Mr, Cork:

ladies use me all the time

Mynd_44:

Using goes both ways. A girl can use a guy se xually by just having him for sex when the guy feels emotionally attached

iyatrustee:

so you had to open a thread becos i used and dumped you

Sagamite:

Men tend to be focused on and are attracted to a woman's physical attractiveness.

They need to satisfy the attraction by tapping that attractiveness.

When a man dates a woman just to hit it without having any strong feelings for her and then after ends it, he has used and dumped her.



Women tend to be focused on and are attracted to a man's control/access/ownership of resources (e.g. money, connections, fame etc), his attentiveness to them and his physical attractiveness.

They need to satisfy the attraction by making sure he expenses the resources and attentiveness on them and he can use his physicals to satisfy them physically (hitting it) and socially (status - i.e. I am with a fine guy, that means I am beautiful).

When a woman dates a man just to ensure he expenses his resources on her or just to get his attentiveness to feel good about herself or suppress her insecurities without having any strong feelings for him and then after ends it, she has used and dumped him.

Hmm! The one and only Professor Sagamite of the Womanology Department of Nairaland! I dig you on this!

Using goes both ways. A girl can use a guy se xually by just having him for sex when the guy feels emotionally attached

Yoru_Igbo:

In Nigeria it might be a biggy but in Western world, Men get used on daily basis In fact some of us now are even 'useless' because no woman wan use us again after all the area chicks don use us finish in numerous one night stand!

Yoru_Igbo:

In Nigeria it might be a biggy but in Western world, Men get used on daily basis In fact some of us now are even 'useless' because no woman wan use us again after all the area chicks don use us finish in numerous one night stand!

Missy ★ B:

 

Topic :
Whoever was taken advantage of, was used and whoever was left in an unpleasant manner, was dumped. . . .Irrespective of gender. Yes, both male and female can be used and/or dumped.

Flyboy Zee:

Check out this scenario, especially in a developing nation like Nigeria,where everyone is looking for who to survive on: Comfortable well-to-do guy meets good-looking poor bottom-of the-social ladder girl. Brings her into his life, cleans her up (as in introduces her to good expensive clothes, perfumes, creams, other accessories - Gold earrings, BB, Recharge Cards), introduces her to his cycle of friends, take her out to exotic places and gatherings, give her top-of-the-food-chain meals, give her an education, get her a good job, maybe buys her a car too. Now, she is beautiful and socially respected as a big babe. Everybody commends her beauty, style and taste. The Guy looses his good paying job and starts teaching at a secondary school to make ends meet. The babe abandons him and tells him never to contact her again, as if he is now a virus.
That's an ideal situation of Girl using Guy.
U may ask who send am work? No 4get say the babe too been de tell am say till death do us part.

Flyboy Zee:

Check out this scenario, especially in a developing nation like Nigeria,where everyone is looking for who to survive on: Comfortable well-to-do guy meets good-looking poor bottom-of the-social ladder girl. Brings her into his life, cleans her up (as in introduces her to good expensive clothes, perfumes, creams, other accessories - Gold earrings, BB, Recharge Cards), introduces her to his cycle of friends, take her out to exotic places and gatherings, give her top-of-the-food-chain meals, give her an education, get her a good job, maybe buys her a car too. Now, she is beautiful and socially respected as a big babe. Everybody commends her beauty, style and taste. The Guy looses his good paying job and starts teaching at a secondary school to make ends meet. The babe abandons him and tells him never to contact her again, as if he is now a virus.

That's an ideal situation of Girl using Guy.
U may ask who send am work? No 4get say the babe too been de tell am say till death do us part.