immortalcrown:
Hmmm! This is complicated.

He cheats, even sleeps with house maids and still meets you to an extent that you resort to family planning after having 7 children. Wow! He is hot oh!

I do not want to emphasize on why abortion is murder (sin). I will not do it because I do not know your religious belief.

But what about other factors? I do not wish you bad luck oh! But who will look after your children if you unfortunately die or develop serious health problems in the abortion process?

Okay, let's assume you are lucky and the abortion is successful, what if the aborted baby would have been the most successful among all your children? Also, how would you feel every time you remember you aborted your 8th child?

I no go tell you wetin you go do. Weigh my points above and make your decision.

olasaad:
You forgot to add what if she died during child birth. You guys don't know that this life is not a Nollyhood movie. I don't support abortion but the true is Madam your husband don't give a dime whether you keep the baby or not. All na your problem

Raalsalghul:
Seven children in this current Nigerian economy?
SMH!

Klass99:


Ify Belgium . You mah, you don dey smoke weed? How can you be saying this kind of thing? The seven she has already have not wiped her tears away, neither have the two boys she clamoured for.

Shebi you saw the thread where a 22 year old user said his parents have 8 kids and narrated what their collective lives and living situation is like? I just don't understand what some people are doing these days when it comes to starting a family or building one.

Klass, this one is a miracle baby in my opinion .. He or she swam into an ocean when doctors have closed border.. No GPS or compass yet it went blindly till it finds it's destination... (He or she make a determined immigrant)

I would have given him or her a chance considering it's desperation if I am OP's spouse.. he or she really wanted a chance to come in and shine in my old school philosophy and Opinion..

Others were planned, this one isn't... Let's see what unplanned one can offer...
Though I don't fancy couples bringing kids into the world that they can't take care of... But the special circumstances surrounding this one, I'd give it a chance... (It jumped border patrols of the doctors)

Richy4:


Klass, this one is a miracle baby in my opinion .. He or she swam into an ocean when doctors have closed border.. No GPS or compass yet it went blindly till it finds it's destination... (He or she make a determined immigrant)

I would have given him or her a chance considering it's desperation if I am OP's spouse.. he or she really wanted a chance to come in and shine in my old school philosophy and Opinion..

Others were planned, this one isn't... Let's see what unplanned one can offer...
Though I don't fancy couples bringing kids into the world that they can't take care of... But the special circumstances surrounding this one, I'd give it a chance... (It jumped border patrols of the doctors)

GloriousGbola:


Means nothing. Every one on this earth beat hundreds of thousands of spermatozoa in the race to the ovum.

That is also arguably a miracle on its own

Yes everyone beats thousands of spermatozoa but many were not blocked from swimming..

If you think everyone is a miracle, then this type is an extra ordinary because there are hindrances..

It's just my opinion though.. not scientifically proven though..

Psalme91:
We are blessed with seven children girls and boys and I have been on family planning after having my twin boys last year in October. But I am surprised that the contraception has failed and I am now 4 weeks pregnant with baby number 8. I don't really want to have this baby because my hands are full with kids and chores I have been doing it all alone since I don't have any house help ( any girl I bring to my house my husband will sleep with them) I have decided not to bring anyone else to stay with us. He is still cheating and doesn't really have my time or our children times . When I has our boys after 5 girls I tought everything will change and he will stop cheating but it has been worser than that. I don't want to bring another child to this world to suffer like the others and I want to terminate the pregnancy as soon as possible without him knowing but I don't know if it will be a very good thing to do.
Please advice me if I should go ahead or not ?

Mumben:
@Op, I can relate. I av been in your shoes though not 7 as in ur own case, depression set in, so many evil thoughts began to sweep through my mind but my husband was always there to encourage me. He will always tell me not to do anything 'stupid'

Finally,I took the bold step and made a decision to have the baby and today when I look at him, I can't help but thank God for his life. He is mummy's boy and I love him so much.

It's not gonna be easy but you can pull through....go ahead and have the baby

LadySarah:
How Una take dey get erection for this Buahri Nigeria?

Richy4:


Yes everyone beats thousands of spermatozoa but many were not blocked from swimming..

If you think everyone is a miracle, then this type is an extra ordinary because there are hindrances..

It's just my opinion though.. not scientifically proven though..

NoToPile:


Actually I think it takes a sperm an egg and a miracle for pregnancy to occur,

The whole stuff looks so simple since we don't even see the fertilization process but it's quite complex (so we read) very extraordinary event if you ask me.

I honestly understand you.. OP said that they had a family planning done..yet, she still got pregnant .. that was why I am kind of feeling bad.. The kid wants to come, so he/ she should be given a chance to survive...

I am even feeling uncomfortable talking about if a life should be spared or be eradicated...
Body dey do me one kind now.. I guess I wouldn't say anything on this thread again because it's way out of my comfort zone

Neptunium:
The kid wants to come to suffer, abi? In a house full of 7 children already, where daddy no get their time.. him too busy chasing skirts, where mommy has her hands full chasing after 7 other kids ehn?

My brother, the reason why I liked a platform like this is that everyone contributes their own opinion..

Opinions expressed will be different because people were different.. and we don't have to agree... That's why we all are unique in our various ways...

The opinion I expressed is based on the empathy stand point considering the circumstances surrounding his or her conception...

I will never ask OP to take my opinion... She is wearing the shoes and she alone knows where it pinches.. it's her call to make...

I like your funny outburst though.. I don't know if it's me u were angry with, or the foetus or OP or the husband...I can read between the lines but this one is above my head.