

get an education

learn a skill

plant trees

lobby to get your road fixed

improve your spoken and written english or whatever language you speak

learn your family history if you have one

farm. Ise logun ise.

form a community association as a pressure group to dialogue with your local civic authorities. Or join one and go to a town meeting for once.

help a needy person in your locality

@chaircover Nice Advise up there and i guess someone ladis will start waiting for godot oooo Ladies abeg start shining your eyes ooo and waiting for that 1% that you are sure will not cheat, but when are you are waiting for the right man try to remember the 3 batches of cheater

a) Those that start in the early years of marriage (Early starters usually below 15 years)
b) Those that start to cheat at some points btw 15 to 30 years of marriage (Middle starters)
c) Those that start to cheat from 30 years of marital life and above. (Late starters)

with the Above oppinion are you still waiting? i hope your parents wont send you out of there house at the end of the day.

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^^ Well remember we are men and some men can hide for years and as a lady your getting old and about 3-5 of your friend gotten married and you where there on each of there wedding and also you see in there first 2,3,4,5 years they are happily married wont you change your mind? how about you get married and your hubby is still honest with you for the first 15yrs maybe after you have given birth 3-4 kids and he decide to play away match remember about the 3 steps of cheater. Even Pastor Kumuyi go for another woman after the death of his wife and at his age can you imagine?

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^^ am not misquoting you am only every lady want to choose wisely since they want the best man but what if the waiting take so long what will that lady be doing at Age 40 and all a suitors cheat on her,

chaircover:

If your fiance cheated on you with your best friend, and you go on to marry him, then it is more than likely that he will do the same after the wedding.

That is only if they were caught what if you dont know about there relationship what will you do if you find out at the night of your Wedding?

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Hmmm have you forgotten so guys are so perfect to extent that if you date them for 10yrs you will never see there bad side

@ Poster, more than 10% of married women will cheat on their husbands, for different reasons
- maybe the husband is not a sex guru in bed
- monetary reasons
- tired of doing the same thing with the same guy day in day out
- just for fun, and so on and so forth,
- to revenge, if she finds her hubby cheating on her
  i will safely say 40- 50% of women will cheat on their husbands, the only thing that might stop a woman from cheating is the level of spirituality. SO it is definitely more than 10%. Do not be fooled by any woman, shine your eyes well well, too.

bashy_demy:

Hmmm have you forgotten so guys are so perfect to extent that if you date them for 10yrs you will never see there bad side

Bash, if i really want to catch any guy cheating on me, no matter how sleek the person is, i will definitely catch the person, ko si mo sa fun e to!!!!, for my dictionary, only if i shaa don't want to bother myself, but if i really want to, forget it, i will get my info ni shaa, it is all about the 411.

@ronkebp Are you sure? you sound so sure of your self i hope you wont come on here someday with some sort of stories.

^^^^^^ Stories about what, ? what to do when i find my husband cheating on me?,, abegiii, that one na small thing, i have proffered solution to that one already, i have better things to do with my time and brain.

yes oooo, i am very sure of myself, especially to the so-called sleek guy, i will definitely find that nigger out, unless the person no dey match ground walker, if e dey do, ? leave matter, odenshiii!!!!!! nothing dey happen, i don find am out before yesterday gan sef,

^^ i fear you oo mo beru eyin iyami aro igba aso ma bale

lol,

You have to pay me for making you smile today

Thanks for all the responses so far.
@Mods,I believe this topic should be on the front page please,thank you.

Sorry my people,but I had to drive down to Ibadan and only just got in.

chaircover:

@richvcunt thank you for finally conceeding that NOT all men cheat and even though you agree that only 1% of men dont cheat it is a big difference from the 100% that you were claimng in the other post.

Ladies you have heard from the horses mouth so please please please shine your eyes very well before saying I do. It has been confirmed that there are non cheating husband material so please its better to wait a bit longer to find Mr Right rather than rushing for Mr Unsuitable because you want a ring on your finger by all means.

errrrmmmmm the 10% figure on cheating women is soooooooooo wrong. Now its the men that are in denial LOL. Do you really think that the wives of these 99% of cheating husbands just sit at home watching Nollywood sobbing their eyes out while their randy husbands are out there sharing their pap all over the place?

Many a randy husband is ignorantly bringng up the driver, washerman, houseboy, wifes PA's, shop managers children up as their own children. What goes aroud comes around o!. It is well.

