Being shy isn’t unusual but it can make it difficult to approach the girl you have a crush on and ruin it all.

Instead of allowing your fear of rejection to prevent you from approaching your crush, you can work to overcome your insecurities and make yourself a confident conversationalist.

Approach your concerns about not knowing what to say to your crush like you might approach any problem and you can find your fears are easy to overcome.

Smile and make eye contact. Regardless of who you are talking to, smiling can make you seem friendlier and more personable.

Making occasional eye contact can demonstrate your confidence, but avoid making prolonged eye contact as that can be unnerving to some people.

Practice smiling and looking people in the eye when you introduce yourself.

It may be difficult at first but doing so can make you seem friendly and confident, which are both things girls often find attractive.

Smiling can also serve to make you feel better about the situation that you’re in. Studies have shown that smiling alters the chemicals in your brain to make you feel happier and more confident

Approach her soon after you make eye contact.

If you and your crush meet eyes from across the room, approach her soon thereafter.

If you look at her for a long time before approaching you may make her feel uncomfortable.

Looking at someone from a distance for a long time without approaching may make you seem creepy rather than friendly.

Your conversation should seem impromptu rather than planned, so allow making eye contact from across the room to be the catalyst that made you want to strike up a conversation.

Approach her and say hi, then introduce yourself the way you’ve practiced.


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