Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

Agurichman:
Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

Don't end it, continue.

You do not have a girl friend aswear.

Issokay

Just discard her immediately

This one is just dating community borehole and he's proud to still call her his girlfriend... The said girlfriend is even doing nudes giveaway online.

Abeg tell your girlfriend to send me my own copy of her nudes I wanna quickly check something.. Here is my whatsapp number 08090539459. Please

Agurichman:
Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

did she show you evidence of the chat ensued between them both

If at this point you’re still asking for what to do then your case is beyond redemption

She will plead to you again for sleeping with your friend

Kimiso:
did she show you evidence of the chat ensued between them both

Yes she did but I'm just confused

U need better brain reset

It's pointless to advice you on the subject matter you raised.

What's the rationale behind her releasing her nudes and videos?

Isn't there a sexual undertone and precursor for sex and ultimately cheating?

If she had any regards for you, she won't share nudes that you have been knacking for public view?

It's obvious she doesn't respect you as after you warned her, she went submitted to blackmail...... Although, her ass is on the line here.

In summary, save yourself heart ache and move on

Agurichman:

Yes she did but I'm just confused

I suspect this is a plot to achieve money from the you,she might be the one using duplicate WhatsApp account to chat with herself,so it could look like another person chatting with her,tell her to give you that number blackmailing her and make a call to the blackmailer in her presence,

she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.

Plz clarify OP
Why would your girlfriend send her nude pic/ video to an unknown person.. I think she did that cause she wanted the person to pay her or she is a runs girl.. it's unfortunate that the hunter became the hunted... Lol
Please Op, you need to be careful of this your so-called girlfriend before she swindles you base on her nefarious and clandestine activities.

Kill urslf....

Next time use "Our girlfriend" instead of My "girlfriend" cos she belongs to the streets

Agurichman:
Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

dont end it

First class simp spotted

Fun facts:

1. Do you know that pig is the cleanest animal?

2. Do you know that Nairaland has the highest number of dumb guys than any other forum that's existing under the sun?

Was she hypnotized when sending the pic or under a spell.. Cause the story no add up
Pausibly they must have promised to send her money, for her to go to that length..

Abeg I they boost Facebook and ig account
Check my signy

You sabi write comedy, congratulations bro

Firstly She send nudes, secondly she sent money. With the way she's sending everything, common sense should tell you to send her back to the streets where she belong.

This guy stupidity is power by 10000 kva mikano generator

Dem supposed find you gun you down.

Wotoporiously speaking

Hahaha clueless boy

Your LovePeddler of a girlfriend has been a lying ass LovePeddler since B.C, go get yourself a new LovePeddler or pipe low.

You still use pampas abi feeding bottle?
And you believe her when she said it was a mistake and to a stranger.
Is she a celeb that a stranger will be blackmailing her?
She's not telling you the whole story abeg.

take her to ur family ,,, u must be mad

You know why it's hard to advise people on this forum

It's because so many are lies...just like this one up there.

Isn't it obvious from your own write-up what you are supposed to do?

Haba na

Agurichman:
Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

What do you do….Do dundun (Fried yam). You can also make ata dindin (fried pepper sauce)… Kneel down and serve her when next you see her!!!.

Lol

That gurl smart pass you million times

She wan run you streeet nigga buckle up

Don’t end it, you’ll need her for cold nights

I have this feeling that someone needs to be tied and flogged properly to reset his senses back to default before it goes beyond repair

Babe wan use this one cash out....























Ask her 'so what do you want me to do'?