@Chair cover-Please spell my name right if you want me to take your posts serious.(Just kidding,although we do not always agree,I always value your thoughtful contributions to any topic.)

tpia@:

some things to do in life:

make money

get a job

get an education

learn a skill

plant trees

lobby to get your road fixed

improve your spoken and written english or whatever language you speak

learn your family history if you have one

farm. Ise logun ise.

form a community association as a pressure group to dialogue with your local civic authorities. Or join one and go to a town meeting for once.

help a needy person in your locality

Tpia@MALE,
Is this your contribution or an attempt to derail this topic?
I know you can do better than this.
Okay,I promise to be gentle on you and Kandiikane when you both bend over.

bashy_demy:

@ Richvkunt Finally the thread have been created waiting for response before i make my own comment

'bashy,
I feel you brother.
Always enjoying your honest and truthful contributions.Thanks.

ronkebp:

^^^^^^ Stories about what, ? what to do when i find my husband cheating on me?,, abegiii, that one na small thing, i have proffered solution to that one already, i have better things to do with my time and brain.

yes oooo, i am very sure of myself, especially to the so-called sleek guy, i will definitely find that nigger out, unless the person no dey match ground walker, if e dey do, ? leave matter, odenshiii!!!!!! nothing dey happen, i don find am out before yesterday gan sef,

Ronke,it appears you are taking no prisoners.
I like your honesty,though.

^^ welcome back

Do you know that some women are the cause of their men resorting to cheating?
Had a friend back in the day,who was in a very violent relationship with his wife,now when I say violent relationship,I do not mean that my friend was violent towards the woman.On the contrary,the wife who was a policewoman used to beat up my friend and spray teargas in his eyes.(TRUE LIFE STORY)
Anyway the wife was very violent towards my friend,who wanted to leave her but could not cause she threatened to expose some of the secrets he had whispered in her ears in the throes of passion.In conclusion since they guy could not get out of the marriage,he resorted to having all kinds of affairs with various girls all over the place.
So any time he came home and his wife was violent to him,he just shrugged his shoulders and went out and had se.x with one of his girlfriends.
Honestly some forms of cheating start this way.

^^ i think you are right about this and that is enough to push man outside and since the girls out there will treat you with love,care and respect then what else are you waiting for?

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However apart from those who are forced to cheat because of violent relationships,there are men who just LOVE to cheat no matter how nice their wives/partners treat them.Are such men over se.xed or se.x-mad?
And it is not that they do not love their wives or partners dearly,they do,infact they are the most caring partner/husband,but they are just compulsive cheats.
Some men even enjoy cheating with commercial se.x workers,despite being married and having a woman at their beck and call at home.

You are absolutely right bro Happy sunday

@Ronke, plz I need to correct an impression. Some women (like you) believe that they can always find out "if they want to" when their men is cheating. That notion is very wrong. There are some men who go out of their way to patiently plan for an act of treachery, in this case cheating.
I'm not trying to boast, but if for any reason, I want to cheat on my partner nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing will give me away. In fact am a kind of BLAND and ordinary looking fella. My kind, willl tell a 100 truthful story without any lie. But when we lie, YOU will be the one to take an oath on our behalf that we saying the truth.
Pray, ur partner does nt hav any reason to PATIENLY PLAN ON CHEATING YOU.

@Abali1 help me tell am oooo

Abali1:

@Ronke, plz I need to correct an impression. Some women (like you) believe that they can always find out "if they want to" when their men is cheating. That notion is very wrong. There are some men who go out of their way to patiently plan for an act of treachery, in this case cheating.
I'm not trying to boast, but if for any reason, I want to cheat on my partner nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing will give me away. In fact am a kind of BLAND and ordinary looking fella. My kind, willl tell a 100 truthful story without any lie. But when we lie, YOU will be the one to take an oath on our behalf that we saying the truth.
Pray, your partner does nt hav any reason to PATIENLY PLAN ON CHEATING YOU.

Very truthful comments Abali1,but,don't you think it is possible for women to do the same thing to their men:I mean to chop and clean mouth and the man would not be any wiser?
Infact the children he is raising in his house might actually belong to a rival and he would go on training them.
Your thoughts bro?

^^^ i think you might be right on that but remember we are guys and can easily keep secret but for a lady there secret is not hidden for example we are friend a very close friend and we have dirth game outside do you know no matter what happen between us we can never talk about our extral marital affair but a lady will use that to get back on there friend expecially if its the time they are in bad time together you get what i mean.

bro, what I said actually goes both way. There is no fail-proof way of detecting a cheating spouse. But some ladies like to claim they can detect when a man is cheating.